Unread Emails on Adultwork

[mattylondon]

I'm new to all this so some advice would be appreciated. I am amazed how many emails sent via AW can be left for days and unread, even though the recipient has logged on every day. Is it possible for them to delete your email without reading it? Do some girls just get so many emails and just don't have time to read

If you have decent options around, I'd focus primarily on those who display a contact number. Whilst not full proof, you're more likely to meet with a timely response. This cuts down on your time and allows one to source more options quickly. They're also less likely to be time wasters or fantasists, who abound on AW. Further, there's the additional benefit of talking with the real person, so one can try to gauge her personality. Get a 'feel' for the woman. Be careful with some EEs, as it may be the maid/pimp, so establish if it's the SP. Avoid the ones completely, who state that a man answers any enquires.

However, many prossies don't display a number, so if you're e-mailing, keep it short and sweet.

Desired date/time - don't ask her 'when are you free'. Be polite, but assertive. You're in charge.
Length of booking
Price
Services requested - are they all inclusive or are any classed as 'extras'. For example, OWO.

For those who read and immediately delete, bin and block them, as they're time wasters. It's also pretty rude, so why spend your hard earned on them. Give her a couple of days if she's logging in everyday but no more. Many are barely literate never mind Internet savvy, so you need to make some allowances for those who are a bit dense! They're not always deliberately igniting you!

And of course, many AW profiles are fake but they're pretty easy to spot.

[mattylondon]

Edit. I meant ignoring not igniting!

[Natwest]

Edit. I meant ignoring not igniting!

Actually I thought "igniting" was very descriptive.

But ignoring works as well.

Thank you for the good advice.

[potato]

If you expect to correspond with the majority of girls on AW as you would do with a professional business then you are on to a loser.  It would appear that many of the girls live in a world of general chaos and others simply pick and choose the "certainty's" to suit them and ignore other mails. Many are not capable of running a business or holding down a job with any sort of responsibly so they turn to prostitution. Its probably one of the few professions where you can piss off a large percentage of your clients without fear of redress - and there's always a new mug coming along to replace the disgruntled....

There is a small percentage of girls out there that do it right, finding them is hard work. 

[CBPaul]

Perhaps when you've seen a prossie a few times and she knows you aren't a time waster then some may well engage in email tennis on the build up to a punt. In other words once she knows you're safe and good for money she'll spend some time emailing / texting you because she wants to keep the income stream.

Otherwise the majority of prossies won't engage, they want definite bookings and you have to make that clear pretty quickly in order for your email to stand out amongst the crap ones they receive. If you are willing to pay up front for some flirty messages then more would probably play ball - not for me though I'm afraid.

You also need to discount the vast majority of EE girls from this, they only send a yes or no and their address by text, sod all else.

[Boundless]

If you expect to correspond with the majority of girls on AW as you would do with a professional business then you are on to a loser.  It would appear that many of the girls live in a world of general chaos and others simply pick and choose the "certainty's" to suit them and ignore other mails. Many are not capable of running a business or holding down a job with any sort of responsibly so they turn to prostitution. Its probably one of the few professions where you can piss off a large percentage of your clients without fear of redress - and there's always a new mug coming along to replace the disgruntled....

There is a small percentage of girls out there that do it right, finding them is hard work.

Couldn't agree more, 99% need some basic lessons in business sense. Most couldn't organise a gang bang in a brothel. 

I love that quote "Its probably one of the few professions where you can piss off a large percentage of your clients without fear of redress - and there's always a new mug coming along" Sad but true, maybe we should all go on strike for better conditions!

[Natwest]

More great advice thanks everyone.

So when I finally take the plunge and put in a booking request (the one I fancy losing my virginity to has no phone number), what should I reasonably expect back before I can be comfortable that its agreed and will go ahead?

Also when the Booking Request form part

"Your Details" states "Contact Me on xx/xx/xxx between xx/xx and xx/xx what is that supposed to mean?

Sorry but I am really crap at understanding filling in forms - ask HMRC.

[cockneybstrd]

She is supposed to call you between those time you deem as acceptable

What this means is she will send you a txt when she feels like it saying Hi Babe its xxx from AW

[CBPaul]

More great advice thanks everyone.

So when I finally take the plunge and put in a booking request (the one I fancy losing my virginity to has no phone number), what should I reasonably expect back before I can be comfortable that its agreed and will go ahead?

Also when the Booking Request form part

"Your Details" states "Contact Me on xx/xx/xxx between xx/xx and xx/xx what is that supposed to mean?

Sorry but I am really crap at understanding filling in forms - ask HMRC.

If she hasn't got a phone number displayed don't hold your breath, may be on 'holiday' though.

The your details bit.... the idea is you put in a time frame for the chosen prossie to call you and make arrangements. It never works, they never do ! If I book using the AW system, which is rare, I put call between 01:00 and 01:30 just to allow the system to continue. At the end of the day you'll have to phone her.

[Natwest]

She is supposed to call you between those time you deem as acceptable

What this means is she will send you a txt when she feels like it saying Hi Babe its xxx from AW

Do you mean she calls to confirm that she has accepted the booking? Would you normally expect a reply to the booking request? It seems weird that your AW page shows that you have made a booking regardless of whether the recipient has accepted it?

[new_punter]

Do you mean she calls to confirm that she has accepted the booking? Would you normally expect a reply to the booking request? It seems weird that your AW page shows that you have made a booking regardless of whether the recipient has accepted it?

Never had one call me yet to confirm a booking is accepted.  Most will only confirm the booking on AW once it has taken place, so you can't leave good/bad feedback.  I am sure Dani has stated that's what AW tells the girls to do.

[new_punter]

Yes.  If you want to check if you have been blocked / blacklisted then send a mail to them and then check your sent mail almost immediately. If you have been blocked then your sent mail will show deleted straight away -  as AW deletes the mail for them automatically.

Thanks for reply.  In that case I am just being ignored  or something weird has happened to a profile of a girl I saw a fair bit of at one time.