I cut my losses on the visit, because frankly she was crap. She is not the kind of girl I would trust for a bj, not that it was offered. It's her comments and behaviour during the act that keep on deflating your arousal.
Without re-living a crap punt in detail, I am saying AVOID. If anyone wants to give 'it' a go, then that's fine. My expectations are quite vanilla and I could even accept that she doesn't kiss or bj, and even then she failed.