TS in question....
External Link/Members OnlyMeeting never happened, i messaged her at about 3 ask if she was free at 5:30. She sent me postcode for a block of flats near the station which im used to going to. I set off, i had to travel from wiltshire but she looked the best option. When i was about 20 mins away on the M3 got a call from her asking if i was still coming and i said yes. I got to the block about 10 mins early and text, no reply.... tried a few times, no response. Gave up after 10 mins after appointment should have started, never got a reply.
conclusion - long journey for nothing