I can offer a few tips. If you're going to buy yourself a set of different sizes ( and you should ) then make sure you buy a reputable make, 'Hegar', for one. There are other brands just as pricey. Don't buy cheap. The reason is that the quality of steel and the finishing makes for smoothness at a microscopic level. Cheap means a rough surface which you urethra will react to as if on fire.
Next; starting off with thin and working up in thickness will acclamatize your cock to the sensations. Its difficult to describe the sensation but .... interesting.. well worth it, believe me !
Strangely, tho, I found the fatter ones more comfortable than the thinner ones right from my starting training myself.
The big risk is that you or whoever is doing you pushes it too far and punctures the bladder. But if your errection is already solid before insertion, the valve that shuts off the bladder and switches in the testicles (like train track points) won't allow that particular danger. An experienced domme demonstrated this to me as I lay on her massage table by taking her hand off it completely as I lay there. The angle of erection doesn't allow the sound to go the wrong way and it just sat there. Even so, just simply don't let it get further in than the length of your visible cock. A good excuse to measure everything in advance !
Ok, well thats all i can think for the moment. Any questions, fire away. Smileys/kolobok/dance2.gif
Well that's a safety first approach, this'll make you wince.
I got my a set of rose buds a guy listed on gumtree, they were free but with a catch.
A few snippets of advice from me.
KY jelly only all other lubes have fucked me up, apart from coconut oil has worked for me. Blue durex lube in a pump bottle "get that shit away from me"
There's really good quality stainless steel ones on Ali-express, there's vibrating silicon ones I haven't tried and mini anal beads.
Names like Van burren and hegar are generic designs rather than brand names. Names after the beardy victorian dr's who came up with the dilator design.
For me sounding is mainly a complicated solo masturbation thing, I like it kinda a rough. It's hard to get people to do that.
Rosebuds feel similar to teasing a hole but not sticking it all in, feels like a dick with a big bulbous helmet, it's all about the stretch round the head.
The moment of sticking a big rosebud in your dribbly eye, and remembering you've got to get the fucker out is a rush, but once your past the eye it's all fun fun fun.
Sounds that are a constant diameter are similar sticking your dick in and grinding, you get that heavy full feeling, of a fat one in the pipe.
My Dad had some kinda am I gay sexuality crisis over having to have a catheter (hope the old man isn't here). I see sounding as in some way getting over that before I have to have one, I know I'll be able to approach it with less baggage. It was weird like he wanted a purple heart over this small side procedure he had to have; I'll be much more at risk of getting a chub "Is it time for my catheter yet nurse?".
7&8mm is all I'll ever use, 9mm seems totally impossible 7mm is a bit tame, I don't think you can actually stretch your urethra in a permanent way and move up to bigger sounds or at least I couldn't wouldn't want to.
It's good to drink a couple of pints of water before, then have a big weak piss afterward to wash everything out. Don't be hungover or dehydrated, you'll regret it.
I don't think puncturing your bladder is a big risk, you kind of feel when you reach the bladder sphincter. Suposably you can relax your way past this sphincter but I don't fancy it somehow. Perhaps it was this final frontier that messed with my Dad's heid.
There's lots of fun things you can do.
You can push them out by getting harder then relaxing to let it slide back in.
Combined with a dildo in the butt can get your prostate good and tickled.
Moving the 7mm past the 8mm in the urethra is a rush.
The cis woman I soundied with got very into it.
I like the sounds a lot basically.
