This is a classic story of a time waster so I'll keep it short. I always thought that in case of a cancellation a "neutral" is fairer than a negative (because you can only really judge the girl if you've met her, and shit happens, so anyone could cancel) but in this case and by the communication it became obvious to me that Elena knew well in advance that she won't be making the meeting but she kept playing me asking to push the meeting a bit later and as a result I wasted a good 3 hours in texting and travel back and forth.