Link: External Link/Members OnlyI know what you're thinking: Nigel, you cretin, you've already done a "review" of this girl. Well that's right - on both counts! See here for my previous review (you only really need to read the summary):
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=126342.0Fairly soon after I posted that review she replied to my most recent message to her (which she'd read days earlier). She replied apologising and encouraging me to arrange another booking. I did wonder whether she'd seen my review on here (she has an account and has posted on here before) but she'd last logged in on 6th December (which is still the case as of now) so I thought it was unlikely (although still possible).
Despite my previous experiences I was still keen to see her as she seemed to talk a good game and evidently I'm gullible and stupid. I asked her if she would see me at her previous rate (the one she had the previous 3 times I tried to book - £130). She replied: "Yes, of course I'll honour the £130 - it would be ridiculous and unfair of me not to!". I agreed with her but since she was still well within her right to refuse I thought this was a good and promising answer from her.
I made a booking with her through her online diary (as I did the first time) and this time through the AW booking system as well (rather than just emails/texts). Her comms throughout this process were patchy but I understand that she is busy.
She confirmed the booking and when I triple checked the day before the meet she replied positively and gave me her exact address (which she'd not done before). I still told her to confirm on the day a few hours before though. The day arrives and she doesn't reply to my texts. Just as I was due to set off (although I wasn't going to until I heard from her) I check my emails (on AW) and she had sent me a message with the title "Emergency" saying: "I'm SO sorry, but I've left my phone, cash and bank cards on the bus this morning, so I'm stuck at home until I get it back. I really hope you've not already set off. Once again I can't apologise enough, but without a phone or any money on me I'm a bit stuck
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All the best, Fia xx". This was sent just 40 mins before our scheduled start time.
I asked when she'll be next available (hoping it would be an hour or so) but she replied "Next week - I'll see you as a matter of priority xx". It's no great loss though as my plan B is Louise at Sheridan's - where I have a jolly good time (see my reviews). Over the next day or two I fire off a couple of emails suggesting a few days and times. She doesn't reply - so much for priority! A couple of weeks later we agree a date but my something cropped up for me and so I cancelled some 6 days in advance of what was our 5th agreed meeting. At this point I realise I am being beyond retarded and just give up. I decide to leave an honest negative review on AW, mainly a mini experiment to see how she'd react. If you actually read her feedback you'll see at least 4 comments from different people (excluding me) in the past couple of months alone regarding her agreeing to meet and then failing to deliver. One fucktard even gave her a positive review for that! No one's had the balls to leave a proper negative (red) review though. My review is visible on AW and I'm aware it does somewhat "out" me but I have other profiles so it's not a big deal. My negative review simply reads: "Not the first time she's cancelled on me. She did do it in advance but not by much."
She disputes my review: "Sorry, gave all the notice I could...". Here's where she shows her true colours though - she's then proceeded to leave me negative feedback saying: "I had to cancel, gave as much advance warning as possible. Will leave you unfair negative feedback in these circumstances. Proceed with caution..."
At least she admits the negative feedback is unfair (but that implies hers is too - which it isn't) but this is typical prossie behaviour which I didn't expect from her given her previous attitude (in writing) - that was the point of the experiment though! Still, none of this is very important and it's a bit sad that it's descended into this, nonetheless it is a little interesting, if not disappointing. It'll also be interesting to see if she sees and replies to this review on here. If so, I welcome any debate.
To end on a somewhat positive note - my time hasn't actually been wasted too much since the 2nd cancellation as I've always had a plan B lined up and some of them have been great - so if anything I should thank her!