Performance Tips

[kuhamq]

So I finally managed to book a SP for my first time. Will review soon. But the entire experience was nothing like I was expecting.

First of all, the physics of getting my penis in and holding positions was a lot more difficult than I expected. I realise I need to get back in the gym and do
mobility exercises because I was getting cramps and back pain at my ripe early 20s age.

I lasted around 20 minutes on the first round (which was unexpected). I really did not feel much through a condom. I feel greater sensation jerking off. Though there
were particular positions were she was riding me on top that generated enough friction for me to come.

It kept slipping out which was odd, every thrust it was practically slipping out, and the lady even stopped to teach me how to properly do backshots in the middle of it which was nice.

2nd round was an issue though, because I was losing my hardness the entire time, I just wasn't into it and I couldn't come after 30 minutes of her straight doing her best to try make me pop. I wonder is this stress, or some libido issue or what. Because I should be able to pop twice in one hour and I was able to do so solo....

Also any tips on how to just be better at sex, I think trying for the first I was better than I imagined, but at £300/h, its quite expensive, much like learner driver lessons, best to do the theory first.

[shyleo]

What are backshots mate?

[Paul9144]

I realise I need to get back in the gym and do
mobility exercises because I was getting cramps and back pain at my ripe early 20s age.

I wonder is this stress, or some libido issue or what. Because I should be able to pop twice in one hour and I was able to do so solo....

Also any tips on how to just be better at sex, I think trying for the first I was better than I imagined, but at £300/h, its quite expensive, much like learner driver lessons, best to do the theory first.

Well, you've made the positive step by identifying an area of improvement in regards to your fitness levels. Plenty of stuff across the internet on how to improve that along with your diet etc. Have a read of this (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=449128.0). In terms of stress that's effecting your libido, that could be poor mental health related (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=281449.msg4444562#msg4444562). As for becoming better at sex, good foreplay etc always helps (External Link/Members Only), but I would strongly advise that you look into the aforementioned first.

What are backshots mate?

Backshots Definition:

"The term "backshots" is a slang word that most commonly refers to sexual intercourse performed from behind, or specifically the act of a partner ejaculating onto the lower back during or after rear-entry positions."

[chuck_88]

So I finally managed to book a SP for my first time. Will review soon. But the entire experience was nothing like I was expecting.

First of all, the physics of getting my penis in and holding positions was a lot more difficult than I expected. I realise I need to get back in the gym and do
mobility exercises because I was getting cramps and back pain at my ripe early 20s age.

I lasted around 20 minutes on the first round (which was unexpected). I really did not feel much through a condom. I feel greater sensation jerking off. Though there
were particular positions were she was riding me on top that generated enough friction for me to come.

It kept slipping out which was odd, every thrust it was practically slipping out, and the lady even stopped to teach me how to properly do backshots in the middle of it which was nice.

2nd round was an issue though, because I was losing my hardness the entire time, I just wasn't into it and I couldn't come after 30 minutes of her straight doing her best to try make me pop. I wonder is this stress, or some libido issue or what. Because I should be able to pop twice in one hour and I was able to do so solo....

Also any tips on how to just be better at sex, I think trying for the first I was better than I imagined, but at £300/h, its quite expensive, much like learner driver lessons, best to do the theory first.

Like anything else in life mate, practice makes perfect. 

[macman26]

You need to eat celery mate that does wonders raw a few hours/days beeofre lots of cum you will make lol.  Nuts as well..  and then practice breathing. stay away from too much porn before too

[Fuzzyduck]

You need to eat celery mate that does wonders raw a few hours/days beeofre lots of cum you will make lol.  Nuts as well..  and then practice breathing. stay away from too much porn before too

I thought that was just a myth with no scientific evidence to support it. Unless you're a rat.

[FiveKnuckles]

2nd round was an issue though, because I was losing my hardness the entire time, I just wasn't into it and I couldn't come after 30 minutes of her straight doing her best to try make me pop. I wonder is this stress, or some libido issue or what. Because I should be able to pop twice in one hour and I was able to do so solo....

the refractory period differs for everyone.  you blow your first load and body takes time to go again. 
give your palms some rest and your sensation will come back eventually 


you selected a good WG if she found time to teach you how to fuck 

[Stevelondon]

Ah the good old days when I could last 20 or 30 minutes without the need for oxygen or putting me flippin back out. 😂

[MLawro93]

If you feel more sensation when wanking, chances are you are gripping too tight. Give it a break for a while, and see if it keeps happening.

[Chazz]

You need to eat celery.

And if that doesn't work, you can always use it as a splint. 

[OakTree]

So I finally managed to book a SP for my first time. Will review soon. But the entire experience was nothing like I was expecting.

First of all, the physics of getting my penis in and holding positions was a lot more difficult than I expected. I realise I need to get back in the gym and do
mobility exercises because I was getting cramps and back pain at my ripe early 20s age.

I lasted around 20 minutes on the first round (which was unexpected). I really did not feel much through a condom. I feel greater sensation jerking off. Though there
were particular positions were she was riding me on top that generated enough friction for me to come.

It kept slipping out which was odd, every thrust it was practically slipping out, and the lady even stopped to teach me how to properly do backshots in the middle of it which was nice.

2nd round was an issue though, because I was losing my hardness the entire time, I just wasn't into it and I couldn't come after 30 minutes of her straight doing her best to try make me pop. I wonder is this stress, or some libido issue or what. Because I should be able to pop twice in one hour and I was able to do so solo....

Also any tips on how to just be better at sex, I think trying for the first I was better than I imagined, but at £300/h, its quite expensive, much like learner driver lessons, best to do the theory first.

Just my opinion but you sound to me to have taken the wrong approach or mindset.

You're not there to perform or impress. You're there to enjoy yourself.

Once you get it in your head she's not going to be impressed how big your cock is or how good you fuck then you'll find you're much more relaxed.

I'll take it further, once you get to the point of yourself really not caring what she thinks of your performance or physical attributes you'll relax even more.

That's how it works for me anyhow.

[pythondan]

If you are inexperienced then I would recommend doing 30 minute 1 pop meetings with a variety of ladies rather than doing longer meetings with more expensive providers.

The first pop is normally the best (for me) and trying for another can be a chore.

If you are in your 20s and are getting cramp whilst having sex then going to the gym would be time well spent and will benefit you in many ways.

It may just be a case of finding a girl that you really "fit" with. I find that maybe one in every eight or so girls I see I actually click with and sex just feels easy and flows naturally. I enjoy sex with the other girls too but there can be a bit of awkwardness finding the right positions and so on.

[jseop109]

You need to eat celery mate that does wonders raw a few hours/days beeofre lots of cum you will make lol.  Nuts as well..  and then practice breathing. stay away from too much porn before too

Reminds me of a football chant:

Celery, Celery
If she don't cum,
I'll tickle her bum
With a lump of celery...

[kuhamq]

Oh for context I work a high stress, white collar job with like 80+ hrs/week. That combined with the fact I stopped going to gym and I jerk off a lot (practically every day sometimes 2-3x) might contribute to it.

Thanks for the links guys will give a read. This experience has really made me want to make some lifestyle changes

[pythondan]

If you are working 80+ hour weeks I hope you are getting paid properly for that.

I used to do really long hours with much of it taken up with driving to customer locations and, looking back, it was a bit crazy and I had little life outside work. One upside was plenty of punting opportunities. It was the heyday of parlours like Sandy's so very easy to drop in for some fun without needing to arrange in advance.

My (unsolicited) advice would be to try to get a better work/life balance.

[Skeleton]

If you're wanking 2-3 times a day then cutting that down is the first step in my opinion. As someone above states, probably desensitised due to death grip tugging 

[Fuzzyduck]

If you're wanking 2-3 times a day then cutting that down is the first step in my opinion. As someone above states, probably desensitised due to death grip tugging 

I think that depends how horny you are and your physical/mental state. In my 20s I was wanking 2-3 times a day, working too long, drinking too much and shagging my girlfriend regularly. If you have a stressful job, a wank is a good way to unwind IMO. I'd advise OP to have a decent massage with HR.