Author Topic: Poll on paid extras.  (Read 893 times)

Offline Poopster

Oral on the escort: should a punter wish to, should this be part of the time you've paid for?  Or is it an acceptable extra at £30?

Personally I think charging this as an extra is a fucking liberty. 

Online pbrown355

I agree. Most others are not unreasonable as long as they are clear. I'm sure there will be a wide variety of opinions.

Online chuck_88

I don't see the problem with charging extra for it. You're paying for someone's time, not an automatic entitlement to every service they offer. It's entirely up to the SP what they include in their standard rate and what they charge extra for.

As long as the additional £30 is made clear upfront, what's the issue? Nobody is forcing anyone to pay it. Some punters will be perfectly happy to pay the extra if that's something they particularly enjoy, while others won't consider it worth the additional cost. That's entirely down to individual preferences and what each person considers value for money.

If a punter isn't happy with the price, they're perfectly free to find another SP who includes it in their standard rate.

Ultimately, it's their body, their service and their pricing. The punter gets to decide whether they're happy to pay it, not dictate what should be included.

Offline Snagbadjer

I think it's a piss take.

I tend to just ask them and have never really been told no, with the exception of a couple of uptight conveyer belt types. Will fork out for DFK but nothing else.

Online Nomerzypuntr

OP it depends on SP and punters..

But I want to share something abt that SP reviews, apologies if im wrong. Right after my review you can see reviews of others 45mins/60mins with extras had brilliant experience (DFK). Owo, RO, 69 other extras

My doubt Is she more happy to provide sevice to punters who paid extras as someone just paid basic price (no extras). Am not blaming her coz she earn more money  :rolleyes:

Online Stevelondon

I think the above sums it up.
As long as extra charges (whatever they might be) are clearly shown up front so the punter knows an out it prior to booking. So be it.
Take it or leave it.


It has been a long time since I ever visited someone and then got told “oh that’s extra”

I recall I walked. Don’t  ask…….cant remember who it was.

Offline Snagbadjer

OP it depends on SP and punters..

But I want to share something abt that SP reviews, apologies if im wrong. Right after my review you can see reviews of others 45mins/60mins with extras had brilliant experience (DFK). Owo, RO, 69 other extras

My doubt Is she more happy to provide sevice to punters who paid extras as someone just paid basic price (no extras). Am not blaming her coz she earn more money  :rolleyes:

I think you're right generally. But I only ever go for the basic service (with occasional extra for DFK) and usually get good service. I think if you're nice to them and not pushy, they relax more and you get more of a rapport. There are exceptions ofc lol.

Online Nomerzypuntr

I think you're right generally. But I only ever go for the basic service (with occasional extra for DFK) and usually get good service. I think if you're nice to them and not pushy, they relax more and you get more of a rapport. There are exceptions ofc lol.

Well said  :drinks:

Offline hairdownthere

An SP can charge what she wants, it's not up to us to to dictate what should be included or not

I always let the SP know what I'm looking for in my initial comms, and ask if they have any extra charges.

That way I can decide whether or not I will go ahead with a booking depending on what the charges are for and for how much.


Online shagmore

An SP can charge what she wants, and dictate what are extras, its her body at the end of the day - but it should be clearly stated on her profile, not you get there and then told about the extras.
As long as you are told up front what the extras are, then its your call if you want to book her.

Online fatboy

I don't see the problem with charging extra for it. You're paying for someone's time, not an automatic entitlement to every service they offer. It's entirely up to the SP what they include in their standard rate and what they charge extra for.

As long as the additional £30 is made clear upfront, what's the issue? Nobody is forcing anyone to pay it. Some punters will be perfectly happy to pay the extra if that's something they particularly enjoy, while others won't consider it worth the additional cost. That's entirely down to individual preferences and what each person considers value for money.

If a punter isn't happy with the price, they're perfectly free to find another SP who includes it in their standard rate.

Ultimately, it's their body, their service and their pricing. The punter gets to decide whether they're happy to pay it, not dictate what should be included.



Totally agree with this, she can charge what she wants and as a punter it's your decision. Some will, some won't.
« Last Edit: October 24, 2026, 11:18:59 pm by fatboy »

Offline Blackpool Rock

I think it's a piss take.

I tend to just ask them and have never really been told no, with the exception of a couple of uptight conveyer belt types. Will fork out for DFK but nothing else.
It is a fucking piss take and i've given parlour girls Negatives for charging extra when it's not a chargeable extra.

I do agree that a girl can charge what she likes for what services but herin lies the problem that most of them don't detail the extras properly on their profiles so you can be in the room before she tries to rip you off  :thumbsdown:

If i'm arranging by text / WA then I normally ask if there are any extras if they haven't given a menu of prices but the list isn't always exhaustive and you can't really ask if every little detail of a punt is a chargeable extra without being blocked as a time waster or fantasist, is putting my hand on your thigh extra; is putting my hand on your tit extra etc etc  :D
 

Offline Ghost89

I won’t see anyone that charges extra for things like pussy licking or dfk I do enjoy those things but outright refuse to pay extra. Fortunately the women I’ve seen seem to enjoy those things anyway.

Online Paul9144

I don't see the problem with charging extra for it. You're paying for someone's time, not an automatic entitlement to every service they offer. It's entirely up to the SP what they include in their standard rate and what they charge extra for.

As long as the additional £30 is made clear upfront, what's the issue? Nobody is forcing anyone to pay it. Some punters will be perfectly happy to pay the extra if that's something they particularly enjoy, while others won't consider it worth the additional cost. That's entirely down to individual preferences and what each person considers value for money.

If a punter isn't happy with the price, they're perfectly free to find another SP who includes it in their standard rate.

Ultimately, it's their body, their service and their pricing. The punter gets to decide whether they're happy to pay it, not dictate what should be included.

I absolutely 💯 agree with this 👍🏻

Transparency is the key for me. As long as it's made clear upfront and beforehand, ideally on the SP's profile and/or via the booking comms, then fair enough. Then, it's down to me if I want to pay extra.

Offline koshkaj

i have a foot in both camps.

i think charging for RO is a fucking scourge. Don't care how much. i think it should be always be included in the basic rate  :thumbsdown:

but i also respect an escort's right to charge for it. it's up to her which services she does and does not offer and to set the rate she chooses. i either don't partake  - my usual course of action, she's the one missing out anyway, both physically and financially - or see someone else  :thumbsup:

Offline advent2016

It's a free market sellers and buyers.
The seller SP can (try) and charge what they like. I try and get an all in one price and like SPs that charge for time only.
The worst for extra charges in my experience were Brazilians but many do it now. Places like Diva where the hourly rate is much higher it is often included except for something special.
At the end of that day if the SP is charging too much then they won't get any trade.

Online LauraHoD

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The way I see it is if they didnt charge extras they would just charge more overall. 
And you would essentially be paying for services you dont want.
Lots of girls choose a lower price plus extras model.
Or a multi tier service. ie. GFE or PSE.

If a girl is charging £30 for RO ita because she doesn't like it. I get it, stubble rash is real and lots of men have a face rubbing/sucking/biting technique. So charging that decreases the amount of men wanting that service.
Some girls are not sensitive so they dont feel anything so they can tolerate it better.
Some actually enjoy it! Yes really!
But if they are charging £30 extra they don't IMO
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Online infidel_castro

The only extras that are justified are anal and facial (out of the 'regular' i.e. non-niche services) because they require extra time/effort on SP's part and it's fair to ask for additional compensation. Everything else if she charges for it, it means she doesn't like it but will do it for the extra ££ so you'll get a token service on those bits - a lesson I learned the hard way

Offline shiptonlad

Entirely up to the provider.

Offline Blackpool Rock

The way I see it is if they didnt charge extras they would just charge more overall. 
And you would essentially be paying for services you dont want.
Lots of girls choose a lower price plus extras model.
Or a multi tier service. ie. GFE or PSE.

If a girl is charging £30 for RO ita because she doesn't like it. I get it, stubble rash is real and lots of men have a face rubbing/sucking/biting technique. So charging that decreases the amount of men wanting that service.
Some girls are not sensitive so they dont feel anything so they can tolerate it better.
Some actually enjoy it! Yes really!
But if they are charging £30 extra they don't IMO
I agree with you in principle and don't want to pay for extras that i'm not interested in however the problem these days is that you turn up to see a girl charging a higher rate such as £100-£120 / hh only to find that everything is also extra
I did used to punt 90% in SS (now Temptations as i'm sure you're aware) and liked the model of a basic fee £50/hh plus extras so you only paid for the bespoke service that you wanted / received, this suited me well as i'd typically go for OWO and occasionally CIM or very occasionally a facial

Some girls you'd get kissing of variable quality but for free so no big shakes if it wasn't available or only lip pecks but i'd also typically give the girl oral as I do enjoy doing it but also to pad the time out a bit so that i'm not shorted on time too much and out in 15 or 20 minutes.

Back 10 years ago if I had a 30 minute service at SS it set me back £50/hh + £10 OWO and £20 CIM (from memory), I believe the price was like that for the previous 5 or 6 years since i started punting there but back then it did still seem slightly expensive however more often than not you got a decent service with a really good girl and not being ultra cheap perhaps kept the dregs of the punting world away.
In any case some girls you couldn't get to see as they were fully booked up the day before and could have had a queue around the block so could also have charged far more

The basic price hasn't really changed however the price of the extras in various parlours has gone up, I actually think that's fair enough as we've had inflation but the list of chargeable extras has also increased
I agree with girls charging extra for OWO; CIM; Facials; Anal; WS and perhaps kissing but RO just seems like a step too far

Part of the problem here though is that a girl can charge an extra £20 for kissing and then not really deliver it or it's total shit like a few lip packs or open mouth but no tongue, i've had a few girls recently where they've asked for an extra £10 or £20 so i've asked them if they do actual proper kissing with tongues at which point they've screwed their face up and said no not really. But they'd happily have charged me an extra £20 for fuck all  :diablo:

I've often argued that parlours are far better value than Indi's when people complain about having to pay extras and pointed out that you're already paying the Indi extra and not taking most of them, the other issue now is that Indi's (and Brazilians are the worst IMO) already charge a high price but then want to charge extra for everything plus the extras aren't cheap either.
rock up to a Brazilian girl wanting £100/hh and then find OWO is £30; RO is £30; fingers are £20; kissing is £20 or £30; CIM is £50 so by the time you know it you're easily over £200 for a 30 minute punt only to find the oral is shit and lasts 30 seconds top and you only get a few pecks for kissing  :dash:

I'm happy to pay a fair price for a fair service but some of these girls are just taking the piss  :thumbsdown:

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So obviously i do work in parlours with the very low basic rate then extras on top. We obviously need to push for the extras or the money would be too low and would put off the quality of girls wanting to work there.
However I find that system hard work some guys will just leave £20 on the side and I know what they want. Others make it painful to the point that it takes 5 mins for them to decide what they want(comes out of their time so whatever).

Anyway I prefer just one price(higher obviously)
and its just much easier like that.
Anyway I say to the clients in the room and on here
"Its only as awkward as you want to make it"

And in regards to the excessive extras when the rate is already high. Just don't book them.
Or be prepared to walk if the extras are not made transparent at the time of booking.

Parlours are much cheaper than indi girls but due to the low prices they are not attracting the same kind of girls(pretty, young, slim British girls). They are on AW charging £200+ ph now.
Having sex for £30 doesn't sound great nowadays. So most new younger girls are going to start out charging higher prices because that seems more attractive.




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Offline hairdownthere

So obviously i do work in parlours with the very low basic rate then extras on top. We obviously need to push for the extras or the money would be too low and would put off the quality of girls wanting to work there.
However I find that system hard work some guys will just leave £20 on the side and I know what they want. Others make it painful to the point that it takes 5 mins for them to decide what they want(comes out of their time so whatever).

Anyway I prefer just one price(higher obviously)
and its just much easier like that.
Anyway I say to the clients in the room and on here
"Its only as awkward as you want to make it"

And in regards to the excessive extras when the rate is already high. Just don't book them.
Or be prepared to walk if the extras are not made transparent at the time of booking.

Parlours are much cheaper than indi girls but due to the low prices they are not attracting the same kind of girls(pretty, young, slim British girls). They are on AW charging £200+ ph now.
Having sex for £30 doesn't sound great nowadays. So most new younger girls are going to start out charging higher prices because that seems more attractive.

This.

It's the punters fault if they dont confirm the total pricing before making the booking, I've fallen foul myself a couple of times

Offline simon07

Market forces.
Up to the WG to charge what she wants and hopefully pick up that punter who is able and willing to meet the price tag?

Buyers like myself will look at overall value, though too many extras at £30+ each, will make me less willing to open my purse.

Offline Snagbadjer

An SP can charge what she wants, it's not up to us to to dictate what should be included or not

I always let the SP know what I'm looking for in my initial comms, and ask if they have any extra charges.

That way I can decide whether or not I will go ahead with a booking depending on what the charges are for and for how much.

No one was dictating anything. People were just giving their views on what they feel should be included in a basic rate. It goes without saying that it's the SP's choice what extras they charge. Or I thought it did.

Online infidel_castro

No one was dictating anything. People were just giving their views on what they feel should be included in a basic rate. It goes without saying that it's the SP's choice what extras they charge. Or I thought it did.

Right now it's kind of like airlines - they get you with the low base price then once you pick a seat and maybe check in a bag you're looking at double the original price. Sure some people fly with only their hands in their pockets but most of us don't  :angry: I would like more transparency upfront - some (cough - Brazillian) SPs don't list any extras on their AW profile then once you've made up your mind (and boner) and contact them they text you the full menu and it's like wait, so what am I getting for base price then -- just a fuckdoll??

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I have seen girls charging £100 for DFK and OWO. And £300 for Anal often on top of a already high rate like £250ph.

But as long as thats made clear on their profile and confirmed before the booking then that's entirely up to the client if they are happy to pay or not.

So basically OP if you don't want to pay £30 to do RO just don't. Its not for members on here to tell you if its ok or not. If you don't want to pay it dont pay it. Book someone else or just don't have that service.