She told me she couldn't make it because of a sick dog and has subsequently ignored my messages without reading them even though she has logged in many times.
I would give her a negative review based on that, but reviews are probably best reserved for those you actually meet.
Whilst I can understand if the distance was too far for her, it would have been polite to have simply said that, not ignore messages. But that's women in general. Can't say no, can only hint it.