Phoenix Club - quick tips

[rogerdelgado70]

I am tempted by The Phoenix Club which is far out of my comfort zone because I have never been to one of these parties before. I would expect to be quite shy to begin with so wondered what the unwritten etiquette (i.e. not on their website) is during these events. I know everyone is encouraged to join in but how do you initiate contact with a girl there, either on her own and especially servicing some other gent(s). I guess it would become clear very soon into an event but I would like an idea of the flow of these parties. I also have other considerations like the safety of shared OWO.

I've read a lot of comments and reviews which has given me a great insight but would appreciate any quick comments for advice and scene-setting

[paul_2407]

Don't butt in, try to get eye contact and maintain it (with the ladies obviously), wear a mask if you feel uncomfortable, relax...

[rogerdelgado70]

Thanks. Makes sense. I guess it all becomes clear in the moment. Easy to overthink sometimes!

[tonibell99]

Don't butt in, try to get eye contact and maintain it (with the ladies obviously), wear a mask if you feel uncomfortable, relax...

I've never seen anyone wear a mask at LMP/Phoenix. I've only ever seen masks at a filmed event.

I would have thought it would bring unwanted attention on you which is the opposite of what you want if you are nervous.

Just remember, you will blend in with all the other guys. The guys are there for the girls not to eye up the blokes.

[raylondoner]

I've never seen anyone wear a mask at LMP/Phoenix. I've only ever seen masks at a filmed event.

I would have thought it would bring unwanted attention on you which is the opposite of what you want if you are nervous.

Just remember, you will blend in with all the other guys. The guys are there for the girls not to eye up the blokes.

That's why Batman & Robin don't go to parties! 

[vt]

That's why Batman & Robin don't go to parties! 

I have seen a few Jokers though! 

[vt]

For the OP...some tips I've picked up over the years:

1. Let the girl downstairs who's taking the envelopes know it's your first time an she will direct you what to do re. getting undressed, robing up and showering.

2. You then move into the Kitchen and are offered a drink...here you can chat to some of the girls, your chance to break the ice and introduce yourself as a friendly punter.

3. Once it's time to start and you move upstairs to the playroom, stick close to the girl you want to start with. Depending on numbers you may have to share her.

4. If you want to join in during the party, the girls should notice your eye contact and the intent of your body language and invite you to join...be polite, but don't be shy! You may have to approach them, stroke them or say something to let them know you're looking to join.

5. Have fun! 

Just make sure you get yourself there...you will be very nervous as the time & place approaches...but push through that and once you're with your first girl, you'll wonder what you were worried about.   

[rogerdelgado70]

Thanks vt 

Yeah, I'll won't be going the mask route. Would be more self conscious wearing that than a mankini on Brighton beach.

I know you can't predict the numbers attending but I'm guessing weekdays would be the quietest and possibly the afternoon parties quieter than the evening?

[paul_2407]

I've never seen anyone wear a mask at LMP/Phoenix. I've only ever seen masks at a filmed event.

I would have thought it would bring unwanted attention on you which is the opposite of what you want if you are nervous.

Just remember, you will blend in with all the other guys. The guys are there for the girls not to eye up the blokes.

Yea true, but I'm just suggesting anything that would help him hide his identity if that's absolutely important to him

[ClitTeaser]

My advice

(1) Book a place
(2) Relax
(3) Enjoy

We were all in your situation once.  Your nerves last 30 seconds once you get started.

[looping37]

What about the shared OWO question ? Good point. Any topic discussing the actual risks (in everyone's experience ?)

[drwho]

Lay off wanking for a day or two beforehand if possible.

Allow plenty of time to get there.

Clear the rest of the day/evening to drink like a fish/march around the streets of London smiling at the beautiful ladies you pass, with the recent memory that you've just put your cock inside so many of those exotic creatures earlier

[Mr Farkyhars]

If it turns out you don't enjoy parties, don't worry - there's nothing wrong with you. The only way to tell is by trying.

[rogerdelgado70]

I get what you're saying and thanks for the reassurance.

Still a bit concerned about the health thing though.

[2chunky2]

Imagine the Nike tick in your head and "just do it".  I had similar concerns before I had my first visit a couple of months ago.  You don't notice other guys, they dont notice you. It's a great atmos. The time I went the girls went a long way to please. 

I thought it wuld be a one off for me, but as fate would have it I have the chance to go again in approx 2 weeks. I didn't think twice about going.

To sum up. There is no need for insecurity my friend, go and have a load of fun, and then try and rememeber some of it and tell us!! 

[ClitTeaser]

Absolutely 2chunky2.

 The last time I went I enjoyed Kasia, Luiza, Vera and Ivana.  I am not young nor fit nor handsome either - but that is totally irrelevant when you are at Phoenix.

[mattharding]

Yeah do it, and report back

I had fun at Phoenix, when it was LMP. Presume its much the same. The nerves before are great, and when you get there its like being a kid in a candy shop )

[wtravel123]

Try to have some banter / conversation with the girls..

Of the 5 or 6 times I have been- by creating a rapor however small will see u in enjoy your yourself more.

My very unscientific analysis leads me to believe by just simply sticking your cock in a girls mouth without words won't lead to a fun time for both you and the girl..

[rogerdelgado70]

simply sticking your cock in a girls mouth without words won't lead to a fun time for both you and the girl..

Well, that would be the height of bad manners! I always try to avoid that. 

[Thepacifist]

Don't butt in, try to get eye contact and maintain it (with the ladies obviously), wear a mask if you feel uncomfortable, relax...

It's not about butting in, it's about joining in. Sharing is caring.

My advice is to go and experience it for yourself. They take good care of first timers.

[rogerdelgado70]

Do you get many voyeurs there? I.e. rarely if at all get involved?  I'm guessing not because it isn't a swinger club and £160 isn't cheap

[rogerdelgado70]

Well, I went 

All very easy and comfortable. I was strangely ok with 4 on a bed shenanigans etc.

Thanks everyone   

[2chunky2]

 

Going next week 

Now tell us about the shenanigans .....

[rogerdelgado70]

I enjoyed it overall but would be inclined to score it a neutral because after reading some of the reviews I think the Thursday 4-6pm session I went to was quite tame. Never thought I would leave there wanting more spitroasting but with the absence of any kissing I reverted to just wanting absolute filth!! The ratio was 7:4 cos Alexia didn't turn up. I'm guessing/hoping that it gets raunchier at times.

Happy to write a review if you think it would add value

[rogerdelgado70]

Posted review

[adindas]

That's why Batman & Robin don't go to parties! 

Lol
The Lone ranger does not go to sex party either ...
Next time someone will advice the OP to put his trunk on to cover all his head cover leaving only his eyes to be seen ...
 

[adindas]

My advice

(1) Book a place
(2) Relax
(3) Enjoy

We were all in your situation once.  Your nerves last 30 seconds once you get started.

Very true
Maybe good to start with body touching and go down  ....
I am sure the small head will start to react after seeing gorgeous girls naked, and touching meaty flesh .... ..

[rogerdelgado70]

I followed the most of the advice (no mask) and enjoyed myself 

[adindas]

I followed the most of the advice (no mask) and enjoyed myself 

Well done Roger. You will love it.
The future of punting is sex GB party. It will bring down the total cost of punting. More bang for the buck ... ....

Please keep inform the forum how you are getting on

[Goldpoker]

Hi guys,

This tread definitely looks good. After so much research, Phoenix is only punting that seems interesting, definitely a try for me. A fellow punter here from Asia. Do u guys think it will be werid for me to join in this party? 

[JamesRockford]

A mask would be quite a cool idea if everyone wore one, and if it was comfortable.  I've found that men and women lose inhibitions with a mask and it can be fun.

By the way, I often wondered whether Em would host theme events such as doctors + nurses, schoolgirls + teachers, etc but I suppose that this only lasts as long as you have your costumes on - once you're naked it's kind of lost.  The current theme events (bukkake etc) don't really tickle my fancy at all.