Bustymay90 - Nottingham NG7 - Time Wasting Bitch!

[afsdggd3]

Bustymay90
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In call booking agreed in Nottingham NG7 at 2:45pm and confirmed by her.

Got to the location, text her on arrival as she requested, got no reply.
Text again saying I'm here, got no reply.
Text again, no reply.
And another text, no reply.

Hence the title, a time wasting bitch.

See screenshot of conversation with her.

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[daviemac]

If you are going to post screenshots you need to edit unadvertised addresses out.

[afsdggd3]

If you are going to post screenshots you need to edit unadvertised addresses out.

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[hunkybc]

Oh dear...seems out of character for her!  Ive seen her before and yes she has checked her phone in the middle of a punt! My guess is that someone has top trumped you on price for a booking.  Still it is fully worthy of a negative and this from WGs is just not acceptable.

[Steve276]

Chill out man, it was just a missed punt. There are a million possible reasons she didn't respond. Maybe her phone ran out of juice, and she was gutted at missing it too. Maybe as suggested above you got gazumped by another punter. Deserves a negative either way, but doesn't deserve the b word.

[JD1]

Chill out man, it was just a missed punt. There are a million possible reasons she didn't respond. Maybe her phone ran out of juice, and she was gutted at missing it too. Maybe as suggested above you got gazumped by another punter. Deserves a negative either way, but doesn't deserve the b word.

If you look at the messages, you can see she read them almost as soon as he sent them, but chose not to respond.

Either way, does seem a bit extreme... I had a girl ghost me this week and whilst disappointing I didn't get angry about it. One of the risks we take. Not the first time this has happened to me and I'm sure it won't be the last.

Based on the correspondence with her and the very specific timings she could do, sounds like she was cramming apppointments in and likely had issues with this.

[GoldTop]

Not a good experience but it can happen. One would assume the odd negative doesn't impact her trade. There's probably a ton of AW luvvies who go nowhere near UKP and keep paying - whoever the SP is.

[gbyld87]

From my experience, this isn't that out of character for her.  She's messed me about before in a similar fashion so I just stopped bothering with her.  I also tend to get pretty pissed off when I get ghosted, as my time is valuable to me and it's highly disrespectful behaviour from the SP, so I do understand how the guy feels.

[Mutinyonthecounty]

Why all the anger my friend.

It’s not as if you were robbed, scammed, blackmailed or threatened. She just couldn’t be be arsed to see you. It happens.

It’s only supposed to be a bit of fun. If a girl letting you down gets you like this, then maybe this isn’t for you.

[bgg111]

When I’ve seen her in the past, her services were decent but nothing amazing. I tried arranging to see her again a short while ago, and I didn’t have a good feeling about her 1 word answer comms, if she couldn’t even be arsed to write a text message longer than “yes”, I just figured it didn’t bode well for her effort in a meet and SPs that respond like this are the most likely from my experience to ghost,  and so I told her i’d changed my mind and to cancel the arranged time. I got the most animated response of the conversation in a form of sarcastic ‘It’s your loss anyway’ style message, I got the impression she really looks down on the men she sees.

[Maverick1138]

I have tried to arrange meets with May a couple of times, but she kept dodging my question of where she was located, so I can never know if I can reach that part of the area and ultimately never book. I also get annoyed when girls ghost at the last minute. But you sound very very annoyed about something which regularly happens, thanks for sharing though.

[NickyBobby]

Didn’t she have some dodgy setup in Bulwell with a guy downstairs at one point? That might have been why was reluctant to give out her location

[GoldTop]

Didn’t she have some dodgy setup in Bulwell with a guy downstairs at one point? That might have been why was reluctant to give out her location

She did. To be fair, I saw her in Bulwell and met the guy on my way in. He owned the place, was working on his laptop with a coffee, and charged May for the room. I found it ok, but appreciate not for everyone

[Snagbadjer]

If I can offer some perspective. I had a similar experience with Spankme in Doncaster. Yes, it was frustrating, and yes I gave her a negative review. I had a feeling that I just got gazumped or that something else had happened. I tried my luck a few weeks later and had a brilliant time. While being ghosted is highly irritating, it is not the end of the world and does not justify the personal abuse. Sounds to me like your SP had a lucky escape and probably had a much better time with someone a bit more respectful.

Just take it on the chin, chalk it up to experience, and have a plan B and plan C in place for precisely this scenario, which is a cost of doing business in the unregulated world of punting.

[zvego]

Also, don’t forget May, like many other SP’s, is a mother. Anything could have happened that could take priority over a punt and the truth is nobody knows what happened except her.
However, a respectful response and apology should be the minimum expected but some people have the opinion “I don’t owe you anything” or prefer to avoid confrontation.
You could always just get Tinder and and plenty of fish to meet her for free if you match. Seen her profiles a few times.

[afsdggd3]

Also, don’t forget May, like many other SP’s, is a mother. Anything could have happened that could take priority over a punt and the truth is nobody knows what happened except her.
However, a respectful response and apology should be the minimum expected but some people have the opinion “I don’t owe you anything” or prefer to avoid confrontation.
You could always just get Tinder and and plenty of fish to meet her for free if you match. Seen her profiles a few times.

Being a mother isn't really an excuse to waste people's time, if I were a father, would I be allowed to do the same? I've had previous girls who've cancelled on me at the last minute, regulars who I still see, because they've informed me as soon as possible and apologized etc.

Thanks for the mentioning that she's on Tinder/plenty of fish, helpful to know  however the reason I choose this method instead of dating sites is so that I don't have to go through the usual dating procedure, meet, drinks, meals, listening to her talking about things which i have no interest in, so I prefer punting as it saves time and money in comparison.

[Picti]

Definitely a red, and definitely wasted your time and fuel. Your anger and language seem disproportionate though.

The most helpful aspects of your review and response are:

(1) She read your texts at the time and didn't respond. Sure she'll have a range of other responsibilities, don't we all. However, it takes seconds to write and send a short text to cancel and apologise. That's a reasonable expectation under all circumstances outside of genuine emergencies.

(2) The absence of a follow-up text to acknowledge the inconvenience and apologise.

Not doing either suggests disregard for a punter, and I think that's more troubling than the no-show.

It's also notable that she hasn't responded to your review in the manner she has to her other recent red.

[Nottsguy69]

Very angry post . May I suggest getting laid ?  Might help

[afsdggd3]

From my experience, this isn't that out of character for her.  She's messed me about before in a similar fashion so I just stopped bothering with her.  I also tend to get pretty pissed off when I get ghosted, as my time is valuable to me and it's highly disrespectful behaviour from the SP, so I do understand how the guy feels.

Exactamundo 

[Snagbadjer]

I wonder if it was an accident that you posted the screenshot of her address before mods took it down? Seems highly unlikely you didn't know. I think the SP picked up on your nasty vibe and wisely ghosted you.

[afsdggd3]

I wonder if it was an accident that you posted the screenshot of her address before mods took it down? Seems highly unlikely you didn't know. I think the SP picked up on your nasty vibe and wisely ghosted you.

"I think the SP picked up on your nasty vibe and wisely ghosted you" - sure, if only god gave all the other girls this magic power too  Enlighted us as to where this "nasty vibe" is in the message exchange?

If anything, after reading her reviews, it seems others are also put off by her snobby one word responses to clients.

The screenshot never contained her address in the first place which is why I posted it, the only thing she provided was the name of a building.

[NickyBobby]

It contained a post code, as you can see by the portion you’ve blanked out. That could be used to easily identify the building, which is why your post was reported to the mods

[Iloveoral]

Very angry post . May I suggest getting laid ?  Might help

That’s what the op was trying to do but got ghosted 

[afsdggd3]

It contained a post code, as you can see by the portion you’ve blanked out. That could be used to easily identify the building, which is why your post was reported to the mods

I see, I thought the issue was with the name of the building, not the post code. Though I did ask her for a "rough post code" in case she didn't want to provide her actual one during initial comms