SW on Match

[nothiingtodeclare]

I discovered an escort on which I have contacted about meeting in the past, plans were put on hold due to covid. Although she hides her face on her Escort profile, there is enough to tell me it's the same person due to some of the interests she lists on both her work profile and match. Along with a very distinctive necklace. Her match profile is built around looking for a relationship.

We have been chatting on match and do have some shared interests. Should I let on I recognize her?

[datwabbit]

No. What would it achieve on a dating site?

[Punterperson1971]

I discovered an escort on which I have contacted about meeting in the past, plans were put on hold due to covid. Although she hides her face on her Escort profile, there is enough to tell me it's the same person due to some of the interests she lists on both her work profile and match. Along with a very distinctive necklace. Her match profile is built around looking for a relationship.

We have been chatting on match and do have some shared interests. Should I let on I recognize her?

Post a link to her escorting tho

[fantasticmrfox]

I've seen WG on legitimate dating sites. You can never be sure whether it's a hoax or whether someone has taken their pics and they are victim of some type of ID fraud. But given the benefit of the doubt, WG can date just as we all can. It's funny I've seen a couple of really desirable WG on well known sites and I'm pretty sure it was genuine as the pics were all in civilian world but that's their own personal business. I never responded to those profiles but nothing wrong if I were to, that was just my choice. Funny thing was  some of these profiles would still lie about age 

But sounds like you're getting on, just carry on the chat and not sure it's wise to post her AW link etc.

[Corus Boy]

Probably 20 years back, I think it was a Yahoo dating group that I joined.

I'm pretty it was before I started punting and possibly what led me into punting.

Lots of local women on there and had quite a few enjoyable straight dates with nothing but a hug and kiss at the end.

Equally there were a lot of profiles who would respond politely and conventionally but would close with something like;

"...If you want to shag me it will cost you ££££s..."

I guess that before forums and personal websites, so they were at the forefront of the Internet revolution.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

No. What would it achieve on a dating site?

100% agree. Wait to see if she brings it up. If you say anything it could well spook. If she does meet you at least you know you should get a shag out of it.

[Rick2468]

I have used dating sites for years so probably count as a veteran and I have seen a few WGs on dating sites. The photos have been of them at bars, weddings, etc so I assume they are genuine. I normally message them to say hello and see if they message back and in the past two have messaged back who are both still active as escorts. The first listed her occupations as "Fashion student" and we were getting on well and I mentioned the possibility of a drink and she said she was not interested in meeting anyone for a few months whilst she concentrated on setting up her fashion label which I thought was a dick move from her to be on a dating site when she had no intention of meeting anyone so I didn't message her any further.

The other escort listed her occupation as "customer services" which I thought was funny. She actually messaged me first and we were getting on well. She mentioned she had had a immoral past and I assume she was talking about her escorting (even though she continues to escort to this day). I played dumb and said "why? have you been in jail?" but she never confessed to her true job. We actually swapped numbers and I called her but she stopped messaging me after that so I assume I didn't give a good impression on the phone.

I have mentioned the next tale at least once on UKP but I once saw Rebecca More on a dating site. I feel I always have a sense of when a profile is fake and I thought the profile was genuine as it had photos of her with friends, mum, etc and the profile write-up was quite long. I can't remember what she listed her occupation on there as. I messaged her and a few minutes later I saw that she had viewed my profile. Usually if a woman replies she responds soon after viewing your page so I kept refreshing my inbox every 3 seconds praying for a message to appear but alas there was no message. I was gutted. I know Rebecca More divides opinion on here but I think she is hot so would have loved to have chatted to her.

There have been a few other escorts on there who I have messaged but just not received a response.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

I'm married so not much experience of dating aps. I did join Badoo for a brief period recently and saw a couple of massage girls with profiles but didn't try to contact them.

[yepitsmeagain]

About 8 years ago, a "Facebook Friend" Tried to get me to go on a date with her mate.

She got us chatting, both had a lot in common, but I made may excuses when I found out she's 6 foot!! I like my girls petite.

Then one day, im trawling through AW, and there she was!!!

Am I allowed to post her AW page?

[scutty brown]

Just remember that if you date her she'll still be shagging other blokes for cash. And she may actually want a real relationship.
Can you cope with that?

[LLPunting]

Just remember that if you date her she'll still be shagging other blokes for cash. And she may actually want a real relationship.
Can you cope with that?

More importantly, if you do date do you get her to pay for all the meals and entertainment as she's likely earning more than you.

[yepitsmeagain]

More importantly, if you do date do you get her to pay for all the meals and entertainment as she's likely earning more than you.

And just imagine, she comes home from work, you're feeling horny, and she says, "Not tonight darling, had a real busy day today!" Now that would be a real kick in the bollocks!!

[Rick2468]

Just remember that if you date her she'll still be shagging other blokes for cash. And she may actually want a real relationship.
Can you cope with that?

I don't. I think I would be interested at first thinking the sex could be amazing as it's there job and they have experience but I would not be able to cope if it is anything more than very short term.

[willie loman]

100% agree. Wait to see if she brings it up. If you say anything it could well spook. If she does meet you at least you know you should get a shag out of it.

possibly, but ive know a few wgs, and they are actually pretty conservative away from the job, their grown up kids not allowed partners to stay over, until they are over 18 etc

[Blackcat25]

I don't. I think I would be interested at first thinking the sex could be amazing as it's there job and they have experience but I would not be able to cope if it is anything more than very short term.

Reminds me of the old saying that the mechanics car is falling to pieces and not maintained as they’re too busy fixing everyone else’s and can’t be arsed with their own. Same goes for plumbers and there own heating system 

[Mr Sinister]

I've seen quite a few wgs on dating apps, haven't matched one yet if I did I would just play along to get some 'free' action, then bail as I wouldn't want to get too involved.

[Rick2468]

Reminds me of the old saying that the mechanics car is falling to pieces and not maintained as they’re too busy fixing everyone else’s and can’t be arsed with their own. Same goes for plumbers and there own heating system 

Yep I agree the reality probably would not match the fantasy although I have a friend who is dating a lapdancer who looks absolutely filthy and there have been times when we have seen him and he has told us he is knackered and apologised for being tired but his missus was hassling him for sex all the time and he has told her she takes it up the bum as well. The rest of the lads in the group gave him a sympathetic pat on the back but you could tell everyone was thinking "you lucky bastard". I know lapdancing is not the same as escorting but I'd say it's similar on a broad scale. I would love to post one of her photos from Facebook so you could see how filthy she looks but it would be out of order and against the rules.

[Blackcat25]

Yep I agree the reality probably would not match the fantasy although I have a friend who is dating a lapdancer who looks absolutely filthy and there have been times when we have seen him and he has told us he is knackered and apologised for being tired but his missus was hassling him for sex all the time and he has told her she takes it up the bum as well. The rest of the lads in the group gave him a sympathetic pat on the back but you could tell everyone was thinking "you lucky bastard". I know lapdancing is not the same as escorting but I'd say it's similar on a broad scale. I would love to post one of her photos from Facebook so you could see how filthy she looks but it would be out of order and against the rules.

Problem is sex appeal soon wares off and if you’re dating a 10 every other fucker is looking to pull her to, in saying that I’m just jealous 

[donnybob]

Yep I agree the reality probably would not match the fantasy although I have a friend who is dating a lapdancer who looks absolutely filthy and there have been times when we have seen him and he has told us he is knackered and apologised for being tired but his missus was hassling him for sex all the time and he has told her she takes it up the bum as well. The rest of the lads in the group gave him a sympathetic pat on the back but you could tell everyone was thinking "you lucky bastard". I know lapdancing is not the same as escorting but I'd say it's similar on a broad scale. I would love to post one of her photos from Facebook so you could see how filthy she looks but it would be out of order and against the rules.

Just PM the picture to everyone instead 

[Rick2468]

Problem is sex appeal soon wares off and if you’re dating a 10 every other fucker is looking to pull her to, in saying that I’m just jealous 

I'm mega jealous of him. I would not want to date her long term as she is a bit of a scally I would say but I have definitely daydreamed about shagging her I would love to. My mate who is her boyfriend is a hard bastard so I would never ever try it on. We were at a house gathering once and a song came on that she started dancing to and she danced up to me whilst I was sat in the chair and almost straddled me whilst I was dancing. It was hot but I couldn't enjoy my main thought was to act annoyed in case my mate thought I was enjoying myself meaning I might have got on the wrong side of him. Likewise I would never go and see her lapdancing in case it got back to him. I have PMed you a photo of her so you can see what I am talking about :-).

Edit: Well dammit, Looks like I can't send images over PM. Would have been interested to know what you thought of her but ah well not important (slow day today!)

[Blackcat25]

Not to worry, but thanks anyway