SCAMMED and MUGGED - Sheffield

[JayEZ2K]

Keep in mind that if you search for the scammers on facebook and other social networking traps, you will appear in their "people you may know" list. Better to have anonymous and completely unlinked accounts for facebook and other social network sites.

Also, for your own safety other threads mentioned a couple additional tips:
* Keep you clothes on until after the WG returns (after paying her).
* Carry a personal alarm. If you get trapped by the old "jealous boyfriend routine", pull the alarm and throw it to the other side of the room away from the door. When they go to turn if off, escape out the door.

[yorkieyorkie]

I say let’s just pay all 3 a visit.

I’m free everyday after 7pm 

[chsheffield]

Hi everyone, OP here.

I understand that my approach has had mixed reviews on here. I understand why that some people would turn to violence and others, like me, take an approach where they’d rather drop it and move on.

My number one priority with all of this was to warn others so they didn’t go through the same thing as me. Hopefully I’ve done that and I’ve saved some of you from what happened to me.

My wife now knows about what happened after I told her due to the guilt I was feeling, however I’m terrified about the kids finding out about this as they would never forgive me. I came out of the shadows to warn others. However, the attention this post is getting is increasing the risk that they will somehow find out what happened.

If any of you were to ‘pay a visit’ it would almost certainly lead to police action which would then be directed at you and would trace back to me. The police would inevitable end up interviewing me. Your life and my kids finding out, isn’t worth it the consequences of any ‘visit’.

The people who did this were scum and we shouldn’t drop to their level.

I wanted to warn you all. I’ve achieved that, and I hope it’s appeeciated by users of this forum. Please, for the sake of my anonymity and from my children finding out, let’s this drop like I have. Don’t drop to their level. Take my warning and warn others, but let’s not do anything stupid that would harm you or risk my children finding out.

I hope this post puts an end to comments on this thread.

Thanks and stay safe.

OP.

[MrMatrix]

Hi everyone, OP here.

I understand that my approach has had mixed reviews on here. I understand why that some people would turn to violence and others, like me, take an approach where they’d rather drop it and move on.

My number one priority with all of this was to warn others so they didn’t go through the same thing as me. Hopefully I’ve done that and I’ve saved some of you from what happened to me.

My wife now knows about what happened after I told her due to the guilt I was feeling, however I’m terrified about the kids finding out about this as they would never forgive me. I came out of the shadows to warn others. However, the attention this post is getting is increasing the risk that they will somehow find out what happened.

If any of you were to ‘pay a visit’ it would almost certainly lead to police action which would then be directed at you and would trace back to me. The police would inevitable end up interviewing me. Your life and my kids finding out, isn’t worth it the consequences of any ‘visit’.

The people who did this were scum and we shouldn’t drop to their level.

I wanted to warn you all. I’ve achieved that, and I hope it’s appeeciated by users of this forum. Please, for the sake of my anonymity and from my children finding out, let’s this drop like I have. Don’t drop to their level. Take my warning and warn others, but let’s not do anything stupid that would harm you or risk my children finding out.

I hope this post puts an end to comments on this thread.

Thanks and stay safe.

OP.

OP - you told your wife............... and what was her reaction, I mean was she understanding as to the reasons why you did this. Threatened to leave you, hates your guts or has it brought you closer as she realises how desperate you were in the need to have sex and feels she can do more to make you happier.

The forum can now learn whether its a good thing to tell the OH or not. Personnally its not what 95% of us here would do, but I think we are all interested as to her reaction.

Your biggest worry now is , will she tell the kids. So what happened OP

[chsheffield]

I’m not going to divulge details of my marriage on an open online forum, I hope you understand that.

I will say, that it’s been a terrible few months. I’m not sure we’ll get over it and I’m not sure i’ll ever be taken back fully. She did promise not to tell the children.

That aside, please respect my post above. I wanted this original post to act as a warning nothing more, these continued posts and replies are not helping, they’re increasing the attention this is receiving and I feel a victim of this continued spotlight. My intention was to help others, in return of trying to help others, people positing about this are creating more unhelpful noise.

I hope you all understand, please can everyone let this drop and stop replying and take the post in the good nature it was intended - a helpful warning, nothing more.

Many thanks,

OP.

[Naughtydoc]

It would be a very good idea people stayed away as IP addresses on this thread can be traced back

[Doc_lurv77]

Something very fishy with this now.
OP wanted the thread taking down for some reason, and now telling us how his kids may find out in the hope that the thread gets taken down by the OP.  IMHO reckon that the OP is being blackmailed by the 3 and the OP is now sh!t scared and desperately wants the thread taking down which is why he's also advising anyone to go down and give em a good seeing to which is all they deserve.

[Naughtydoc]

If your so bothered delete the threads? And I’m sure IF OP was being blackmailed this post would’ve gone

[chandlerhandler]

It would be a very good idea people stayed away as IP addresses on this thread can be traced back

As a total computer numpty, who can trace IP addresses? Admin or anybody?

[Naughtydoc]

POlice And they know about this thread

[vw]

POlice And they know about this thread

Are you posting this in a tin foil hat?   

[Naughtydoc]

I am actually

[chsheffield]

I’m not being blackmailed. After the ‘event’ I changed my number, I don’t use social media and I always use a fake name on here/AW etc. So there’s no way they will ever be able to contact me to blackmail me.

I simply don’t want a light continually shone on me/this event, as is happening with so much attention on this post.

After reading the replies, I expect that NaughtyDoc is one of the perpetrators. If so... Naughty Doc - I think you’d get more credibility for owning up to your actions, apologising and then i’d guess that other users of this forum would move on, like I have.

To all other readers of this post - Shit happens. The perpetrators are low, desperate and sick people. Don’t drop to their level.

[SeekingtheTruth]

I’m not being blackmailed. After the ‘event’ I changed my number, I don’t use social media and I always use a fake name on here/AW etc. So there’s no way they will ever be able to contact me to blackmail me.

I simply don’t want a light continually shone on me/this event, as is happening with so much attention on this post.

After reading the replies, I expect that NaughtyDoc is one of the perpetrators. If so... Naughty Doc - I think you’d get more credibility for owning up to your actions, apologising and then i’d guess that other users of this forum would move on, like I have.

To all other readers of this post - Shit happens. The perpetrators are low, desperate and sick people. Don’t drop to their level.

If they have no way to be able to blackmail you then they would have no way of getting in contact with you period.

So having the light shined on them should make no difference to you one way or the other.

[chsheffield]

My wife is reading these posts, is upset by them and she is anxious, that somehow, the children will find them and link things together.

I was trying to be helpful by contributing to this forum and to lend a hand to others to warn and protect, but the peer support I’m receiving is dreadful.

I’m not going to win this one.... Keep posting as and when you all like. I only wish i’d receive the support I requested considering the good nature of my original post. I will, of course, no longer contribute any further to this forum.

[SeekingtheTruth]

My wife is reading these posts, is upset by them and she is anxious, that somehow, the children will find them and link things together.

I was trying to be helpful by contributing to this forum and to lend a hand to others to warn and protect, but the peer support I’m receiving is dreadful.

I’m not going to win this one.... Keep posting as and when you all like. I only wish i’d receive the support I requested considering the good nature of my original post. I will, of course, no longer contribute any further to this forum.

There is nothing to win or lose. You gave a warning and the community is trying to ensure that they can't get away with it again.

[MrMatrix]

Blimey this is a strange one- he sounds genuinely shit scared. I mean why show his OH all this shit. He could have kept quiet and nothing would have happened. Still punting is clearly out of his comfort zone and add to the problems he's out lined I guess this has sent him into orbit and felt so guilty that he's confessed to his OH.

All I can say OP is I hope you get your life back together and your OH takes sex in a marriage more seriously as its the  main reason most of us end up using escorts. 

[Blazed]

I really don't want to come across as rude...but there's no other way to put it.

OP, you need to grow a pair. If you stood up for yourself in the first place none of this would of happened. Why you would then tell your wife is beyond me. You have made this far more difficult for yourself than needed IMO.

I have no idea how your kids would even come across this site, let alone put 2+2 together and work out who their dad is. I wouldn't worry about that.

My advice would be to stop worrying about this, and move on with your life. I don't know your circumstances obviously, but if your wife hasn't ditched you after you telling her what you did, then she's worth putting in the effort for, and you should try to make things work.

Anyway, I hope everything works out for you.

[yorkieyorkie]

OP has made a mountain out of a molehill.

Good luck to you pal especially with the Mrs knowing. I hope those 3 scumbags esp the guy get what’s coming to them.

[lewisjones23]

if the little fag had of robbed my stuff then id have put the bathroom door through and then likely put him down the stairs

OP is a wet lettuce by the sounds of it, most probably why his wife isnt putting out anymore

[ISTS2005]

As a total computer numpty, who can trace IP addresses? Admin or anybody?

I thought it was only admin who could see IPs. Plus thought there was something in place to stop those details being passed to Police in case of upset escorts making claims because they got a bad review etc?

[last_days_of_logan]

My wife is reading these posts, is upset by them and she is anxious, that somehow, the children will find them and link things together.

I was trying to be helpful by contributing to this forum and to lend a hand to others to warn and protect, but the peer support I’m receiving is dreadful.

I’m not going to win this one.... Keep posting as and when you all like. I only wish i’d receive the support I requested considering the good nature of my original post. I will, of course, no longer contribute any further to this forum.

I am so sorry to hear about your turmoil OP but a couple of things

1) you seem to equate support with everyone here just following your lead? I have to say though that the amount of support you have received here is a little inspiring....at least to me anyone. Look at how many like minded people are willing to lift a finger against these fucktards.
The worst has happened, your Wife has found out... this part is indeed sould crushing and i wouldnt wish that on anyone...i really do feel for you for that. but these people have committed a crime NOT you and they will keep on doing so until they are stopped...getting rid of the thread ALLOWS them to get away with this thing...as you can see the skinny twig of an insecure man and his rancid harlots are STILL doing it and probably because they know that people lke you have too much to lose and will fold eventually.
Please stay strong......like i said...the wife has found out...they cant harm you anymore

2). why would your children be able to find this thread?....In a million years i would never imagine children visiting a punting forum? i think in that regards you can rest assured that unless a sick person (like skinny twig man running the scams) shows it to them...then they really shouldnt be able to find out. Pretty sure people doing stuff like that can be done somehow? i.e bringing inappropriate material / sites to people not of age? Most likely wrong but i would be surprised is there wasnt something like that in place

Good luck with this thing OP and i hope the criminals get what they deserve.

[sesalovdarlo]

Wow I am a north east punter and was looking for a review for a lady for my travels to sheff next week with work. I’m so glad I came across this.

Firstly OP Hats off to you for bringing it to lads attention on here. I have had this happen to me twice. The first time it happened was a girl I saw few times in the past I was oblivious to her drug problems but after bringing what happened to me to attention of people on the forum they fellow punters shared news articles of her druggie boyfriend. I was gob snacked. Luckily at the time I wasn’t fully naked just pant round my ankles ready for her lol.I just got dressed and walked with my balls between my legs as soon as the “boyfriend” walked in I knew it was a scam and there would only be one winnr.

The second time it happened I had a very similar experience to the op. 2 touring girls from Manchester visited a luxury flat in Middlesbrough. I arranged a duo. when in the bed room (chose not to undress) a guy walks in. Skinny tight jeans tattoos like that guy^. He starts blackmailing me, telling me he will post pics of me on social media and stuff unless i paid him more money. I was taken back, I was literally twice the size of this runt and he was demanding all kinds from me which rang home that I am not the first person he has done this to.  I thought fuck this made my way out. In the Hall way I demanded my mo ey back he starts getting cheeky. I ended up punching him hard in the chin and he hit the floor very hard, completely out cold. My immediate reaction was sheer panick. I left the flat and drove home shitting my self of any back lash.

Luckily for me I learnt from past mistakes, I didn’t take my wallet or phone in with me so all i had was my car keys and money. Car was parked where they could t find it anyway. And I learnt to use a punting phone or flipper app (cloud based phone)

Lesson learnt. Hope it works out for you op and safe punting everyone

[MrMatrix]

I am so sorry to hear about your turmoil OP but a couple of things

1) you seem to equate support with everyone here just following your lead? I have to say though that the amount of support you have received here is a little inspiring....at least to me anyone. Look at how many like minded people are willing to lift a finger against these fucktards.
The worst has happened, your Wife has found out... this part is indeed sould crushing and i wouldnt wish that on anyone...i really do feel for you for that. but these people have committed a crime NOT you and they will keep on doing so until they are stopped...getting rid of the thread ALLOWS them to get away with this thing...as you can see the skinny twig of an insecure man and his rancid harlots are STILL doing it and probably because they know that people lke you have too much to lose and will fold eventually.
Please stay strong......like i said...the wife has found out...they cant harm you anymore

2). why would your children be able to find this thread?....In a million years i would never imagine children visiting a punting forum? i think in that regards you can rest assured that unless a sick person (like skinny twig man running the scams) shows it to them...then they really shouldnt be able to find out. Pretty sure people doing stuff like that can be done somehow? i.e bringing inappropriate material / sites to people not of age? Most likely wrong but i would be surprised is there wasnt something like that in place

Good luck with this thing OP and i hope the criminals get what they deserve.

I would hope you will look at this  thread again. The advice by Logan is sound- you should seriously consider what he says. And bestof luck OP.

[Starbucker]

My first post on here and it's a shame it's about something as unsavoury as this. It happened to me last year also , I put some warnings on CL and I made crimestoppers aware. Obviously nothing was done by the police. From the replies I received I would say this has been done to a lot of people and will continue if they are not locked up.

I didn't lose as much as the OP but its not really about the money. They locked me in the house , threatened me with typical chav threats like "I'll bite your ears off" " I'll burn you with the iron" etc.

I could well have got the better of them but I did not want to go home bruised. Blamed myself really for getting into a dangerous situation. I shook it off after a couple of days but would not like it to happen to someone more vulnerable.

Personally I think it's a bad thing that guys might not feel they are protected by the law because they are seeing a hooker , that's what I felt.

I hope the OP can move on from it but I don't think this thread should be deleted. It serves as a warning.

Anyway stay safe lads , they'll get what's coming sooner or later.

[MrMatrix]

My first post on here and it's a shame it's about something as unsavoury as this. It happened to me last year also , I put some warnings on CL and I made crimestoppers aware. Obviously nothing was done by the police. From the replies I received I would say this has been done to a lot of people and will continue if they are not locked up.

I didn't lose as much as the OP but its not really about the money. They locked me in the house , threatened me with typical chav threats like "I'll bite your ears off" " I'll burn you with the iron" etc.

I could well have got the better of them but I did not want to go home bruised. Blamed myself really for getting into a dangerous situation. I shook it off after a couple of days but would not like it to happen to someone more vulnerable.

Personally I think it's a bad thing that guys might not feel they are protected by the law because they are seeing a hooker , that's what I felt.

I hope the OP can move on from it but I don't think this thread should be deleted. It serves as a warning.

Anyway stay safe lads , they'll get what's coming sooner or later.

Welcome Starbucker. Yes this thread does serve as a warning- it can happen to any of us. I was taken for £190 some 5 years ago. Like you I shook it off and after a week was back to normal.

Can you give us any further details as to what happened in your case as its more recent. 

[Starbucker]

The same scam as OP put on. This 122 everingham road.