I was going through profiles today pretty set and excited about having my first punting experience, until I came across one profile that really struck my fancy. After scrolling through I came across a bit that said "I don't do black/african men." I don't know why but this really hit me hard. I was upset and dismissed it at first but then sadness came rolling in. Not gonna lie, my self confidence took a huge nose dive and I've since been apprehensive about this whole thing, especially since I am also a bit fat. Has anyone ever been rejected by an escort? And Am I being too sensitive? lol
Dude, you need to get over this. Not saying it doesn't suck because of course it does, and to be at the receiving end of racism is in most people's eyes is unacceptable.
But it's not always down to racism - some of these girls may just have other sexual preferences that make their job easier. Always worth remembering, just because you're willing to pay, it doesn't mean you have the right to see the girl - ultimately, it's her choice and she's entitled to that.
Some may have pimps who are actually the racists and don't have the confidence to turn a black man away so they have the woman do it.
Some may also just be racist too.
But that's just life. Not every woman you meet will accept you, whether in a personal or punting scenario.
Try not to let this get to you, otherwise you seem like the type of person who would probably fall for a prossie and that will give you all sorts of heartache, headaches and financial issues in the future.
There's plenty of girls out there that will see you - punting is like a kid going into a candy store - you'll have a good time with the pick n mix on offer - don't get hung up over the one's you can't have - it's wasted energy for no reason.