I'm not bothered about hearing personal stuff,it wouldn'btput me off but I didn't want to hear about other punters. The thing with personal details is the intimacy, clearly some are there for that side of it some just to empty their sacks, some a mixture where having some sort of, albeit perhaps fake, intimacy, increases the pleasure, we're all different.
The only "regular" I've ever had I saw maybe once a year over 5 years, I was surprised she remembered me but she clearly did, we did have the odd chat about stuff after seeing a band poster on her wall, music lead to more, by my last punt she was telling me of her 6 year old child. I just realised last week she was no longer active. For as much as I say that punters are all different the same goes for for SPs, I imagine some will appreciate the time spent chatting as if we were two human beings, not just two people involved in a cold financial transaction others will wish you'll shut up jabbering and fuck off.