Thanks for adding some context.
To be fair her photos suggest she's a big girl, and that suits me, and I messaged her about a meet recently ,and was planning to see her next week.
her face looks ok in the picture, so was she very much heavier than the pictures suggest, flabby tummy?
Your comment about the state of her room is a huge negative for me of course, because that reflects poorly on her hygene standards, and is a deal breaker for me, such a shame.