Just been saved again by UKP.
Was thinking of a meet with a particular SP, but did a search on here first and found a review that said she only did light pecking rather than DFK....despite the fact that it was on her "enjoys" list (not even down as discretionary!).
When I start punting again (and thus reviewing), if something isn't offered that's on the enjoys list, then unless the meeting is exceptional in every other way (which will earn a neutral), it's going to be a negative.
Pet hate: "No fingers", when fingering/finger play is listed...by that time it's too late to walk out!
P.S. before anyone comments....my hands are immaculately manicured, even if I do say so myself!