How to gain experience?

[sam1]

Right i.ve been married for 27years and 54 years old. The wife is the only woman i.ve ever fucked. As with most females she no longer wants to fuck much now.I did visit one escort about a year ago for a covered bj which was for only 10mins. The experience was nerve racking as I was expecting someone to burst in at any moment to attack me.I was wondering if any other members were in a similar position and if escorts is the way to go to fuck and what their experiencw was.

[MancSean]

Not sure where you live mate but unless you dip more than your toe in the water so to speak you will never know. I think we all felt nervous the first time we go on a punt. My advice is do some research and pick a girl off your regional board that one has lots of good ukp reviews and two you fancy. If you say which region I am sure that there are lots of people that might help.
If it's a very popular girl you might have to wait a bit though but it should be worth the wait.

[Randy James]

1st times its nerves man i never got it up. now im bang frequently

the more u do it the easier its gets, but even now i still get those prepunt jitters, whether an indie or parlour, thats normal. but wants ur kissing or geting blowed, things ease off

[flybynightpm]

Similar story... lack of and the OH for 28yrs.. hell.... anyway, just bite the bullet and do it...  Make sure your first WG is well reviewed and put looks as a second priority.. I did this last yr and it was a turning point in my life... Walked away from that punt a new man...alive again.. pangs of guilt subside, never really go away totally but still wish I'd started earlier.. So just go do it.... and don't care about what the WG will think about your performance... you are the customer to be satisfied , end of.

Enjoy..

[anonyorks]

1. Join adultwork.
2. Search for local girls with the budget you want to spend and where you feel comfortable to punt (not too close to home).
3. Pick a girl who has good feedback/reviews on here if available and offers what you are looking for and looks like a girl you would love to fuck.
4. Email/Call to book girl at a time that is most convenient for yourself preferably a few days before you want to see her.
5. Go and see girl and enjoy.

I still get nervous now, it adds to the excitement. Apart from the obvious I love the feeling of walking up to the door and hearing those heels clacking on the laminate floor.

Good Luck 

[Happyjose]

I did visit one escort about a year ago for a covered bj which was for only 10mins. The experience was nerve racking as I was expecting someone to burst in at any moment to attack me..

I really wouldn't worry too much. If you're careful about who you choose, using advice and reviews from here to guide you, your chance of a decent punt improves. We're all nervous on our first few punts. The real enjoyment started for me once I got more confident and learned how to make better choices with my punting dollar

[closeshave]

1. Join adultwork.
2. Search for local girls with the budget you want to spend and where you feel comfortable to punt (not too close to home).
3. Pick a girl who has good feedback/reviews on here if available and offers what you are looking for and looks like a girl you would love to fuck.
4. Email/Call to book girl at a time that is most convenient for yourself preferably a few days before you want to see her.
5. Go and see girl and enjoy.

I still get nervous now, it adds to the excitement. Apart from the obvious I love the feeling of walking up to the door and hearing those heels clacking on the laminate floor.

Good Luck 

Haven't you been told that wearing those heals is bad for you

[AgedCases]

I'm in a similar situation to you. I divorced the only woman I've fucked four years ago and, being early 40s and a fat bastard, realised that nothing's ever gonna come my way freely.

Decided I just may have to pay for it so joined AW and have had just one punt to date. The lady I picked had glowing feedback on AW but I hadn't joined this site at the time. I was so naïve about it but when I turned up at her flat, she put me at ease. Sad thing was, I suffered from first-time nerves and couldn't get erect so I spent the rest of the punt making her orgasm after orgasm! 

But yes, my aim is to fuck ladies well out of my league!!!

[tristen92]

The nerves pretty much halved for me each time. The best thing to do is go for well-reviewed girls with excellent feedback. Some girls have the ability to put even the most nervous guys at ease.

[RedKettle]

My first non street punt was years ago and was a mature lady in the Peak District.  It was a (with hindsight) a strange arrangement where you met her in Buxton and then drove to a rented cottage.  I was pretty nervous when she got in the car and we drove off, beginning to imagine all sorts.  She then turned to me and asked if my wife knew I was seeing her!  Now my nerves went into overdrive as I imagined that she was building up to blackmailing me, saw all sorts of issues flashing past me.  All in about half a second until I realised she was joking.

Anyway it was a decent punt, I actually told her it was my first time - not what I would advise now.  However I was lucky and she was a decent bird and gave me a good time.  Saw her quite a few times back then. 

[flybynightpm]

yep, don't mention its your first time..otherwise a % of them will take this piss..

[Largs43]

I remember my 1st punt, fooling around, feeling her lovely body up, getting my cock sucked, all the time worrying & feeling guilty.

I remember the moment I penetrated her, covered of course, aware in that instant that I'd crossed a line of infidelity....

But life is short, too short to live without sex & a woman's touch. Punting's great fun, better than having an affair which is almost sure to be discovered.

[MancSean]

Funny enough I think depending on the girl it's good to say it's your first time.

[kiltedviking]

aware in that instant that I'd crossed a line of infidelity

Blimey, my OH and probably the majority of women (and me to be honest) would regard it well into the realms of infidelity by the time you were sliding it in. Even arranging the punt would be grounds for divorce I reckon.

Still, doesn't stop me doing these things. I'm constantly surprised at how little guilt I feel about it after I'd popped into that first parlour

[taplow]

Enjoy yourself. You don't need to pretend you're some highly experienced punter.  Be yourself, it's your time. You should just turn up and leave your everyday persona at the door. That's what it's all for.  This is one time you can be open. You're under no pressure to impress.
She wants you  satisfied so that you'll come back. So tell her what you want and how it is.

[AgedCases]

Funny enough I think depending on the girl it's good to say it's your first time.

I told the WG I saw that I'd never had a blowjob.

"Never had a blowjob?" she shrieked, "Well we'll soon sort that out!". This was followed by immediate sucking and licking! 

[Punting Valley]

Even experienced punters have lots to learn Relax and let her take the lead to show you the tricks and you will be fine.