Is punting a total waste of money?

[Silver Birch]

The cash I have spent in the past has definitely not been a waste of money. As others have said, recollections of life experiences will be remembered far more fondly (by ME anyway) than memories of material possessions, even the most comfortable of shoes 

I do worry that the money I spend in the future IS more likely to be a waste of money. Pretty much all my fantasies have now been ticked, and simply fucking a young hottie, because I can, is not enough. Had some good punts this year but not sure what I am looking for anymore.

Might pop into Clarks this week.

[squeezebox]

Might pop into Clarks this week.

 

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[spkmstr48]

And it becomes too easy to pick some prossie and you know with £££ you can easily fuck them.

Tendency to stereotype WGs on this site, personal experience suggests that money is not always the only factor. Take care when you assume it is. Take even more care when you find it isn't.

 

[spkmstr48]

The cash I have spent in the past has definitely not been a waste of money. As others have said, recollections of life experiences will be remembered far more fondly (by ME anyway) than memories of material possessions, even the most comfortable of shoes 

I do worry that the money I spend in the future IS more likely to be a waste of money. Pretty much all my fantasies have now been ticked, and simply fucking a young hottie, because I can, is not enough. Had some good punts this year but not sure what I am looking for anymore.

Might pop into Clarks this week.

Of course that always depends on who the young hottie is, doesn't it?

[Toshiba]

Punting is not an addiction but you can become addicted to punting

same thing 

of course you are addicted, once you cross the line the first time its almost an addiction as you always seem to find yaself coming back to it again and again.

some folk who punt more than once a week have a problem, but thats only my opinion, not a fact

[spkmstr48]

same thing 

of course you are addicted, once you cross the line the first time its almost an addiction as you always seem to find yaself coming back to it again and again.

some folk who punt more than once a week have a problem, but thats only my opinion, not a fact

Semantics but not the same thing, read again

[poi]

I think we should ask ourself :

Why we see Wgs ? then we can find punting is waste of money or not

IMO we are punting because one or combination of these reasons : 

1- High sex drive
2- We find real relationships too risky , if comes divorce we will lose more money than punting in long term relation 
3- We can't get what we want from our partner
4- We are busy and have no time and relation is time consuming , so punting is best option .

and well said The_Don : 

Money comes and goes, but time only goes, and it can be a meticulous balancing act, to use both in a competent way

[Diehard]

I tend to agree with the OP in some respects as having joined tinder (with fake pics of a good looking guy) having spoken to hundreds of girls on there it is clear how easy it would be to have a fuck with a civvie in almost the same time as booking a prossie as so many girls will seemingly do anything for a hot guy.

So it is frustrating that as I'm not good looking I can't enjoy fucking for free using a hook up app. I can get it for free of course but like a lot of us non hot looking guys it takes time and hard work.

And there is the point. It boils down to how you value your time. Unless you actually want a relationship, dating for a couple of weeks 'getting to know a girl' in the hope of getting a fuck is a waste of time and ultimately not guaranteed. With a punt you get to the end game quickly so the money spent I view as saving me a lot of wasted time which frees me up to do other things I enjoy such as sport.

I think punting therefore is only waste of money for good looking guys who could get free sex quickly using a hook up app, but don't have the confidence to be blunt and say to a girl fancy meeting for some fun at lunch time?

What is a definite waste of money is threesomes. I've had a few and none have been as wonderful as I had hoped.

[purple_t]

Very new to the punting game but so far have no regrets. Though I do sometimes think about what else I could have spent the money on. I have been on short holidays that cost less lol (flights and accommodation anyway, obviously not spending money)

[adindas]

There are a lot more than just good looking to pull the girl. Every PUA gurus will be telling you about this ....
In fact if you notice, the majority (if not all) of PUAs are not good looking, only avarage looking ...

I tend to agree with the OP in some respects as having joined tinder (with fake pics of a good looking guy) having spoken to hundreds of girls on there it is clear how easy it would be to have a fuck with a civvie in almost the same time as booking a prossie as so many girls will seemingly do anything for a hot guy.

So it is frustrating that as I'm not good looking I can't enjoy fucking for free using a hook up app. I can get it for free of course but like a lot of us non hot looking guys it takes time and hard work.

And there is the point. It boils down to how you value your time. Unless you actually want a relationship, dating for a couple of weeks 'getting to know a girl' in the hope of getting a fuck is a waste of time and ultimately not guaranteed. With a punt you get to the end game quickly so the money spent I view as saving me a lot of wasted time which frees me up to do other things I enjoy such as sport.

I think punting therefore is only waste of money for good looking guys who could get free sex quickly using a hook up app, but don't have the confidence to be blunt and say to a girl fancy meeting for some fun at lunch time?

What is a definite waste of money is threesomes. I've had a few and none have been as wonderful as I had hoped.

[purple_t]

There are a lot more than just good looking to pull the girl. Every PUA gurus will be telling you about this ....
In fact if you notice, the majority (if not all) of PUAs are not good looking, only avarage looking ...

Going off-topic a bit but PUAs are just scam artists. Looks is the primary factor in attraction for both men and women.

[adindas]

Going off-topic a bit but PUAs are just scam artists. Looks is the primary factor in attraction for both men and women.

Yes, look is one main factor for attraction but not the only one.

What about personality, what about  the people who are good looking but shy, do not have confidence, do not have social skills, poor communication skills and do not know how to chat with people to make other people feel good and special, do not have knowledge where to meet people, etc.

Here is just random check up to what the expert is saying
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[Diehard]

There are a lot more than just good looking to pull the girl. Every PUA gurus will be telling you about this ....
In fact if you notice, the majority (if not all) of PUAs are not good looking, only avarage looking ...

PUA?

[anyfucker]

PUA?

Pick Up Artist, usually a guy who will sell you his wonderful advice to enable you to "pick up" girls.
Mostly, like other quick fixes; to make you slimmer, musclier, have a bigger dick .... a scam to part you with your money.
If you want to improve at something you have to get out there and practice, make yourself more interesting ....
He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.

[jimbobwood]

No, it's not a waste of money! The adrenaline rush you get having a good aggressive enthusiastic fuck is priceless. Also having fetish/kinks met without worrying what the other person thinks because they are being paid to do what you want.

Holidays and punting is what the majority of my money goes towards. Combine the two and it's a win/win!

These are clear vivid memories that will stay with you forever. It might be the only thing we can take with us after we die. Punt when you really want a punt, not for the sake of it. It's like having a delicious meal, when you feel full. Use punting when you need it.

For me, punting has been a godsend.

[purple_t]

Pick Up Artist, usually a guy who will sell you his wonderful advice to enable you to "pick up" girls.
Mostly, like other quick fixes; to make you slimmer, musclier, have a bigger dick .... a scam to part you with your money.
If you want to improve at something you have to get out there and practice, make yourself more interesting ....
He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.

Yeah it's all a scam, I feel sorry for the lonely guys who spend thousands on PUA courses... think how many punts they could have bought, which would probably have helped them with their confidence issues a lot more in the grand scheme of things!

I'm dubious there really is such a thing as 'game'. You'll have a hard time talking a woman into bed if she isn't physically attracted to you, unless you are rich / high status (at that point it is essentially just prostitution again, so may as well just see a real prossie). The sad truth is women are not all that concerned with personslity, as long as she is very nmuch attracted to you and you act normally and not socially retarded, it's hard to fuck it up

[Jimmyredcab]

some folk who punt more than once a week have a problem, but thats only my opinion, not a fact

I agree totally.
The only time I can say I punted daily was in Thailand ------------ and even then I would take a few days off.   

[unclesweetheart]

No. It's been a blast.

[Oberyn1]

Going off-topic a bit but PUAs are just scam artists. Looks is the primary factor in attraction for both men and women.

Bullsh*t! Plenty of ugly guys with attractive women.

[Oberyn1]

Yeah it's all a scam, I feel sorry for the lonely guys who spend thousands on PUA courses... think how many punts they could have bought, which would probably have helped them with their confidence issues a lot more in the grand scheme of things!

I'm dubious there really is such a thing as 'game'. You'll have a hard time talking a woman into bed if she isn't physically attracted to you, unless you are rich / high status (at that point it is essentially just prostitution again, so may as well just see a real prossie). The sad truth is women are not all that concerned with personslity, as long as she is very nmuch attracted to you and you act normally and not socially retarded, it's hard to fuck it up

PUA is a bunch of crap.

Check this guy out. He isn't that attractive, he knows his limitations but he is able to meet women on the street. Watch these if you want proof...tell me what is more natural than meeting women in public and chatting them up?

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[purple_t]

Bullsh*t! Plenty of ugly guys with attractive women.

Yeah if they are rich and / or high status. But looks will trump both every time.

[adindas]

+1
If punting was a waste money then:
- Holiday, Holidays abroad, Luxurious Holidays were also a waste of money.
- Luxurious, delicious meal in a posh restaurant was a waste of money as majority of it would go to the toilet thereafter. Also keep in mind sometimes less delicious and less expensive meal are more nutritiously rich than luxurious meal.
- Visiting a museum were a waste of money
- Buying an expensive car was a waste of money
- Etc, etc There are tons more analogy

People who do not enjoy punting because of personal, religious, morality reason will consider it as a waste of money while others who enjoy it will not consider it as such. It is about personal experience, memory that will stay with you for years to come. It is just a matter of time that you might have of money to spend in the future but you might not be able to punt anymore due to illness, age, etc.

Punting is not a waste of money for people who have money to cover their basic need and have disposable income to do so and they enjoy it ....

No, it's not a waste of money! The adrenaline rush you get having a good aggressive enthusiastic fuck is priceless. Also having fetish/kinks met without worrying what the other person thinks because they are being paid to do what you want.

Holidays and punting is what the majority of my money goes towards. Combine the two and it's a win/win!

These are clear vivid memories that will stay with you forever. It might be the only thing we can take with us after we die. Punt when you really want a punt, not for the sake of it. It's like having a delicious meal, when you feel full. Use punting when you need it.

For me, punting has been a godsend.

[Jimmyredcab]

Punting is not a waste of money for people who have money to cover their basic need and have disposable income to do so and they enjoy it ....

I agree, but the problem is that some people will spend more on punting than they can really afford, the same applies to gamblers.     

[NIK]

Went for a couple of walks in my new footwear. Of course both pairs hurt as most new shoes seem to. Have to lay off them for a bit till my feet are better! 
As they say you should break them in before you wear them.   

Maybe I should have gone for that punt instead? 

[itk]

I seem to be doing to same as the OP, saving the money for a punt only to then spend it on something else, such as clothes or more recently updating my fishing gear. The reason for me though is probably down to the lack of decent WG's within my price range and distance. I'm now looking further afield which will make the punt more expensive and time consuming.
If I had a regular close though I doubt I'd even bother considering not punting.

[mcardle464]

I think adindas put it very well.  It's a recreational activity which some of us like very much.  I could have gone to Alton Towers instead 

[Turtle1]

Going on a night out and actually pulling can cost upwards of £200. There's hotels, cab, drinks, entrace fees, food, it all adds up. Plus there the mrs to worry about. hooking up on a night out leaves you open to be caught by the mrs. You leave a trail behind. Punting is cheaper and involves less risk.

Not going to lie, i just enjoy punting. There is this thrill about what we do. I have a nice GF, i have several old sex buddies who i can get in touch with but for me its the cheap cheeky punt with an exotic woman and then just leaving with no hassle that gets me pumped.

[Markus]

In this country, at least we have the option to punt. If there was a change in the law or we lived in another country, it might not even be an option.

I could spend money on better things and having read the thread on some of the countries in Europe, it seems like the best way to combine punting and travelling so I am definitely going to try that in the summer.

All of these things we spend our money on are temporary highs, whether they are clothes or punting. Ive lost count the number of times Ive heard a woman say 'you can never have too many shoes'

That being said, I am in one of those 'living for the moment' stages whereby I am taking my opportunities when I can get them. 

[Markus]

I bet all these people that got injured on the Alton Towers ride were thinking 'I could have been punting instead' 

Not that they will be too bothered, apparently they are in line for a multi million pound payment.

I think adindas put it very well.  It's a recreational activity which some of us like very much.  I could have gone to Alton Towers instead 

[Silver Birch]

I bet all these people that got injured on the Alton Towers ride were thinking 'I could have been punting instead' 

Not that they will be too bothered, apparently they are in line for a multi million pound payment.

Huh? I'd rather still have TWO legs.

[TheCape]

Quite. Despite all the things that have not worked out for me recently, I am lucky to have my health. That poor girl who has lost a leg would happily swap our problems for hers.

[two20]

Yesterday I didn't think so, today I'm not so sure. Still a newbie so don't have a huge amount of experience to draw from, but I had a disinterested punt today. Despite her profile explaining how see was really into her work, her actions seemed to reflect the opposite. Luckily I've had a good one so I'm not going to just pack in, but a few like today would change my mind.

[Markus]

Didnt know a girl lost her legs 

Nothing is more valuable then your health

[Trevor12]

Punt when you really want a punt, not for the sake of it.

+1 to that.

[adindas]

Yeah if they are rich and / or high status. But looks will trump both every time.

Gosh .....This is the first time I hear about this ....I wonder if we are living on the planet earth …
An ugly old fart could sleep with a beauty queen similar age with their granddaughter because they could effort to pay. While an extremely good looking guys working as a cleaner with him is just watching this couple is having fun …
Get real ….. Google it:
Grandpa fuck teen, OldGoesYoung, Oldje
Watch it and tell your finding in this forum …

[tintin054]

I wouldn't say it's a waste of money if it gives you pleasure but it can feel like you have wasted it if you have a bad punt. I only do 1 or 2 short punts a month due to finances and to keep the missus from suspecting. It would be quite easy to end up broke though if not careful.

[Kendrig]

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Saw Donna Marie back in 2009. Thought would be great to meet a real pornstar who really deepthroat see. How wrong I was.

Comms were good arranged 1 hour incall at her place in Nottingham for £100. She answers the door looks like she half off her head. Dressed in denim mini and shirt, takes me through living room which had a big fuck off dog, and upstairs to a proxy little bedroom upstairs. Didn't get the right vibes, but was there and had wanted to face fuck her and give it her up the Arse for a while.

Kissing would say it was a few pecks, she stripped off and said come on then, like let's get it over with, then I can go and pay for my next nose load. She gave me a blowjob which was poor, no enthusiasm and definitely not Deepthroat. Then missionary where she just looked bored. So fuck it thought I'll give you up the Arse where I don't have to look at that face, oh your too big for anal ( I know I'm not, and an ex pair star who use to always do anal) so what a waste of time.

Recommend: definitely not
Value for money: shit

[jimbm55]

I had a great two hour punt yesterday 

This morning I see I am overdrawn 

Would I do it again anyway? YES 

[Pussydoc]

D something vfm and decent .. FinAs it gets harder to

Not a total waste of money ------------ but think of the other things you could spend £120 on.

When I read some of the negative reviews on here I am so pleased that I am "semi retired" ---------- in the future my disposable income will go on holidays, far better value in my opinion.   

Well said , I have found its not possible to give up but like Jimmy I like the frequent nice holidays  and when I do punt I spend days doing research to make sure I get a decent punt , inverably I end up seeing a reg

[Donnie69]

I don't really need anymore material things, so punting is a good way to spend my money.

At the moment I only see regulars, but I might see some new WGs next year.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Well you might say is shagging a waste of money as the ex Missus has cost me well into six figures and she wasn't good VFM and i still had to  pay for punting on top of that!

[Sonny Crockett]

I have two perspectives on this.....

If I have a great run of punts, then punting is money well spent and mentally fulfilling

If I have a shit run of punts and go through a period of being fucked around, then punting is a waste of money, time and energy.

[mattylondon]

Never thought I'd hear myself suggesting this. For years I scoffed at friends who used to tell me punting was a waste of money and that it could be spent on much more worthwhile things, but today really hit home to me how I've changed.

It reads to me as though you're questioning whether the amount you've spent on prossies represents value for money, rather than punting per se?

I guess your question depends on what the punters motives are in the first place? If it's the case of his wives legs being firmly closed because she's lost her sex drive or is simply being a controlling bitch, then I guess it could well deemed to be worth it! He gets his rocks off, with generally no strings. If somebody has a very high sex drive which isn't matched by his partner, the same could apply, I guess.

To some people £200 is an awful lot of money, to others, it's nothing. Is any prossie worth £200? In my opinion no, but there will always be people who earn huge amounts of money, that don't care. There will also be those on a ego trip who enjoy paying an amount they know others cannot afford. This applies with other goods and services too, so why should paying for a prossie be any different? People spend crazy amounts on shoes and clothes after all!

[punk]

People spend crazy amounts on prossies for what is in general a forgettable fuck .What ever the reason for the amount of money a punter spends,its their money.

But even, say £60 an hour,think what else you can spend it on.

Even at £100 an hour,for that you could've bought a new nexus 2013 model and that will last a lot longer.

[vw]

Some of it is a waste of money but you asked is it a total waste of money the answer for me is no. 

[mattylondon]

Even at £100 an hour,for that you could've bought a new nexus 2013 model and that will last a lot longer.

I wonder if a lot of punter 'models' break don't last that long at all!

[rubric]

Of late, I've had a run of bad alongside mediocre punts, plus a old regular whose service turned to shit.   In that kind of situation I start feeling that I'm wasting money.

So in general I don't have regrets about what I spent and how I spent it, I do have immediate regrets over the past year though.