Nothing wrong with paying for it, I figure that if you want it why not, I never did when I was married. But now being happily single yes. Much easier than going to chat a bird up (not that big cock as pictured above - lol), pay for drinks, time and investment to find out she aint up for it
A friend of mine says he is looking at AW site but hasn't used it, but has paid for it when we went to Prague for a works jolly.
You usually find its the women that talk for talking sake, men keep schtum, if it needs to be said we will say bit no necessity to be the town crier