Filtering out the BBers

[thundercrackerxx]

Why are people quite so bothered about BBers? I'm sure every working girl has had unprotected sex at some point, probably with multiple men in their lives even if not through their profession. Surely as long as you're wearing protection it won't make much difference if they do with every man they ever get with?

[thundercrackerxx]

If it worries you that much, I'd move on to another WG who does list services.

That said, I firmly believe (with no real evidence) that ALL WG's are LIKELY bb'ing someone, whether it's partners or favoured clients.

Look after yourself, get tested regularly, or find a new hobby.

Exactly. None of these girls will be using protection for every man they ever get with.

[Nagilum]

Why are people quite so bothered about BBers? I'm sure every working girl has had unprotected sex at some point, probably with multiple men in their lives even if not through their profession. Surely as long as you're wearing protection it won't make much difference if they do with every man they ever get with?

Because it demonstrates a careless attitude to sex and health on her part. No doubt, she is being barebacked by somebody, but that is differnet to barebacking her clients daily, whom are largely untested as she may be.

It's a risk/reward game, condoms will prevent things like HIV transmission, but the other STD's are skin to skin and easily transmissible. If a girl is freely barebacking, then it makes you wonder why and what she may be carrying.

[Doc Holliday]

Because it demonstrates a careless attitude to sex and health on her part. No doubt, she is being barebacked by somebody, but that is differnet to barebacking her clients daily, whom are largely untested as she may be.

And if it is established someone is barebacking daily with clients then most will quite rightly avoid. Of course the other side of the coin is she will attract others.

It's a risk/reward game, condoms will prevent things like HIV transmission, but the other STD's are skin to skin and easily transmissible. If a girl is freely barebacking, then it makes you wonder why and what she may be carrying.

Skin to skin transmission will include HPV and genital herpes and to some extent syphilis (although that is a little more complex) and as you say condoms will minimal effect on transmission. Whether either partner has a history of barebacking will therefore have no real impact on the transmission risk for herpes and HPV and is related more to number of sexual partners. Almost everyone who is sexually active will encounter these viruses periodically and may become infected irrespective of barebacking, but with very variable outcomes.

[daviemac]

Why are people quite so bothered about BBers? I'm sure every working girl has had unprotected sex at some point, probably with multiple men in their lives even if not through their profession. Surely as long as you're wearing protection it won't make much difference if they do with every man they ever get with?

Quick question, if a woman told you she had an STI would you still have sex with her.   

[Nagilum]

Skin to skin transmission will include HPV and genital herpes and to some extent syphilis (although that is a little more complex) and as you say condoms will minimal effect on transmission. Whether either partner has a history of barebacking will therefore have no real impact on the transmission risk for herpes and HPV and is related more to number of sexual partners. Almost everyone who is sexually active will encounter these viruses periodically and may become infected irrespective of barebacking, but with very variable outcomes.

Agreed, thank you Doc 

[thundercrackerxx]

Quick question, if a woman told you she had an STI would you still have sex with her.   

Depends what it was. Obviously I'd use a condom. But I go under the assumption that all hookers have had unprotected sex. I guess guys can't tell themselves the girls don't if it's made clear to them on a profile the the girl BBs. How many non AW girls that guys meet and hook up with off tinder or whatever have had unprotected sex with loads of other guys off of apps? I mean I get the concern over STI's in general of course. Just seems weird to me people seem to tell themselves a girl doesn't have unprotected sex if they don't list it on AW.

[daviemac]

Depends what it was. Obviously I'd use a condom. But I go under the assumption that all hookers have had unprotected sex. I guess guys can't tell themselves the girls don't if it's made clear to them on a profile the the girl BBs. How many non AW girls that guys meet and hook up with off tinder or whatever have had unprotected sex with loads of other guys off of apps? I mean I get the concern over STI's in general of course. Just seems weird to me people seem to tell themselves a girl doesn't have unprotected sex if they don't list it on AW.

You haven't answered the question, to make it easier if she told you she had gonorrhea would you still have sex with her. Yes or no?   

[getsbettereverytime]

Spend more money and guess what problem solved

Avoid cheap scum Roma etc
And avoid crack heads/ drug fiends

This should result in 99.99% avoiding any BB ( good plan for anyone ).

[alabama1]

Spend more money and guess what problem solved

Avoid cheap scum Roma etc
And avoid crack heads/ drug fiends

This should result in 99.99% avoiding any BB ( good plan for anyone ).

I don't think anyone intentionally punts a crack head. 

[Clitheroelad]

If it worries you that much, I'd move on to another WG who does list services.

That said, I firmly believe (with no real evidence) that ALL WG's are LIKELY bb'ing someone, whether it's partners or favoured clients.

Look after yourself, get tested regularly, or find a new hobby.

Absolutely. Well said.

[Doc Holliday]

Spend more money and guess what problem solved

Avoid cheap scum Roma etc
And avoid crack heads/ drug fiends

This should result in 99.99% avoiding any BB ( good plan for anyone ).

The most I ever spent (adjusted for time/inflation) was £140 an hour back circa 2005. On a second visit she offered me BB (not for an extra charge). She was very well reviewed at the time.

[Fuzzyduck]

The most I ever spent (adjusted for time/inflation) was £140 an hour back circa 2005. On a second visit she offered me BB (not for an extra charge). She was very well reviewed at the time.

Whilst I cringed at his generalisations and use of a stat, the premise is still valid: avoiding certain situations can lower any risk. However, you can never eliminate it, unless you choose to avoid punting altogether.

ps: did you?

[Southernbloke]

Spend more money and guess what problem solved

Avoid cheap scum Roma etc
And avoid crack heads/ drug fiends

This should result in 99.99% avoiding any BB ( good plan for anyone ).

I don’t totally agree with this, I have seen at least 3 ladies at what can be described as the lower end of the market and they absolutely do not offer bb

Orgasam addict Mandi ( Blackpool)

Naughty Suzy ( Blackpool)

Lancs cum slut ( Blackburn)
All reviewed on here by me and by others and absolutely zero evidence of bb

[Doc Holliday]

ps: did you?

I won't go into detail of what took place in the room .... 

Her reasons for suggesting it were complex and I will leave at that, but we had a grown up discussion and she saw sense. A risk assessment actually determined pregnancy was probably the greater risk.

[JontyR]

A risk assessment actually determined pregnancy was probably the greater risk.

I think the chances of her getting you pregnant were pretty slim Doc....where did you train again?

[Doc Holliday]

I think the chances of her getting you pregnant were pretty slim Doc....where did you train again?

   I was off sick the day we did dangly bits.

[Nagilum]

I won't go into detail of what took place in the room .... 

Her reasons for suggesting it were complex and I will leave at that, but we had a grown up discussion and she saw sense. A risk assessment actually determined pregnancy was probably the greater risk.

Christ, I have had regulars offer this in the past (both retired and reviewed well too) I would be in A&E panicking and asking for PrEP. Mind you, this is thanks to growing up in the 80's and the major scare of AIDS.

 

[Joball87]

I think all SPs bareback at least privately, that is the thing. There are even videos of AW SPs who also do amateur porn who are clearly barebacking - as the good Dr says, always use appropriate protection!

[Southernbloke]

I think it’s safe to say that anyone with children has had bareback sex