ok guys thanks for the advice but just to be clear, I believed this was Jurate when I booked it, had no idea there were 2 ladies working from the same venue below the hairdressers and completely un-connected I have never heard of that before, I read about Jurate being happy with diy however when I put my hand under the blanket I was not wanking or moving at all, just watching to see for a reaction, I was planning on asking about extras, if she was receptive, hardly sexual harassment, my fault you got the wrong impression as I didn't give enough details, but believe me the last thing I would want to do is seriously offend a legit masseur.