Kinky London Escorts and ID Requirements

[rockinghut]

I have seen a couple of the providers over on External Link/Members Only in the past, back when they also advertised through AW. I enjoy the types of experience these providers offer, and would like to book with more of them, but I am finding they have all collectively now decided that they need photographic id, or your linkedIn profile and business email in order to see them. This seems absolutely mad and would be incredibly risky in terms of being exposed.

Has anyone found another way through these requirements, or perhaps an alternative way of getting through to providers like this? Or am I being too paranoid?

[Kinkylondongent]

I contacted a few from that site around Christmas time . I gave up when the cheapest I was offered was £400 an hour.

[SamOmar]

I have seen a couple of the providers over on External Link/Members Only in the past, back when they also advertised through AW. I enjoy the types of experience these providers offer, and would like to book with more of them, but I am finding they have all collectively now decided that they need photographic id, or your linkedIn profile and business email in order to see them. This seems absolutely mad and would be incredibly risky in terms of being exposed.

Has anyone found another way through these requirements, or perhaps an alternative way of getting through to providers like this? Or am I being too paranoid?

It's understandable in terms of weeding out nut cases and terrible people especially if the services provided could compromise their health / safety.

Fact is it's too much to ask for the average punter who relies on direction to do such a thing so probably best to move on from this agency or see the ones you seen on the past, if you got their direct line.

[brian1123]

You are confusing two things.

1)Escorts can ask for photo ID, I don't like it but I suppose it could be justified under "safety/security concerns" maybe for outcalls etc...

2)The LinkedIn verification / or "email sent from your employer's address" is "employment verification" basically it's a way they screen people out through social class. So CEO - yes, checkout worker at Tesco's - Not so much. It's not enough to turn up with the money, they want to make sure you are of the correct social standing before you blow a load on her face.

The 2nd practice is commonplace in the USA and has been imported over here and is now increasing prevalent especially in London.  What they do is conflate the 2 practices and pretend it's about "safety" because they don't want to admit to the 2nd practice because it contradicts much of their LARPing as bleeding heart/save the world types.

[Malvolio]

I don't think you're paranoid - there's no way I'm providing ID just to have a punt.

[Munter84]

2)The LinkedIn verification / or "email sent from your employer's address" is "employment verification" basically it's a way they screen people out through social class. So CEO - yes, checkout worker at Tesco's - Not so much. It's not enough to turn up with the money, they want to make sure you are of the correct social standing before you blow a load on her face.

But WHY, for fuck's sake? Whether the tesco worker had to save up 6 months for a posh shag or the CEO is spunking pocket change up the wall, money is money! The price tag in itself is surely effective as a filter. Surely they're not kidding themselves that richer blokes are less likely to be abusive toward the girls?

In the (clusterfuck that is the) States, ID makes a modicum of sense as prostitution is illegal and the girls want a reasonable assurance that their booking isn't a cop. Over here? It's entirely unnecessary as punting is legal, if not exactly socially accepted. Insisting on verification, real names etc strikes me as having a massive potential for blackmail.

[s0whatsnew?]

I get the idea that anything kinky, the girls feel more at risk from a vengeful punter and put in xtra security precautions.  The main danger point is on untying him at the end of the session when he might take revenge on his mother, or whoever the domme represents after delivering a fair amount of pain.

[brian1123]

But WHY, for fuck's sake? Whether the tesco worker had to save up 6 months for a posh shag or the CEO is spunking pocket change up the wall, money is money! The price tag in itself is surely effective as a filter. Surely they're not kidding themselves that richer blokes are less likely to be abusive toward the girls?

In the (clusterfuck that is the) States, ID makes a modicum of sense as prostitution is illegal and the girls want a reasonable assurance that their booking isn't a cop. Over here? It's entirely unnecessary as punting is legal, if not exactly socially accepted. Insisting on verification, real names etc strikes me as having a massive potential for blackmail.

I'm not justifying it, and I have not, nor would I  provide such information.  I'm just explaining what "employment verification" is and that it's been imported from the USA.  SP's claim it's for safety when it's obviously about only choosing to meet clients from a certain social strata they see as acceptable.

It's not at all necessary in the USA,   knowing where someone works does not keep anyone safer - but my experiences from the US is that punters there seem willing to pay astronomical rates and jump through multiple hoops just to make a booking especially in big cities.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Why they do it? who knows, agree it maybe due to safety and tehy have a legimate right to want to be safe in a meet with a stranger.

Is it the right thing to do? Who knows, I guess many are happy to provide this info else they would not be around for long and the site is very well established. If you dont agree with it you just move on I guess

[mrflash]

I have looked at those profiles. I would like to meet a few of them. I am fine with verification to be honest. I am a loner with nothing much to care about. What puts me off is that many of the women have those well decorated websites with essays about them but would not mention their hourly rate. Apparently it's bespoke as they would tailor the price based on our needs.

Should I fill those forms in all those websites only to realise that they are out of my budget later? Now that I think about it maybe they want to know your status first so that they can charge you accordingly. Can't shake away the thought of getting fleeced.

As another poster mentioned above, some of the SJW posts they make are hilarious when they post them next to their lifestyle photos taken in a Michelin restaurant where they meet a rich guy who pays them 300£ per hour for getting pegged and spanked.

[expeller]

Looking at Carla James's page re ID &c. she asks for reference from another sex worker who can vouch for you.