Full body relaxation massage (Balham)

[kentpunterryan]

I was in the area for work and wanted a nice massage with a happy ending so this ad looked good, she has a website linked on her backpage ad and although she was nothing to look at the services described sounded good, comms were fine and the parking was no problem, i opted for her sensual massage which was £50 for the hour, the area is ok and the flat was clean and tidy, i was greeted at the door by the lady, she is Caribbean British with a typical London accent, a friendly enough girl in her 40`s a large build and again nothing to look at but sometimes as they say service is more important than looks, she started the massage on the legs and to be fair she is a good masseuse, she worked her way up the body and although it wasn`t sensual it was a good massage, after a while she asks me to flip over and again starts on the legs, i was hoping it was now going to get sensual, it didn`t, it was the same routine as the back, as she finished the legs she poured some oil on mini me and gave what can only be described as an average handjob at best, after i popped she cleaned me up and that was that, in and out in 50 minutes, the massage was good and a negative might sound harsh but the services described are total bollocks, it was about as sensual as a pork pie and although £50 is not a lot, i have had way better for the money.

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[BigBoi1955]

.......to be fair she is a good masseuse
......although it wasn`t sensual it was a good massage
......i was hoping it was now going to get sensual
......the massage was good

I think a negative is very harsh but as I wasn’t there I will accept that this is your opinion. I have seen Lucia quite a few times over the last year or so and have gotten to know her reasonably well. She is a lovely lady but quite shy. She started as 100% legit and it was only about 18 months ago that she extended her services.

 Like lots of guys on this board I’ve been punting for many years and during that time I’ve had regulars and have spoken to them about their experiences. One of the comments that I often have heard is “Why do men think I’m a fucking mind reader” Maybe Lucia should have quizzed you more about what you wanted but I think perhaps you should have given her some guidance. Some guys will cum quickly and don’t want things to get too sensual too quickly. Some men want a proper therapeutic or sports massage with the HE as a bolt on at the end and some will like extended sensual sessions. Other men will want two pops or more and some will struggle to get one. Some will like their nipples touched others don’t. Etc Etc Etc Etc

If someone was going for a regular legit massage it is normal and expected that the client will tell the masseuse what is required. Spend more time on my shoulders, I’ve got a sore thigh muscle, I don’t like my feet being touched etc etc etc. When it comes to a sensual massage the same applies. A masseuse really isn’t a mind reader and needs guidance.

I can understand if you don’t know if a masseuse will give a happy ending you have to be coy about how you approach the situation until you get the appropriate signs. With Lucia she charges £35/hr for a legit massage and £50/hr for a sensual massage. Once you have chosen the £50/hr sensual massage at the start of the session then you can tell her exactly how sensual you want it and when you want it to get sensual and there is no reason to be shy about it. This advice isn’t restricted to Lucia it applies to every sensual masseuse or escort you ever visit, tell them what you want at the beginning. If they then don’t deliver what was requested you can address it in the room or if that doesn’t work post a negative on here.

Although I would give Lucia a positive for each massage I’ve ever had from her anyone who goes need to know exactly what’s on offer and more importantly what not to expect. She has a website which has a FAQ page and I think anyone planning to go should read it. £35/hr and £50/hr are great prices for Balham but only if it’s what you’re after.
   
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[kentpunterryan]

Well BigBoi everyone to their own, i`m glad you have a good time with her but i didn`t, i did read the profile and i liked it, that`s why i went, but i found it to be one of the least sensual massages i have had and when i read this part of her FAQ i thought it might be at least a little bit sensual, but as i said, it wasn`t

" It is full body massage with lots of light stroking and fingertip touch. It is highly relaxing, very sensuous and the slow, soothing, rhythmic touch will stimulate the senses and often gives the customer an erection even before their penis is touched. I appreciate that everyone is different in what they enjoy and in the amount of time it takes before ejaculation occurs will vary from person to person. Unfortunately I can’t guess your preferences so I ask you to make any requests to me before the massage starts. You can do this by text or E mail if you feel uncomfortable doing it in person. If you are happy to “go with the flow” then no worries there is no need to make any requests"

So after reading that i thought i would go with the flow, but their was no light stroking or finger tip touches, it was not highly relaxing or indeed very sensuous and slow, soothing or rythmic, so as i said i`m glad you have a good time with her but i simply did not, i find her advertised services misleading and therefore stand by my negative, good for a massage but not for anything else.

[geeeee7]

I've seen Lucia twice.
I find her really attractive.
1st time I saw her was great. Lovely massage, (no cc swipes though) finished off with lots of edging, so much so, she was laughing at my reaction every time she stopped.
I enjoyed it so much, I thought I'd keep going back forever.
However, the 2nd time, all was going well, we were chatting, to the point where it got quite personal. She told me about relationships, and I said something she obviously didn't appreciate, and before i knew it, I was wanked off.
It was only as I was walking home, I realised I'd only had 50 minutes, including the shower afterwards!
I haven't been back since.
I think she's lovely. I would recommend her. Just shut your mou5h and enjoy it!