When She ticks all your boxes!

[GolfNut]

So I've punted maybe 100+ girls or thereabouts. Mostly good or better thanks to UKP with a few inevitable horrors.

Met a few that I really enjoyed but then meet one who just does it all and more besides.

Problem for me is that other punts just don't match up and feel like wasted dough.

So either I need to shake this one out of my system, find a better punt, give up altogether or just crack on and enjoy her until it fizzles either way.

Anybody been in the same boat?

[richie12]

Yes indeed fella!!

Fed up with going for newbie's and them either just being shit or not up to standard. I thought to myself- why the hell am I seeing loads of different girls when she does it for me every time, in terms of looks, attitude, enthusiasm, services offered, connection with me??? Admittedly have narrowed it down to 4, but the main girl I have booked for every week for the next 2 months!

The only thing to watch is that you don't get too attached, which is a fear I had initially. However if it is then just mix it up a little and see a different girl every so often, or like me find another 2 or 3 girls who do it for you and alternate it!! 

[Blackpool Rock]

Yes indeed fella!!

Fed up with going for newbie's and them either just being shit or not up to standard. I thought to myself- why the hell am I seeing loads of different girls when she does it for me every time, in terms of looks, attitude, enthusiasm, services offered, connection with me??? Admittedly have narrowed it down to 4, but the main girl I have booked for every week for the next 2 months!

The only thing to watch is that you don't get too attached, which is a fear I had initially. However if it is then just mix it up a little and see a different girl every so often, or like me find another 2 or 3 girls who do it for you and alternate it!! 

Yeah you need to make sure you don't go down with a dose of EAS.
I like to mix it up and see one of a few regulars that I know hit the spot then throw a new girl in every 2 or 3 punts to keep things fresh

[monstar]

Fill your boots with the one. 

I found the right girl but at that time had lots of top girls on my hot list to visit. She has now retired and in hindsight I should have visited her more and had less first meets.

My problem is I'm always searching for that better girl / punt and then fail to notice when I meet an amazing girl that ticks all the boxes.

[bod666]

I tend to find one girl that "does it for me" gorge on her for a while then we either get too comfortable with each other and the service level drops, or she moves on and I find another one.
I much prefer having regulars - can't be doing with the faff of going prospecting for the next hidden gem

[Marmalade]

Depends a lot on types of availability in the area you punt but I think of it a bit like a casino. (punt: "bet or speculate on something").

There's standbys that are quite reliable even if not all hitting the high notes (in Edinburgh, that includes a sauna shortlist and reasonably good SPs that are straightforward). They're great for 'Plan B's' or 'too lazy to look' days.

Then there's good bets, usually British, what I judge to be solidly reviewed. Nice for branching out with. Often a slight hassle to book as too few of them.

Then there's the roulette wheel of 'throw some money, see what happens.' Ones not yet reviewed, often cos they're very new. A half hour punt means not too much time & money wasted if they're crap. Excitement factor of 'new ground'.

Not forgetting 'desperation dive' - a revel in shitville (e.g. a Romanian or equivalent, usually because they're the only ones working at certain times of day or available when other options A,B-Z+, have gone down the Khyber.)

[will-ow]

I see it as eating a meal! If i had the same meal all the time, i'd either get sick of it or i could only enjoy eating that one thing. But never having the a repeat i may miss something that i really enjoyed! so keeping a handful of regulars with a new one thrown in now and then , i dont get too attatched or bored, or disappointed!

[cerealpunter]

So I've punted maybe 100+ girls or thereabouts. Mostly good or better thanks to UKP with a few inevitable horrors.

Met a few that I really enjoyed but then meet one who just does it all and more besides.

Problem for me is that other punts just don't match up and feel like wasted dough.

So either I need to shake this one out of my system, find a better punt, give up altogether or just crack on and enjoy her until it fizzles either way.

Anybody been in the same boat?

Yes me, over many years of punting I've always favoured regulars, girls often used to move around parlours and I've been to various locations to see the same girl, things change they "retire" or whatever and you have to find the next regular. The last one really did tick all the boxes, plenty of variety etc etc (she was into dom as well) Her personal circumstances changed and she retired a couple of years ago, I've not punted much since then (and had a short relationship, don't punt when seeing someone) just can't seem to find anyone who ticks the boxes like she did, maybe I'm bored with punting, time of life or whatever, the urges are still there but something is missing, maybe just lack of motivation.
I'll search on adultwork or parlour sites, see someone I like the look of, then do some research and see some negative comments and then bin that idea.

[NervousJ]

Pretty much the same here. I've found someone I see regularly now, ticks everything. I tend to chuck in a different girl each month or even more, but more times than not its not as good.

Nothing beats the thrill of going to see someone different, bit nothing beats coming away satisfied and knowing it was money well spent...

Il keep seeing my regular and chucking in different girls until I find another good un...

[cueball]

Now golfie, I usually enjoy pulling your leg and giggling along with it but this time no.

I've read your op and we all know who you're on about.

Going off your recent forum behaviour, she's more than a perfect punt for you.

You'll not like this but you're falling in love with a prostitute. It's not healthy for your head and your wallet golfie.

My advice is to cut your bookings right back with her, you need to get out of the cycle you have put yourself in.

You know this already though..... don't you!

[Blackpool Rock]

My advice is to cut your bookings right back with her, you need to get out of the cycle you have put yourself in.

Lend him a couple of cuties to put him off punting permanently 

[McSwell]

I find this interesting because I've recently found myself in a similar position.

Having punted randomly with a few repeats for eight years due to closure of my regular Parlour my punting  habit changed.

Browsing Adultwork  I dropped on a girl  I'd known in the Parlour  a couple of years ago. I knew she was a top punt so I managed to book in with her just before Christmas  since then I've  seen  her a further three times,  that makes 4 visits in six weeks and she's  great every time.

I know  the danger signs are there so it's good to hear other  punters  points of view.

To be fair to the girl, other being a great shag, she hasn't done anything to snare me.

She only sees a few punters a week so when I tried to book in on Adultwork  it took me a few attempts to get a time and date to suit, so  now I find myself  making my next appointment as I'm leaving her apartment.

It's a great feeling knowing my next booking is sorted, I can plan my work week around it, I don't have to scour Adultwork looking for  next girl, checking her out then trying to sort out dates and times.

So far it's working great but reading  the warnings above I'm obviously treading a dangerous road.


It's fun though 

McSwell

[stevedave]

Lend him a couple of cuties to put him off punting permanently 

We're trying to help the fella, not psychologically damage him 

For what it's worth, I echo cueballs comments...you're treading dangerously close to EAS territory, and I suspect you realise this. She may be a cracking punt, have a lovely personality etc...but it's just a job to her.

Step back, see other lasses, limit yourself to seeing her once every few months or something. Try not to contact her outside of business arrangements (difficult as I imagine you come across each other on UKE).

[GolfNut]

Now golfie, I usually enjoy pulling your leg and giggling along with it but this time no.

I've read your op and we all know who you're on about.

Going off your recent forum behaviour, she's more than a perfect punt for you.

You'll not like this but you're falling in love with a prostitute. It's not healthy for your head and your wallet golfie.

My advice is to cut your bookings right back with her, you need to get out of the cycle you have put yourself in.

You know this already though..... don't you!

Sound advice and I appreciate your candour matey

Not seeing her that often to be fair, but it is easier said than done I'm finding, as she is rather good. I'm assuming it will perhaps fizzle out eventually when over familiarity starts to breed contempt, or she drops the bomb and asks me to lend her some money. 

Now back to the leg pulling and banter 

[threechilliman]

I'm assuming it will perhaps fizzle out eventually when over familiarity starts to breed contempt

Or you run out of cash......

tcm

[mrfishyfoo]

Or you run out of cash......

tcm

Amazing how pro$$ies lose interest in us punters when we ain't got no cash isn't it.

[Home Alone]

Or you run out of cash......

tcm

That's very true, tcm.

I had E.A.S. some years ago and was paying far more than was sensible to keep seeing both the one I had E.A.S. for and my other Regular at the time.

The really stupid thing was that I was enjoying my sessions with my other then-Regular more than I was with the one I had E.A.S. for.     Visiting her had become routine; a bit like being married/in a relationship, I guess!

[mrdiamond77]

I have seen a lot of girls in the last year, some who were very good.  One girl though I found to be a cut above the rest and she has been my go to girl.  I am in a position where I do not raise my expectations too high when I meet other girls as I cannot expect them to reach her standards.  Still does not put me off seeing other girls though, but I think I will be seeing my regular mainly this year.

[Third Man]

and there in lies the problem for many a punter. to find a regular or not, that is the question!

[Taylor2441]

In the same boat.

I have had the pleasure of a number of WG's but looking at my past visits there are only 2 that I have re-visited more than once.

Both if these ladies are worlds apart in terms of category but fill my punting menu as needed.

[Gordon Bennett]

I'd happily stick with the best one for my monthly punting. I currently have three that tick my boxes but one's a bit expensive, one's a bit too far away and the other is hard to book as she's very part time. For these reasons I try out new ones closer to home and they're OK but don't match up. If I could find a decent local one I'd most definitely stick with just her.

[Essex.Fella]

Just carry on seeing her every so often..... there is a girl ive seen a few times that would go back to again, the only negative i can think of is that she only has tiny tits.
Other than that, blinding owo and deepthroat, prostate msg, cim, a levels and geniunely fucks like an animal. Huge smile on her face when i turn up and she opens the door and she is without doubt the horniest fuck ive had for a long time.
So, would i take a chance on a different one with a possible attitude problem and distant?? No chance, im going for the hot fuck every time.
Only problem was yesterday i couldnt get hold of her so had to settle for a wank

[Essex.Fella]

^^
Ps
Was right on my doorstep 2yr ago, she is now approx a 75 min train ride away

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Years ago - pre AW and pre UKP - I was a regular with a parlour girl in Cardiff  (the Welsh board may recall Lynsey at Ambassador's). She did just as this thread suggests - great looking, busty, filtyhy MILF. No EAS but I must have seen 30 or 40 times over a number of years.

Since then, it's possible I'm still looking for the perfect punt. Or it could also be that, with AW and UKP I'm now spoilt for choice and like a pervy version of a kid in a sweetshop   

[howrude]

No, there's never been a girl who's that amazing that I only want to see her. Sure, I'll have my favorites who I'll want to see repeatedly but it won't be one girl but a number of girls. There'll be one who'll blow me away but then there'll be another girl who is just as impressive. Or maybe less impressive but who I feel like seeing that day. Then there'll be new girls who I want to check out and girls I hadn't got round to seeing. Being able to see different girls is part of the fun of punting.

[Home Alone]

When I saw one of the 'reasonably-priced MILFs along the M62' recently, I remember thinking that when my current Regular retires, her successor had just passed her audition for taking over the role!

[tantric talents]

there is a girl ive seen a few times that would go back to again, the only negative i can think of is that she only has tiny tits.
Other than that, blinding owo and deepthroat, prostate msg, cim, a levels and geniunely fucks like an animal. Huge smile on her face when i turn up and she opens the door and she is without doubt the horniest fuck ive had for a long time.
So, would i take a chance on a different one with a possible attitude problem and distant?? No chance, im going for the hot fuck every time.

So any reason why have you not reviewed her here?
We do try to share info here on UKP you know...Not just the poor sp's

[Lister]

I like variety and tend to punt with lots of different WG's. However when I find a real cracker I will do repeat visits from time to time  - usually only three or four times over several months just to keep the variety going. I also travel about quite a lot so this fits in with my punting availability. Have thought about having a regular but I think it would become too routine and take the spice out of it.

[Essex.Fella]

So any reason why have you not reviewed her here?
We do try to share info here on UKP you know...Not just the poor sp's

I have, im sure of it, her name's Hellen and is in Stepney Green??
External Link/Members Only

[lostmymarbles]

I've always tended to favour regulars. I currently have two, although one is quite popular, so you usually have to plan ahead. The other, is someone I first saw maybe 7 or 8 years ago, basically retired, but still lets know if she's in the area, or I contact her if I'm going to be her way.

Like you, they basically tick all my boxes, so continue to keep seeing them.

[HailWood]

It is pretty normal for a man to start having feelings for a girl (working or otherwise) who is he having good sex with regularly. Evolution wired us this way. However as a punter it is important to remember that with a WG it is a business relationship which underpins the engagement not mutual love for each other.  I saw a WG exclusively for over a year because she ticked all the boxes and felt the onset of EAS.  My answer was to stop seeing her and find another (or more) who ticks all boxes too.  UKP certainly helped speed up this process. I do now see the original 'all-box-ticker' again but this time not exclusively and I'm completely in control of how I feel about her.

[Bud$]

I've been seeing the same girl for 3 years now, once a month, sometimes a bit more. The rapport we've built up means I don't have to tell her what I like, she knows. I do go for a few 30 min quickies near home but they are never, ever the same. The good thing is, I am never going to get attached to this girl. It's purely sex. In the past, when younger, I'd sometimes ask a girl to meet me outside, but I long ago got out of that and wouldn't dream of it now.