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Author Topic: How much does a woman's body count influence your "desire" to settle down?  (Read 719 times)

Offline Mario7769

With her? I'm very curious about what people's thoughts on this are. Particularly as punters.. Even though, the game of seduction and sex is a much different experience for us men than it is for women (which doesn't need to be stated), I realise some punters will be more "willing" to look past what they would consider to be a "high" body count in favour of her other "qualities"? Does a woman's sexual past and or body count get evaluated when you decide whether to spend money on dates, or take her seriously for a relationship or marriage?

Hopefully this is still relevant, because it's more specific to the punter's perspective.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2022, 08:29:12 pm by Mario7769 »

Offline Davey Dykes

In which way exactly is this punting related?

Edit.. This was in the general punting chat thread, now moved.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2022, 08:51:14 pm by Davey Dykes »

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Offline lillythesavage

Define body count, it reads like how many cocks she has had? could also mean BMI.

Offline hunkybc

I think it's refering to the number of sexual partners you have slept with. 

I think we need more context around thus post. Have you met someone, a working girl who you are thinking of having a relationship s with? What's the background?

Offline willie loman

in four weddings and a funeral, the girl says she has had more partners than princess diana, and less than madonna, its clear now that that was the wrong way round.

Offline Bertiebeenthere

when i read "body count"
i thought she was a serial killer!

Offline King Nuts

In the marvellously funny but deeply dark novel 'Kill Your Friends', the main character has a way of defining a woman by how many cocks he thinks she's had in her mouth in the previous 12 months.

I'm not sure either what 'body count' means, but I do have a certain 'type', and I could only be with someone longterm who conformed to that type. Might sound a bit shallow, but I've 'settled down' more than once in my life, and if I'm going to do so again, I want it to be with a woman whose physicality appeals.

I loved that clip from 'Clerks'. But unlike that dude, I am not bothered about a woman's sexual past. Not in the slightest.

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Offline Payyourwaymate

With her? I'm very curious about what people's thoughts on this are. Particularly as punters.. Even though, the game of seduction and sex is a much different experience for us men than it is for women (which doesn't need to be stated), I realise some punters will be more "willing" to look past what they would consider to be a "high" body count in favour of her other "qualities"? Does a woman's sexual past and or body count get evaluated when you decide whether to spend money on dates, or take her seriously for a relationship or marriage?

Hopefully this is still relevant, because it's more specific to the punter's perspective.

It's a difficult one. Before I was like a higher count its pointless, although it would be hypocritical of me. However, one thing for sure is women with higher counts cannot really pair bond and have some sort of trauma, because lets face it, not all sexual experiences for them will be great and at some point they will run into multiple horrid experiences.

I think now, if you both get along and have trust it is ok. Idealistically, it would be easier to just find a woman that does not have a "higher" count as the "baggage" they carry would be far less. I would not say body count matters when spending money on dates or to take her seriously. Me, I would take her whole character into consideration. Lets face it, unless you are going to different countries to order young women in or you catch a woman in uni who is still naive, odds are the woman has gotten around a bit. How do you even define a high body count? Before when I was younger, I thought 10 was too high  :lol: :lol: :lol:. Personally I would not really ask a womans count anymore, I would just observe how she acts. I realised that eventually, if the woman likes you....she will tell you everything of her own accord anyway.
« Last Edit: April 15, 2022, 10:27:46 am by Payyourwaymate »

Offline lillythesavage

It's a difficult one. Before I was like a higher count its pointless, although it would be hypocritical of me. However, one thing for sure is women with higher counts cannot really pair bond and have some sort of trauma, because lets face it, not all sexual experiences for them will be great and at some point they will run into multiple horrid experiences.

I think now, if you both get along and have trust it is ok. Idealistically, it would be easier to just find a woman that does not have a "higher" count as the "baggage" they carry would be far less. I would not say body count matters when spending money on dates or too take her seriously. Me, I would take her whole character into consideration. Lets face it, unless you are going to different countries to order young women in or you catch a woman in uni who is still naive, odds are the woman has gotten around a bit. How do you even define a high body count? Before when I was younger, I thought 10 was too high  :lol: :lol: :lol:. Personally I would not really ask a womans count anymore, I would just observe how she acts. I realised that eventually, if the woman likes you....she will tell you everything of her own accord anyway.


Why would anyone ask that question? I guess we are assuming he means cock count?

In my late teens early 20,s I dated a teen who had a body made for sin and loved using it, never asked the question and neither of us were faithful, but where truthful, her parents made us split when she went to Uni, I met a virgin stunner, but the first relationship never ended, the virgin felt her a threat and got pregnant, I did the decent thing and have always had a little regret, and it lasted only a short time.

Never found the level of trust and communication I had with the first one again in my life, we never rowed in 4 years, 2 years meeting only when we could, the child ended it, I met her in a shop some years later, she was with a now quite famous band member and planning to marry, but the look of regret on her face, and mine too, said it all.
I did ask if she wanted to meet again, the child was with me, I could see it was never going to happen but also the regret that things had not been different.

So the answer to the question is truth and trust outweighs everything, judging someone by the amount of sexual partners is shallow and weak, if you need to ask the question it says more about you than her IMHO.

Offline jaydefo24

I “think” he means rating , like how hot her body is ? Unfortunately the answer for me is no. I need to want to eat her ass or it’s never gonna work. Unfortunately that’s why I’ve ended so many otherwise great partners.

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I've read this mentioned this month on other sites. Is it a reddit topic or a YouTube video because it's weird how something so specific and not covered in there need keeps coming up. Not criticising the topic or anyone on here btw.

Offline Doc Holliday

I “think” he means rating , like how hot her body is ?

I think he means number of past sexual partners

Does a woman's sexual past and or body count get evaluated when you decide whether to spend money on dates, or take her seriously for a relationship or marriage?


It's the old 'stud versus slut' discussion.

Offline lillythesavage

I think he means number of past sexual partners

It's the old 'stud versus slut' discussion.

Would help if the OP came back to the thread he started and clarified what he meant.

Is the first thing you think when you meet someone you like " wonder how much cock she has had" ?  How many of us would ask that question before getting to know someone?

Offline Doc Holliday

Would help if the OP came back to the thread he started and clarified what he meant.


It would indeed.


Is the first thing you think when you meet someone you like " wonder how much cock she has had" ?  How many of us would ask that question before getting to know someone?

My perception would be that that it would not be an early reaction for most, but for many (men especially) it does enter the equation at some stage.

Offline lillythesavage

It would indeed.

My perception would be that that it would not be an early reaction for most, but for many (men especially) it does enter the equation at some stage.

Of course it does, had that chat many times and it usually comes quite naturally, rather than a forced discussion. , you still never know how much truth there is in it though.

A couple of my mates married, and have been married for many years, to women who had a known past, as in known by friends who had been there :D. If you want to force the discussion and make decisions and judgements on the replies to me it comes across as very shallow  :unknown:.

Offline pantywetter

“Body Count” means how many people she has fked.  Widely used phrase.

On the one hand I couldn’t care less, but on the other hand I would probably think the more the better as I would obviously want to settle down with someone who loves cock.

There is basically zero upside to setting down with someone who has only shagged a few people and would likely turn frigid after a few months.   

It would also be highly hypocritical of me to hold a different opinion!
« Last Edit: April 20, 2022, 09:23:22 am by pantywetter »

Offline lillythesavage

“Body Count” means how many people she has fked.  Widely used phrase.

On the one hand I couldn’t care less, but on the other hand I would probably think the more the better as I would obviously want to settle down with someone who loves cock.

There is basically zero upside to setting down with someone who has only shagged a few people and would likely turn frigid after a few months.   

It would also be highly hypocritical of me to hold a different opinion!

Exactly, probably what I would post myself, and if you can make it work in a non monogamous way, even better.  :D