I strongly suspect this is a guy. Look at the rules, no speaking, no touching. I was planning to meet a few years back and asked by text if "she" would be able to show pussy or boobs before the BJ. A quite reasonable request or so I thought. What followed was a barrage of abusive texts. I ignored them thinking I'd just had a lucky escape. Then I got a call in the middle of the night, around 2am. I didn't answer. I then got a text saying "she" was going to tell my wife. Lucky I don't have a wife. Blocked the number and never heard from the psycho again.
Steer clear of this one guys.