If you read the above posts , you'll see she got back in touch a day after I posted this, she did't know I'd posted a review, I gave it 28 hours after the agreed punt should have finished to give her time to put it right, or incase she was ill etc, can't be fairer than that, can I ? I directed her to my review and she agreed with my points, no hissy fits she was good about it, no doubt she's pissed off with me reviewing her in this way , but it was all her doing, every action has a consequence, I'm as layed back as I can be considering the general pressures of work , life etc, but never had this happen in 3 years and about 80 punts, and the fact it was a top £180 girl who I'd been looking forward to seeing for a very long time makes it doubly irritating , as for making me an offer, she'd have to be a lot stronger in character than she showed me last Friday to do that .