Seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour

[gurds]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Having sex with women that have sex with loads of men is not the healthiest in terms of long term risks of STDs. Sometimes condoms can slip off in positions like doggy which increases risk.

I would say seeing escorts is best in moderation. Ideally is probably best to have sex with women that are less promiscuous for lower risk of STDs.

On the flip side I find slutty girls very hot. I think everyone has to find the sweet spot for themselves of how often to see escorts depending on individual needs and circumstances.

If your mental energy is diverted to other things and you don't have mental energy for relationships then is ok in moderation to see escorts as in my case.

I think if there was no such thing as STDs then you can have sex with unlimited numbers of escorts if you wanted with no risk and it wouldn't be as unhealthy.

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Ideally it's best to really have unprotected sex with women that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you and that aren't promiscuous. Having unprotected sex with escorts is too risky by definition.

[southern punter]

I'm not a public health statistician but I reckon the STD chances are higher with a civvie who says "we don't need condoms, I'm totally not promiscuous!!", than they are with a sensible escort (ie regular testing and strictly never bareback).

So I don't worry much about physical unhealthiness of my punting.  Psychological healthiness, now there's a debate.

[GoodLookinGuy]

Like alcohol or takeaways, all things in moderation are the way to go.

[scutty brown]

You're overthinking things. Philisophical self-analysis just causes pain.
Don't think. Just DO. And enjoy it

[versace]

You're overthinking things. Philisophical self-analysis just causes pain.
Don't think. Just DO. And enjoy it

This.

Also I agree that it does get boring fucking the same girl multiple times, that’s why these days I only see a girl once. So the motto is: Been there done that. NEXT!

[versace]

Like alcohol or takeaways, all things in moderation are the way to go.

I disagree. Would you take heroin in moderation?

[Stevelondon]

Crossing the road wearing a blindfold and ear muffs too many times is positively dangerous in my opinion.

Just don’t do it folks !

[MissWolf]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Having sex with women that have sex with loads of men is not the healthiest in terms of long term risks of STDs. Sometimes condoms can slip off in positions like doggy which increases risk.

I would say seeing escorts is best in moderation. Ideally is probably best to have sex with women that are less promiscuous for lower risk of STDs.

On the flip side I find slutty girls very hot. I think everyone has to find the sweet spot for themselves of how often to see escorts depending on individual needs and circumstances.

If your mental energy is diverted to other things and you don't have mental energy for relationships then is ok in moderation to see escorts as in my case.

I think if there was no such thing as STDs then you can have sex with unlimited numbers of escorts if you wanted with no risk and it wouldn't be as unhealthy.

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Ideally it's best to really have unprotected sex with women that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you and that aren't promiscuous. Having unprotected sex with escorts is too risky by definition.

Here we go again, sex workers are unclean, desiese ridden and full of STDs, honestly this gets trooped out so often it's painful

Have you not read this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=416868.0 literally 9 down on the main board where he says he's seen about 500 escorts over 25years and caught nothing.

Time and time again there are stories from other punters to say the only time they have ever caught anything was with a civvy

If you don't think seeing escorts is healthy,  be that due to us being riddled with STDs or for your own mental health then I would suggest you stop and leave the activity to the grown ups 

[elnukky]

I'm not a public health statistician but I reckon the STD chances are higher with a civvie who says "we don't need condoms, I'm totally not promiscuous!!", than they are with a sensible escort (ie regular testing and strictly never bareback).

So I don't worry much about physical unhealthiness of my punting.  Psychological healthiness, now there's a debate.

It certainly changed my perspective. I find myself doing a mental cost benefit analysis when dating civvies, after a dating/talking stage ends with no sex. I tally what I have spent and compare to what I could have had if I had just paid outright.

[Blackpool Rock]

It certainly changed my perspective. I find myself doing a mental cost benefit analysis when dating civvies, after a dating/talking stage ends with no sex. I tally what I have spent and compare to what I could have had if I had just paid outright.

So have you had a long term relationship then   

[Blackpool Rock]

Here we go again, sex workers are unclean, desiese ridden and full of STDs, honestly this gets trooped out so often it's painful

Have you not read this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=416868.0 literally 9 down on the main board where he says he's seen about 500 escorts over 25years and caught nothing.

Time and time again there are stories from other punters to say the only time they have ever caught anything was with a civvy

If you don't think seeing escorts is healthy,  be that due to us being riddled with STDs or for your own mental health then I would suggest you stop and leave the activity to the grown ups 

It's just another Gurds thread full of random thoughts where everyone else will now jump on and start debating / arguing while he never posts another reply 

I've actually had some positive health benefits from punting like 7 or 8 years ago when really stressed out from work complete with chest pain which went as soon as I came on a punt so stress relief.
Also a good punt can boost your mental health and sense of wellbeing
I did as a result of something on a punt make a doctors appointment a few years ago which led to me having a minor operation however if it had been left untreated there was potential for this issue to turn cancerous

[jamiekinkxxx]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Having sex with women that have sex with loads of men is not the healthiest in terms of long term risks of STDs. Sometimes condoms can slip off in positions like doggy which increases risk.

I would say seeing escorts is best in moderation. Ideally is probably best to have sex with women that are less promiscuous for lower risk of STDs.

On the flip side I find slutty girls very hot. I think everyone has to find the sweet spot for themselves of how often to see escorts depending on individual needs and circumstances.

If your mental energy is diverted to other things and you don't have mental energy for relationships then is ok in moderation to see escorts as in my case.

I think if there was no such thing as STDs then you can have sex with unlimited numbers of escorts if you wanted with no risk and it wouldn't be as unhealthy.

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Ideally it's best to really have unprotected sex with women that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you and that aren't promiscuous. Having unprotected sex with escorts is too risky by definition.

WTF?  Gurds I think you need to get a more suitable hobby

[GoodLookinGuy]

I disagree. Would you take heroin in moderation?

That's a very extreme example. I would also not recommend swimming with Great White sharks, Jumping off tall buildings, shooting yourself in the face or wrestling a gorilla even in moderation. However having a beer, a McDonalds or a cheeky visit to an escort you can happily do in moderation.

[signy]

So I don't worry much about physical unhealthiness of my punting.  Psychological healthiness, now there's a debate.

I don't know if you are suggesting +ve or -ve impact regarding psychological impact. However, I am sure punting has a positive effect on my mental health. Being able to act out my fantasies (especially the weirder ones) helps get them out of my brain, I waste less time thinking about them and I am better able to get on with other matters in life. I am less stressed and have better relationships with other people. Just me.

[GoodLookinGuy]

I don't know if you are suggesting +ve or -ve impact regarding psychological impact. However, I am sure punting has a positive effect on my mental health. Being able to act out my fantasies (especially the weirder ones) helps get them out of my brain, I waste less time thinking about them and I am better able to get on with other matters in life. I am less stressed and have better relationships with other people. Just me.

Not just you, I see escorts as part of self care. To look after my physical self I go to the gym and run, to look after my mental self I read, spiritual self I get out into nature, for my social self I spend time with friends etc. As well as all those we are also sexual beings, I believe it's unhealthy to go without. So if I'm not in a relationship and can't be bothered/haven't got time for dating to look after my sexual self I see escorts. Like you it leaves me less stressed, more able to concentrate and generally happier.

[Jomoore]

Not just you, I see escorts as part of self care. To look after my physical self I go to the gym and run, to look after my mental self I read, spiritual self I get out into nature, for my social self I spend time with friends etc. As well as all those we are also sexual beings, I believe it's unhealthy to go without. So if I'm not in a relationship and can't be bothered/haven't got time for dating to look after my sexual self I see escorts. Like you it leaves me less stressed, more able to concentrate and generally happier.

Very well summed up, I recognise myself in that straightforward and honest philosophy 

[Stevelondon]

That's a very extreme example. I would also not recommend swimming with Great White sharks, Jumping off tall buildings, shooting yourself in the face or wrestling a gorilla even in moderation. However having a beer, a McDonalds or a cheeky visit to an escort you can happily do in moderation.

Couldn’t agree more. I can personally vouch for that but about wrestling a gorilla in moderation. No matter how many times the ref explained what moderation was. Those guys just didn’t understand it. Or iretended not too.
I’m seriously thinking of giving up the activity I can tell you.

[Stevelondon]

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Isn’t that marriage ?

[Iceman90]

STDs are probably more common with civvie girls. Escorts are very careful with their sexual health. Their body is their business and being out of action with an STD costs them a lot of money. I’d say it’s much riskier sleeping around with random girls off apps than it is booking an escort occasionally.

[akauya]

Come on guys. Don't feed the troll.

Gurds does this regularly, starts a thread with stereotypical, offensive, or misleading statements. Then sits back and 'enjoys' watching everyone losing their heads reacting to his post.

[versace]

That's a very extreme example. I would also not recommend swimming with Great White sharks, Jumping off tall buildings, shooting yourself in the face or wrestling a gorilla even in moderation. However having a beer, a McDonalds or a cheeky visit to an escort you can happily do in moderation.

You missed the point completely. Those things you listed above are activities. I'm talking about consumption: food, alcohol, drugs etc. There is a big difference. When it comes to consumption, everything in moderation is not advisable. Hence why you wouldn't take heroin in moderation.

[southcoastpunter]

Come on guys. Don't feed the troll.

Gurds does this regularly, starts a thread with stereotypical, offensive, or misleading statements. Then sits back and 'enjoys' watching everyone losing their heads reacting to his post.

100% correct

and now he has guys splitting hair - almost trying to score points off each other!

You missed the point completely. Those things you listed above are activities. I'm talking about consumption: food, alcohol, drugs etc. There is a big difference. When it comes to consumption, everything in moderation is not advisable. Hence why you wouldn't take heroin in moderation.

[FLYING BLUE]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Why? - was it ever in doubt?

[GoodLookinGuy]

You missed the point completely. Those things you listed above are activities. I'm talking about consumption: food, alcohol, drugs etc. There is a big difference. When it comes to consumption, everything in moderation is not advisable. Hence why you wouldn't take heroin in moderation.

Ahhhh consumption, so we're not really talking about escorts. I wasn't really talking about things so extreme that are illegal but yes point taken there are things you shouldn't consume even in moderation, things like battery acid, arsenic, king cobra venom, bleach (despite what Donald Trump said), heroin, methanol shots in Laos etc etc

[wristjob]

So I don't worry much about physical unhealthiness of my punting.  Psychological healthiness, now there's a debate.

I think punting and porn skew your perspective on what is possible inside a relationship When you are used to sex when you want, how you want with a variety of sexy women and all about what you want and no requirement to satisfy them are you going to go back to 1 partner limited to what she wants to do, when she wants to do it?

[Atrueyorkie]

Come on guys. Don't feed the troll.

Gurds does this regularly, starts a thread with stereotypical, offensive, or misleading statements. Then sits back and 'enjoys' watching everyone losing their heads reacting to his post.

Yeah +1, wish he was banned already 

[Lou2019]

Not this nonsense again Jesus wept

[RandomGuy99]

Not this nonsense again Jesus wept

No, I think that's Easter. This is Christmas

[daviemac]

Yeah +1, wish he was banned already 

Mine is the 27th reply, most complaining about the topic, as long as he gets a reaction he will keep doing it.

People keep saying don't feed trolls but nobody takes any notice.   

[versace]

Ahhhh consumption, so we're not really talking about escorts. I wasn't really talking about things so extreme that are illegal but yes point taken there are things you shouldn't consume even in moderation, things like battery acid, arsenic, king cobra venom, bleach (despite what Donald Trump said), heroin, methanol shots in Laos etc etc

Can’t see any harm in that.

[IamSpartacus]

Having sex with escorts is a lot safer than having sex with civvy girls you meet on a night out. Simple.

[southern punter]

I don't know if you are suggesting +ve or -ve impact regarding psychological impact.

Both, hence believing there is scope for debate on that point   

At least speaking for myself as a new punter I firmly felt it was positive for my mental health for similar reasons to yourself but I don't want to pretend to myself I haven't had a negative impact or two along my punting journey.  It's like GoodLookinGuy says about moderation.  Most people can have a pint or a flutter as healthy stress relief, some ruin their lives with it.   

[TTGR]

Being sexually very unhappy and unfulfilled isn't healthy either.
Physical harm Vs Psychological harm. Take your pick.

[Colston36]

This.

Also I agree that it does get boring fucking the same girl multiple times, that’s why these days I only see a girl once. So the motto is: Been there done that. NEXT!

On the contrary: in this as in almost everything else in life, practice makes perfect. The first time, assuming the lady is a winner, you are just starting to find out what is possible.

I am seeing two next Thursday each of whom I have seen many times going back 7 years. We know what we like, a huge advantage compared to seeing someone whose likes, dislikes and quirks are new to you.

Of course if the woman is no damn good to start with she is unlikely to improve-and you probably didn't do your research.

[Colston36]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Having sex with women that have sex with loads of men is not the healthiest in terms of long term risks of STDs. Sometimes condoms can slip off in positions like doggy which increases risk.

I would say seeing escorts is best in moderation. Ideally is probably best to have sex with women that are less promiscuous for lower risk of STDs.

On the flip side I find slutty girls very hot. I think everyone has to find the sweet spot for themselves of how often to see escorts depending on individual needs and circumstances.

If your mental energy is diverted to other things and you don't have mental energy for relationships then is ok in moderation to see escorts as in my case.

I think if there was no such thing as STDs then you can have sex with unlimited numbers of escorts if you wanted with no risk and it wouldn't be as unhealthy.

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Ideally it's best to really have unprotected sex with women that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you and that aren't promiscuous. Having unprotected sex with escorts is too risky by definition.

Your ability to spew out utterly illogical, ill conceived, spurious, pig-ignorant and often offensive drivel is remarkable.

Most escorts do not offer unprotected sex and are very careful because sex is not a hobby; it is their livelihood. Most amateurs know far less about what is safe and take fewer precautions than most escorts.

In 6 decades of happy times all over the world  the only time I got an infection was from a 17 year old Polish girl who to be fair had no idea she had gonorrhoea.

Lastly. if you can't think of anything new to do with a girl after 2 or 3 times you must be a lousy fuck.

[Hobbit]

Was just wondering if anyone else has come to the realisation that seeing escorts is not the healthiest behaviour.

Having sex with women that have sex with loads of men is not the healthiest in terms of long term risks of STDs. Sometimes condoms can slip off in positions like doggy which increases risk.

I would say seeing escorts is best in moderation. Ideally is probably best to have sex with women that are less promiscuous for lower risk of STDs.

On the flip side I find slutty girls very hot. I think everyone has to find the sweet spot for themselves of how often to see escorts depending on individual needs and circumstances.

If your mental energy is diverted to other things and you don't have mental energy for relationships then is ok in moderation to see escorts as in my case.

I think if there was no such thing as STDs then you can have sex with unlimited numbers of escorts if you wanted with no risk and it wouldn't be as unhealthy.

I wonder if anyone else that has had sex already with lots of escorts has realised that the more escorts you have sex with you are just repeating the same process again and again and going through the motions.

Once you've had sex say 2 or 3 times with the same escort then the benefit of sex with them again and again diminishes.

Ideally it's best to really have unprotected sex with women that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you and that aren't promiscuous. Having unprotected sex with escorts is too risky by definition.

In 25 years of punting, I have never caught a single STI from anyone. So if you are catching stuff or worried about catching stuff, then this punting scene is not for you.

People that catch STI's, are either being not very selective, having too much sex (which increases the chance of catching something), or are just very unlucky wankers.

[versace]

On the contrary: in this as in almost everything else in life, practice makes perfect. The first time, assuming the lady is a winner, you are just starting to find out what is possible.

I am seeing two next Thursday each of whom I have seen many times going back 7 years. We know what we like, a huge advantage compared to seeing someone whose likes, dislikes and quirks are new to you.

Of course if the woman is no damn good to start with she is unlikely to improve-and you probably didn't do your research.

Not for me. The buzz of unknown can't be replicated by going to see the same girl again. We all punt for different reasons of course, but I like the buzz of going to see a girl for the first time. Don't really care about getting to know the person etc and finding out likes, dislikes to make it better the second time.

[MeritofMirth]

There are plenty of behaviours that could be described as “unhealthy”. This being said, the judgement which you are making is a reflection of your cultural and moral beliefs.

[Generalstockinghead]

Paying to fuck strangers is a bad idea.  Got it.

P.s any recommendations for a good stranger to fuck for money?

[LauraHoD]

OP maybe you should spend your money on therapy instead. Most of your posts make you sound unhinged.  This is a punting forum. If you think punting is "unhealthy " why are you here?!

[scutty brown]

Paying to fuck strangers is a bad idea.  Got it.

It's a better idea than paying to fuck people you know

[Generalstockinghead]

Ummmm I know a few lasses I wouldn't mind punting. 

[scutty brown]

Ummmm I know a few lasses I wouldn't mind punting.

but the potential complications.......

[advent2016]

I disagree. Would you take heroin in moderation?

I take morphine in moderation, as I expect necking down 200ml might be the last time I do it.

[gurds]

Although the vast majority of women are not having sex with large numbers of men every day. This is the unhealthy part that lot of people seem to ignore.

[scutty brown]

Although the vast majority of women are not having sex with large numbers of men every day. This is the unhealthy part that lot of people seem to ignore.

Yes, you're correct: It is unhealthy for women not to have sex with large numbers of men each day.