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Online NightKid

Thanks for all that. And yes, will do exactly as you suggest. I am chatting with this girl at the moment and getting on very well with her. She comes across very differently when chatting than she does her heavy ruleset profile text.

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But if I crash and burn, I will message Molly (I literally only want one SB from the site and seemingly getting on well with ^ her at the moment).

My advice to you mate would be to stick with the ones that you know you'd get on with - speaking from experience, personality will trump looks every time and with the latter far more often than not you'll discover you were simply chasing a rainbow in the end.

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This girl.
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I think this was a good eye opener of my own latent prejudice I have within myself. I honestly thought if she was an escort, she'd take anyone on Seeking.

I sent her a polite message last night, And this morning I seen; read, no reply. She didn't even bother to read my Seeking profile. I have sent her another as a last ditch attempt, then will block her.

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Hi Molly, I don't think I would be in anyway exaggerating by saying. I think you are the prettiest girl in the north east. And I don't mean the prettiest girl on the north east section of seeking. I mean in the whole North East. You honestly look like a catwalk model. Can I ask, if its ok, if you would please look over my profile to see if you think we would ever be a match

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Hi Molly, I seemed to have crashed and burned with that first message as it says read, no reply. I am somewhat new to this and still getting to grips on how to send a good first message. Can I send one last one? Then that's it I will take the hint. But I am a graduate, of two degrees. one in Science the other in computing. I have a fairly good job in the IT industry. I work out 3 days a week by doing [Censored as its too revealing about myself] - (probably the hardest [Censored] on planet earth). And my passion is movies. Ideally I am seeking someone to watch some movies with me for a meet. As in having a meal and watching movies together. Would this be something you would enjoy too?

One good news, out of the blue after typing it I got a sudden whatsapp from a girl who I had left my number with on Friday and she had seeminly vansihed. When you get a message out of the blue, the sudden perk up cheery feeling you get is amazing.
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Offline tynetunnel

Blimey Anth. A bit over the top, no?  :unknown: What happened to a simple “hi, how are you? I like your profile and would love to know more about you…”

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Blimey Anth. A bit over the top, no?  :unknown: What happened to a simple “hi, how are you? I like your profile and would love to know more about you…”

Absolutely….Anth that comes across as a bit full on! If I were a SB I wouldn’t reply

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Blimey Anth. A bit over the top, no?  :unknown: What happened to a simple “hi, how are you? I like your profile and would love to know more about you…”

I honestly thought you had to personalise the messages so you don't make her think you are not just sending the same cookie cutter message to all girls? This is what the Red---t guides were saying.

I think maybe hard lesson learned there - the really (almost) Shakespearian thing about this, I actually held off messaging her and two others for 3 weeks as I thought she and those other two were so attractive I didn't want to say the wrong thing and blow it. So I wanted to practice messages on other girls first to then go for the 10/10s. But by holding off, I kind of built it up so much in my head I maybe went a little overboard when I did then message.

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I honestly thought you had to personalise the messages so you don't make her think you are not just sending the same cookie cutter message to all girls? This is what the Red---t guides were saying.

I think maybe hard lesson learned there - the really (almost) Shakespearian thing about this, I actually held off messaging her and two others for 3 weeks as I thought she and those other two were so attractive I didn't want to say the wrong thing and blow it. So I wanted to practice messages on other girls first to then go for the 10/10s.

Everyone has their preferred way of doing things, I usually say hi etc then make a comment about something in their profile/pics.

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No offence Anth....and I want to say this in the most pleasant way possible...this isn't for you pal....at best you'll end up being ignored and worst, taken for mahoosive ride.
Think you have all the hallmarks of what the youngsters call 'simp'....hope I'm wrong and you get some success but even I find it cringy reading it ...good luck

Ps I'm sure I gave you some pointers a couple of years ago....not saying it's perfect but you need to show you are a sugar daddy...not some creep (meaning too much focus on one girl)....you need to have a brash attitude towards it ..with minimal words that they can hang on to
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..you need to have a brash attitude towards it ..with minimal words that they can hang on to

Ok will do, thanks Brumish.
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She's replied back to the second message offering to meet today if I wanted.

[I am still taking everyones advice on board to dial things right back though, what you guys did was a good realization and much needed bucket of cold water]
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Great news… and are you going to?

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Great news… and are you going to?

She's just gave me her whatsapp to arrange it. I have sent it now waiting for a reply of where to go. I have a deepedown feeling she is going to send me to premiums bulding in Gateshead as she is down as working today on there.

I will see her happily as an escort if she does though, but its going to possibly mean Juney knows who i am on Seeking and it has some private stuff on there I woudn't want out in the punting world.
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She offered me to go to premiums building for 30mins at 8pm for £80 (i.e when her shift ends on the site - she never said that, I am just deducing that). I told her I will see her for another day for 2hrs which she then said £220.

You were right a few posts ago about see how she responds in escort fashion. She was not hiding any of it.

I have told her I will book whites instead in Jesmond and see her some day this week instead for 2hrs.
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Great result Anth...hope it all falls into place  :drinks:
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Think you have all the hallmarks of what the youngsters call 'simp'....hope I'm wrong and you get some success but even I find it cringy reading it ...good luck

You are not wrong with girls seeing me as a simp. Was chatting with Jenna/Molly today about a longer meet. She wanted £450 for 6 hrs - probably the most she has ever been paid. I sad I was all up for it.

Then suddenly, can I have deposit so I know I can trust you. And she is directing me to UKP to see she is a trustworthy girl with good reviews on there - like I am going to know what UKP stands for as a sugar daddy she is chatting to.

But I just then told her from then on, I am on UKPunting and been on it since it literally opened, but haven't punted in 4 years now. So then she told me which escort agency she is with and said to book her as an escort to get to know one another first. So am going to just book her as an escort it seems next week when she next works.

These girls think they have a soft touch in their midst and they will try it on.

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You are not wrong with girls seeing me as a simp. Was chatting with Jenna/Molly today about a longer meet. She wanted £450 for 6 hrs - probably the most she has ever been paid. I sad I was all up for it.

Then suddenly, can I have deposit so I know I can trust you. And she is directing me to UKP to see she is a trustworthy girl with good reviews on there - like I am going to know what UKP stands for as a sugar daddy she is chatting to.

But I just then told her from then on, I am on UKPunting and been on it since it literally opened, but haven't punted in 4 years now. So then she told me which escort agency she is with and said to book her as an escort to get to know one another first. So am going to just book her as an escort it seems next week when she next works.

These girls think they have a soft touch in their midst and they will try it on.

You will know more than I do Anth that this is textbook stuff really but hey, the end goal is to get into the knickers of these beautiful creatures so whichever route works pal... :drinks:
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Honey - Reading

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"don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours"

No guesses to what she did to me 30 minutes before we were supposed to meet

Offline tynetunnel

Frida - Cambridge - 24 - in my eyes cute as

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straight out with it and says “ I'd be looking for 900 per m, might as well be transparent as that's a deal breaker for most x”

Unsurprisingly it is a deal breaker for me too!  :unknown:

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My first read was per month TT  :wackogirl:
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I get the feeling that SBs who are asking for a higher allowance get a lot of rejections. At least most are up front about their expectations.


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omg I love Seeking. Subscribed at 11:00. At 17:30 I am pumping away and she asks me "When was the last time you fucked a 21 year old" "Eh?-I thought you were 23" "I was 16 when I joined" . Without going through my posts I think Last time I subscribed was in 2018-great memories but I'm pretty sure that 24 was the youngest then. And youngsters are so unreliable! - by the time I am exhausted, she realises that it is now 19:00. Her mate was meant to call her at 18:00 with the "Emergency - you have to leave now" call but had forgotten!  :D
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omg I love Seeking. Subscribed at 11:00. At 17:30 I am pumping away and she asks me "When was the last time you fucked a 21 year old" "Eh?-I thought you were 23" "I was 16 when I joined" . Without going through my posts I think Last time I subscribed was in 2018-great memories but I'm pretty sure that 24 was the youngest then. And youngsters are so unreliable! - by the time I am exhausted, she realises that it is now 19:00. Her mate was meant to call her at 18:00 with the "Emergency - you have to leave now" call but had forgotten!  :D

You’re a blast from the past! Eskimo brothers lol. Hope you’re enjoying being back in the saddle. I’m dabbling with tinder, insta, Reddit and such like ☺️

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You’re a blast from the past! Eskimo brothers lol. Hope you’re enjoying being back in the saddle. I’m dabbling with tinder, insta, Reddit and such like ☺️

lol, lets hope you did not meet this one between 2018 and 2020

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OMG subscribed and it is a desert of talent at the moment
West Mids is dry!!

Offline heathen666

OMG subscribed and it is a desert of talent at the moment
West Mids is dry!!

Berkshire isn't much better. I spend my time persuading girls to try out the new Elizabeth Line, no surprises that I'm not getting much interest.

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I on the other hand am proving incredibly popular and getting favourited loads!

There’s some fit girls in Columbia, Venezuela and Philippines  :drinks:

Offline stampjones

Berkshire isn't much better. I spend my time persuading girls to try out the new Elizabeth Line, no surprises that I'm not getting much interest.
If you try it out you’ll find things are much better at the other end. Well london anyway 😊

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A modern classic. I offered a girl 200 ppm. She came back with:
“Okay well I’m look for 300 at least which is only 100 more so that’s fine right?”
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A modern classic. I offered a girl 200 ppm. She came back with:
“Okay well I’m look for 300 at least which is only 100 more so that’s fine right?”
 :lol: :lol:

I hope you didn’t argue with her logic !

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A modern classic. I offered a girl 200 ppm. She came back with:
“Okay well I’m look for 300 at least which is only 100 more so that’s fine right?”
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Haha maybe ask if she is willing to go halfway and accept £250.

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omg I love Seeking. Subscribed at 11:00. At 17:30 I am pumping away and she asks me "When was the last time you fucked a 21 year old" "Eh?-I thought you were 23" "I was 16 when I joined" . Without going through my posts I think Last time I subscribed was in 2018-great memories but I'm pretty sure that 24 was the youngest then. And youngsters are so unreliable! - by the time I am exhausted, she realises that it is now 19:00. Her mate was meant to call her at 18:00 with the "Emergency - you have to leave now" call but had forgotten!  :D

OK, I think this was beginners luck. Have spent most of my time since trying to reel in a plane Jane. Now that we have agreed a date, I am realising that I would rather meet my mates down the pub. West Midlands does indeed seem dry. Think I was lucky enough to be around in the Golden Age of Seeking (To quote Tom Preston) - although even in them days there were guys who didn't seem to be getting a decent return.

Also I note my last comment was "subject to moderators approval" Is this because of Boasting/Bullshit/Age appropriate?

Despite the female company, it certainly seems a more lonely pursuit if we can only share our failures and not successes. I think part of the motivation and fun for me was sharing stories on here. An inspiration was TP who spent months documenting his dead ends before finding the Yellow Brick Road. I met women who confirmed the veracity of posts made by TP, Cheeesboard and InMefan and, yes, Randy Little Fucker wasted all our time with his bullshit.

Nostalgic post over
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Indeed they were! I was partial to reading a few ‘understanding success’ stories which were later outlawed as willy waving! TP certainly kept me entertained. SA was always a challenge, now more so than ever. It keeps drawing me back though as without it I would never have shagged some of the hot young things I have and continue to do! This and the open threads have been invaluable

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Yeah, Good times. I've remembered the hide button which I am putting to good use at the moment - making it a little less depressing.

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I actually saw this woman walking down the street in Solihull Town Cente - so I can vouch she is real although I would suggest she is nearer 40

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This thread has been invaluable to me from the outset...for me it wasn't just another avenue to roger some hotties but it also changed my whole persona, outlook and the confidence in approaching any sort of girls.

Great contributors  :drinks:

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Yes, like many here, I did well for some years on SA and met some great lasses. I remember TPs accounts.   However it's not been the same since COVID.  It may be that the new owners don't push it as Brandon did and the student lasses don't know about it.  Certainly fewer and girls and a fair few look false - nothing written.  Or those profiles that suddenly appear in a local search despite having been a member for some months. 
I used to favour girls within 80 miles or so and when I got up to about 70 or more favourites back I re-joined to make contact.   I've looking again for three months and only got 16 girls showing interest, other than those in far off lands. 

Offline heathen666

If you try it out you’ll find things are much better at the other end. Well london anyway 😊

My mission was to avoid going into London, hotels near me are a third of the price. I have had some success over the last 48hrs. Managed to meet a girl from North London last night. Good few hours in a hotel and £250 allowance plus a train line ticket.

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This thread has been invaluable to me from the outset...for me it wasn't just another avenue to roger some hotties but it also changed my whole persona, outlook and the confidence in approaching any sort of girls.

Great contributors  :drinks:

Agree but everyone needs to not forget the purpose of UKP is to share Reviews.

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Am I the only one who looks at a girls “wish list” simply to see if she has any sex toys in there?  :wacko:

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Agree but everyone needs to not forget the purpose of UKP is to share Reviews.

This. And it wasn't a coincidence that many of the willy wavers at the time were low review count users which doesn't help either.

Am I the only one who looks at a girls “wish list” simply to see if she has any sex toys in there?  :wacko:

No, I do the same - it's a green flag for me actually if she does.
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Am I the only one who looks at a girls “wish list” simply to see if she has any sex toys in there?  :wacko:

I always check for that  :lol:

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Am I the only one who looks at a girls “wish list” simply to see if she has any sex toys in there?  :wacko:

I've not checked a wish list since I found out that the girl is notified that you've looked at it.

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I've not checked a wish list since I found out that the girl is notified that you've looked at it.

I know they know. Which for me makes it all the more interesting. If they mention it, I tell them I was looking to see if they had any adult toys in the wish list, or if it’s all just shoes, perfume and handbags! Love it when you see a wish list with number of items 99+ - they obviously believe it’s worth investing that time and that some guy is going to buy them overpriced gifts!!

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I've not checked a wish list since I found out that the girl is notified that you've looked at it.

You can disable that

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Sweet but spicy - 24 Banbury

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Pretty sure she's an online only, money upfront scammer, asks for something upfront in her profile and asks if you have PayPal within a couple of messages. Told her I haven't and no response since.

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