Am I Typical?

[Slaveofnature]

I just turned 60 recently am married but for a few years past have had pretty much no sex at all at home.  I've still got a high sex drive and I've been at a loss as to what to do. I certainly didn't want to think that this is it - no more sex ever    I turned to porn but it was like looking at an expensive banquet where you couldn't taste or eat anything and truth be told it made things worse for me. I wanted a shag more than anything - the first real one in many years.
I had never in my life considered paying for sex but then the thought started creeping into my mind that this was going to be the only way I'm ever going to get laid ever again and it started to make more and more sense. Firstly its pretty anonymous and secondly its better than having an affair not that this was on the cards as I rarely met anyone outside my small circle of friends. I like researching things and decided to do the same in my quest to find out how to hire a working girl. In my search I firstly found back page and was totally hooked. All those lovely girls - I had found what I was looking for and made my decision to go for it. Honestly, I've never been more excited in my life when I made my first contact. If you want a field report I'm happy to oblige but is there any format that you guys like to be followed? Anyway I had an hour of rampant sex  - the first in many years and I came out of the house feeling totally great  I'm now a confirmed sex addict and have moved onto and registered with adult work and from there had another three one hour sessions all different in their way but all pretty fantastic. There's been one bad experience with what I now know was a Romanian but I'm more savvy now and it won't be repeated. Its not just the sex its the initial contact, the build up and then the actual event. Its fantastic. The only thing is that its quite expensive and I've spent quite a bit in the last 2 months  - unsustainably so!
On top of all this I've found this fantastic forum with all its great members - you all sound a great crowd - and I don't feel so lonely and solitary about doing this since registering here.
Anyway, since its pretty expensive doing it nearly every week, I thought I'd ask here about swinging clubs. I'd read in a previous thread about the after eight club and it interested me but I'm not sure how I would be received. First of all I'm worried that I'm too old to be accepted at sixty. I'm well dressed and although I'm no George Clooney, I'm not repulsive either.  If I turned up would I be laughed out the door, ignored, and made to feel like a plonker or would I be welcomed. What would be the chances of getting laid, bearing in mind that I feel so randy since reactivating my libido that I would really shag any woman who came onto me.  Sorry for all the questions but if anyone can answer them you lot can

[perfect 10]

My situation is similar to your own in terms of home sex life and indeed initial spending on punts. However, as you say it eas unsustainable. Swinging doesnt appeal to me as i think its too risky that i will bump into someone i know !
Although i find punting addictive, my number of punts have decreased considerably from when i started out. No doubt tnis is mainly due to spending constraints but i find my urge to punt a bit easier to control as time goes on. In some ways it makes me anticipate  the next punt more .
I also find myself doing some overtime at work to justify my punting spending.
Hope that helps 

[Clattypats]

I just turned 60 recently am married but for a few years past have had pretty much no sex at all at home.  I've still got a high sex drive and I've been at a loss as to what to do. I certainly didn't want to think that this is it - no more sex ever    I turned to porn but it was like looking at an expensive banquet where you couldn't taste or eat anything and truth be told it made things worse for me. I wanted a shag more than anything - the first real one in many years.
I had never in my life considered paying for sex but then the thought started creeping into my mind that this was going to be the only way I'm ever going to get laid ever again and it started to make more and more sense. Firstly its pretty anonymous and secondly its better than having an affair not that this was on the cards as I rarely met anyone outside my small circle of friends. I like researching things and decided to do the same in my quest to find out how to hire a working girl. In my search I firstly found back page and was totally hooked. All those lovely girls - I had found what I was looking for and made my decision to go for it. Honestly, I've never been more excited in my life when I made my first contact. If you want a field report I'm happy to oblige but is there any format that you guys like to be followed? Anyway I had an hour of rampant sex  - the first in many years and I came out of the house feeling totally great  I'm now a confirmed sex addict and have moved onto and registered with adult work and from there had another three one hour sessions all different in their way but all pretty fantastic. There's been one bad experience with what I now know was a Romanian but I'm more savvy now and it won't be repeated. Its not just the sex its the initial contact, the build up and then the actual event. Its fantastic. The only thing is that its quite expensive and I've spent quite a bit in the last 2 months  - unsustainably so!
On top of all this I've found this fantastic forum with all its great members - you all sound a great crowd - and I don't feel so lonely and solitary about doing this since registering here.
Anyway, since its pretty expensive doing it nearly every week, I thought I'd ask here about swinging clubs. I'd read in a previous thread about the after eight club and it interested me but I'm not sure how I would be received. First of all I'm worried that I'm too old to be accepted at sixty. I'm well dressed and although I'm no George Clooney, I'm not repulsive either.  If I turned up would I be laughed out the door, ignored, and made to feel like a plonker or would I be welcomed. What would be the chances of getting laid, bearing in mind that I feel s :hi:o ra :hi:ndy since reactivating my libido that I would really shag any woman who came onto me.  Sorry for all the questions but if anyone can answer them you lot can

couldn't be arsed reading all of that...Thanks anyway..and welcome..

[Clattypats]

My situation is similar to your own in terms of home sex life and indeed initial spending on punts. However, as you say it eas unsustainable. Swinging doesnt appeal to me as i think its too risky that i will bump into someone i know !
Although i find punting addictive, my number of punts have decreased considerably from when i started out. No doubt tnis is mainly due to spending constraints but i find my urge to punt a bit easier to control as time goes on. In some ways it makes me anticipate  the next punt more .
I also find myself doing some overtime at work to justify my punting spending.
Hope that helps 

maybe you should get together n do an MFM...

[Slaveofnature]

couldn't be arsed reading all of that...Thanks anyway..and welcome..

LOL yes got carried away! Thanks for the welcome

[Slaveofnature]

maybe you should get together n do an MFM...

I'm up for anything before I pop my clogs Will definitely be doing FFM before years out.

[Slaveofnature]

My situation is similar to your own in terms of home sex life and indeed initial spending on punts. However, as you say it eas unsustainable. Swinging doesnt appeal to me as i think its too risky that i will bump into someone i know !
Although i find punting addictive, my number of punts have decreased considerably from when i started out. No doubt tnis is mainly due to spending constraints but i find my urge to punt a bit easier to control as time goes on. In some ways it makes me anticipate  the next punt more .
I also find myself doing some overtime at work to justify my punting spending.
Hope that helps 

Never thought I was the addictive type until I started this. Still much rather be spending it on this than gambling.

[Matrix]

 

couldn't be arsed reading all of that...Thanks anyway..and welcome..

[Randy Mcknob]

No you're not typical it takes all sorts.  Good luck at after8 if you're socially able you might do alright.

[bepi]

I just turned 60 recently am married but for a few years past have had pretty much no sex at all at home.  I've still got a high sex drive and I've been at a loss as to what to do. I certainly didn't want to think that this is it - no more sex ever    I turned to porn but it was like looking at an expensive banquet where you couldn't taste or eat anything and truth be told it made things worse for me. I wanted a shag more than anything - the first real one in many years.
I had never in my life considered paying for sex but then the thought started creeping into my mind that this was going to be the only way I'm ever going to get laid ever again and it started to make more and more sense. Firstly its pretty anonymous and secondly its better than having an affair not that this was on the cards as I rarely met anyone outside my small circle of friends. I like researching things and decided to do the same in my quest to find out how to hire a working girl. In my search I firstly found back page and was totally hooked. All those lovely girls - I had found what I was looking for and made my decision to go for it. Honestly, I've never been more excited in my life when I made my first contact. If you want a field report I'm happy to oblige but is there any format that you guys like to be followed? Anyway I had an hour of rampant sex  - the first in many years and I came out of the house feeling totally great  I'm now a confirmed sex addict and have moved onto and registered with adult work and from there had another three one hour sessions all different in their way but all pretty fantastic. There's been one bad experience with what I now know was a Romanian but I'm more savvy now and it won't be repeated. Its not just the sex its the initial contact, the build up and then the actual event. Its fantastic. The only thing is that its quite expensive and I've spent quite a bit in the last 2 months  - unsustainably so!
On top of all this I've found this fantastic forum with all its great members - you all sound a great crowd - and I don't feel so lonely and solitary about doing this since registering here.
Anyway, since its pretty expensive doing it nearly every week, I thought I'd ask here about swinging clubs. I'd read in a previous thread about the after eight club and it interested me but I'm not sure how I would be received. First of all I'm worried that I'm too old to be accepted at sixty. I'm well dressed and although I'm no George Clooney, I'm not repulsive either.  If I turned up would I be laughed out the door, ignored, and made to feel like a plonker or would I be welcomed. What would be the chances of getting laid, bearing in mind that I feel so randy since reactivating my libido that I would really shag any woman who came onto me.  Sorry for all the questions but if anyone can answer them you lot can

Try Fabswingers.com

[Uncle Buck]

couldn't be arsed reading all of that...Thanks anyway..and welcome..

Probably the best line I've read since joining a number of years ago.... classic! 

[auldie63]

Remember, you are only as old as the girl you feel!
I'm chapping on the door of the big 70 and am still having a whale of a time. I have a couple of regs I see when I feel the need and that suits me fine. If sex had been this convenient way back I might never have got married.
Welcome and lang may yer pecker staun!

[Harrymetsally]

Fuck the swinging.  The women are too much in control, fat and ugly.  You'll be sending countless messages to old fatties with attitude who have an endless supply of 20 year olds hitting them up and doing whatever they want.  Casual sex via online is over subscribed - women are choosey by nature and getting 300 messages a day makes them even choosier.  Not to mention you need to accommodate at your place a lot of the time.  And then they flake off at the last minute.  I think the swinging scene works for couples but not singles.

As for the expense, just set a budget and stop wasting money on anything else.  Really your wife should be paying for it and you should do it lots cos at 60 if you're horny and can get hard then you're doing better than 90% of the population.  Sex is a need, not a want so never feel guilty about what you spend on it.  The memories last a lifetime   

[J_H]

I don't think there is a 'typical' punter - we all have our own pecaddilos!

In my seventh decade and enjoying punting as much as ever. The swinging scene is complete waste of time for single males (unless you've got a 10 inch cock and are under 30) as it is totally dominated by picky females (and as yer man says some pretty fat, ugly, and precious ones). Time you fart about going through the hoops and spend on hotels you're as well punting - I gave upon swinging about 10 years ago, law of diminishing returns.

Look at the stunning girls you can fuck for 70 or 80 quid! Living the dream, really (as long as you can afford it!).

[Harrymetsally]

I don't think there is a 'typical' punter - we all have our own pecaddilos!

The swinging scene is complete waste of time for single males (unless you've got a 10 inch cock and are under 30) as it is totally dominated by picky females (and as yer man says some pretty fat, ugly, and precious ones). Time you fart about going through the hoops and spend on hotels you're as well punting - I gave upon swinging about 10 years ago, law of diminishing returns.

Look at the stunning girls you can fuck for 70 or 80 quid! Living the dream, really (as long as you can afford it!).

Well said.  And the swinging scene is a bit bare backy too.  Some stinky pussy too and you're expected to muff dive.  The odd gem but all the women are a bit fcked up on it.  Punting rocks in conparison.

[Slaveofnature]

Remember, you are only as old as the girl you feel!
I'm chapping on the door of the big 70 and am still having a whale of a time. I have a couple of regs I see when I feel the need and that suits me fine. If sex had been this convenient way back I might never have got married.
Welcome and lang may yer pecker staun!

Fantastic Was a bit worried about my age when I started out. Wish I'd started earlier - like in my 30's when I had loads of money and no committments. Beats chatting up birds in the pub then getting the knock back.

[Slaveofnature]

Fuck the swinging.  The women are too much in control, fat and ugly.  You'll be sending countless messages to old fatties with attitude who have an endless supply of 20 year olds hitting them up and doing whatever they want.  Casual sex via online is over subscribed - women are choosey by nature and getting 300 messages a day makes them even choosier.  Not to mention you need to accommodate at your place a lot of the time.  And then they flake off at the last minute.  I think the swinging scene works for couples but not singles.

As for the expense, just set a budget and stop wasting money on anything else.  Really your wife should be paying for it and you should do it lots cos at 60 if you're horny and can get hard then you're doing better than 90% of the population.  Sex is a need, not a want so never feel guilty about what you spend on it.  The memories last a lifetime   

Good advice    WG's is working for me just now and I suppose its the easiest way to go. Where else would I get these good looking young things in their skimpy underwear  The budget thing is a good idea. Somewhere else on the site someone suggested skimming a tenner here and a tenner
there added onto the shopping with cashback and thats what I'm doing. Soon builds up. And yes at 60 I'm still horny.

[willie loman]

A friend of mine used to criticise me for the cash I spent on punting, he was gay so didn't realise that getting a free shag for heteros is hard work. Now he is in a wheelchair after a stroke, and will be leaving around 750k to relatives.  There are no pockets on a shroud.

[Slaveofnature]

No you're not typical it takes all sorts.  Good luck at after8 if you're socially able you might do alright.

I'm a pretty social guy good at talking and getting on with people. I'll maybe wait a while and see if I can pluck up the courage

[Slaveofnature]

I don't think there is a 'typical' punter - we all have our own pecaddilos!

In my seventh decade and enjoying punting as much as ever. The swinging scene is complete waste of time for single males (unless you've got a 10 inch cock and are under 30) as it is totally dominated by picky females (and as yer man says some pretty fat, ugly, and precious ones). Time you fart about going through the hoops and spend on hotels you're as well punting - I gave upon swinging about 10 years ago, law of diminishing returns.

Look at the stunning girls you can fuck for 70 or 80 quid! Living the dream, really (as long as you can afford it!).

Yeah seems the consensus on here seems to be that its too much effort for very little return.  Yep £80 punts is the way to go then.

[Slaveofnature]

A friend of mine used to criticise me for the cash I spent on punting, he was gay so didn't realise that getting a free shag for heteros is hard work. Now he is in a wheelchair after a stroke, and will be leaving around 750k to relatives.  There are no pockets on a shroud.

At 60 I could peg out at any moment - seize the day!

[Slaveofnature]

At 60 I could peg out at any moment - seize the day!

Talking about seizing the day I had a bash at some bondage last week and now I've got a rope burn on my cock Bloody sore. Wasn't sore when it happened but got sorer as the days have gone by. Still sore after 5 days.
God knows how I'm go to explain it away to the wife if she happens to see my dick not that that's likely to happen these days.
Feel free to take the piss

[Harrymetsally]

Ha cash back on the shopping, nice way to skim the family budget.  I'd look for other methods like that.

[perfect 10]

maybe you should get together n do an MFM...

Hahaha good one Clatty