Escorts vs civvies

[Outcallguy]

Hello I've made a rb and had 3 very temping offers for 2 hours for £250.
However I'm also chatting to two 'civvy' girls who I just offer £250 to for sex.
My only worry is the civvy girls won't tell me up front if they swallow or what I would get for the money.
I haven't met them in person yet and am going to.
Do you just walk away if they don't do what you want? Should I pay them any free just for coming to see me to discuss?
I'm on my phone so can't post links. But their looks are less relevant than how to handle what I want.
Any advice?

[oddson1970]

they aren't exactly civvies if they are taking money off you for sex

[seeker]

they aren't exactly civvies if they are taking money off you for sex

I forsee Trouble 

[daviemac]

If they are accepting money for sex then they are prostitutes, plain and simple. If you are going round propositioning women and trying to coerce them into accepting money for sex it could cause you a whole lot of bother, you could find yourself branded a weirdo all over social media. Far better to just book a known escort then there's no issues around what you should be getting.

If you are treating it like dating then you take the chance on what happens at the end of the night.

[Outcallguy]

Thanks that is a good way of looking at it.

[Marmalade]

If it's a case of talking to civvy girls eg on a dating app or better, in person, just bring it up as a 'topic' in the same way as you might say what do you think about climate change, ask about when she first had sex, work round to what she enjoys and what she doesn't. Tbh I hardly would have thought was a deal breaker with civvie sex. I'm more interested in whether she's double vaccinated and intends, or will intend, to go to bed with me. If you've already shagged her, then simply ask nonchalantly "have you ever..."

[Marmalade]

If they are accepting money for sex then they are prostitutes, plain and simple.
If you are treating it like dating then you take the chance on what happens at the end of the night.

It does sound like a rather weird question. As if he's shagging a different civvie every night and wants to knock back those that don't swallow. Nope. More like a SA.

[lillythesavage]

Thanks that is a good way of looking at it.

What other way could you look at it? 

If you have not met them yet I guess you have made contact online? Every platform has women selling sex,  dating sites and apps, free ads and the SB sites, often poorly reviewed hookers drumming up business  , but also loads of scam artists and chancers, you really need to keep your wits about you playing on these platforms for paid sex.
That said it can be enormous fun if it works for you.

[sparkus]

Crap topic if you ask me.

I thought OP would mean 'Do I pay for sex or try to get it from civvies somehow?'

[pantywetter]

I think it's actually pretty hard to pull civvies.  I can count mine on one hand, and I'm not actually *that* ugly and have some confidence around women. 

What do the single guys do who don't pay for sex?  Are there really men out there who are going for weeks and years without a shag? 

[sparkus]

I think it's actually pretty hard to pull civvies.  I can count mine on one hand, and I'm not actually *that* ugly and have some confidence around women. 

What do the single guys do who don't pay for sex?  Are there really men out there who are going for weeks and years without a shag?

I know several!

A common trait is only going for women who are stratospherically way out of their league, so when rejected they can say it's meant to be.

[l4at]

I know several!

A common trait is only going for women who are stratospherically way out of their league, so when rejected they can say it's meant to be.

Same. I also know a couple of virgins who are waiting for the ‘one.’ The one being someone completely out of their league. God knows how they manage it.

[PaulRuff]

I think it's actually pretty hard to pull civvies.  I can count mine on one hand, and I'm not actually *that* ugly and have some confidence around women. 

What do the single guys do who don't pay for sex?  Are there really men out there who are going for weeks and years without a shag?

Add to that the fact that a good chunk of civvy women think they're the best thing since sliced bread & expect to be wined, dined and otherwise worshipped before they come across with the goods...fuck that when I can get a guaranteed suck & fuck for the price of a decent meal.

[pantywetter]

When you consider how hard it is to pull and how much hard work, I suspect the percentage of men who punt is much higher than almost all estimates.

Imagine not having a shag for months whilst knowing you can get your end away with a fit girl for a relatively small sum of money on demand.  I just don’t understand how that could happen. 

Then again I am a reprobate.

[Marmalade]

When you consider how hard it is to pull and how much hard work, I suspect the percentage of men who punt is much higher than almost all estimates.

Imagine not having a shag for months whilst knowing you can get your end away with a fit girl for a relatively small sum of money on demand.  I just don’t understand how that could happen. 

Then again I am a reprobate.

Pulling can be hard work but also fun. The best pulling can be when it “just happens”. If it doesn’t happen for a few months (with or without work) then i believe the system can get clogged up. The prossie then acts much like a medical service, emptying the fermented sac and restoring balance.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

 "emptying the fermented sac and restoring balance."

Wot abaht  the side effects like any drug taken;?...

[Marmalade]

"emptying the fermented sac and restoring balance."

Wot abaht  the side effects like any drug taken;?...

I don’t follow you… . You seem in a hurry to type. Sorry if you didn’t like the description.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I don’t follow you… . You seem in a hurry to type. Sorry if you didn’t like the description.

there was a bit ofd a joke in there somewhere;)...

[Marmalade]

there was a bit ofd a joke in there somewhere;)...

righto 

[LLPunting]

Add to that the fact that a good chunk of civvy women think they're the best thing since sliced bread & expect to be wined, dined and otherwise worshipped before they come across with the goods...fuck that when I can get a guaranteed suck & fuck for the price of a decent meal.

The same women who sell their scanties and images on classifieds sites and social media marketplaces?  The same who commoditise their every T&A jiggle and near-reveal for followers, platform sponsors and simp donors?