Punting while in relationship/married

[Rblack78]

I signed up here to have a look and make sure I know what I'm doing...

Basically I've got my eye on a punt in Newquay (elegant emily xxx). She has good reviews here and on on AW. Spoken to her and all seems good. My dilemma is that I'm in a relationship... sex wise I get anything I want from her. She's currently pregnant and we have children together.

So im sure there's a few other married guys on here? Is it cheating? I know the Japanese do it and use it as a service. But I'm sure if my partner found out it wouldn't go down well!

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[PeachyAssFan]

To answer your question. I think most trolls know what they are doing. Goodbye hopefully

[Rblack78]

PeachyAssFan how am I a troll? I'm asking a genuine question, one that I'm sure a few others were asking themselves before they took the plunge. I'm pretty much hoping someone gives me a good enough reason to book someone and fill my boots! 

It's only the guilt side of things that's stopping me. It would be good to get some good genuine answers from others in relationships. I've used escorts before. I used that girl Gracie Devon (scar between boobs) before, but that was when I was a single guy so then it was just about affording it.

[Fuzzyduck]

PeachyAssFan how am I a troll? I'm asking a genuine question, one that I'm sure a few others were asking themselves before they took the plunge. I'm pretty much hoping someone gives me a good enough reason to book someone and fill my boots! 

It's only the guilt side of things that's stopping me. It would be good to get some good genuine answers from others in relationships. I've used escorts before. I used that girl Gracie Devon (scar between boobs) before, but that was when I was a single guy so then it was just about affording it.

Don't be so lame. It might be easier if you told the room what reassuring words you want to hear to deal with the guilt you're experiencing since you intend to to cheat on your pregnant partner and mother of your children. I'll then copy and paste them back for you.

"But it was only sex, honey. I love you..."

Loads of guys have cheated on their partners with civvies and SPs. I've done it in the past. We're selfish bastards. Deal with it.
And don't get caught.
And do a review.

[Chatte Noir]

PeachyAssFan how am I a troll? I'm asking a genuine question, one that I'm sure a few others were asking themselves before they took the plunge. I'm pretty much hoping someone gives me a good enough reason to book someone and fill my boots! 

It's only the guilt side of things that's stopping me. It would be good to get some good genuine answers from others in relationships. I've used escorts before. I used that girl Gracie Devon (scar between boobs) before, but that was when I was a single guy so then it was just about affording it.

Don’t do it ! You will feel guilty the rest of your life and probably end up telling your wife, she will leave you and you will end up topping yourself. You are clearly too fragile.

[Chatte Noir]

Admin will be v happy , you are turning the forum into fucking Jeremy Kyle Show.

[Sir Lance-a-lot]

Uh, yeah, what's the point of this thread?

Do it, or don't do it.  Up to you.

I'm not punting at the moment because I have a girlfriend.  Doesn't make me morally superior, it's just that I'm a tightfisted skinflint who won't pay for it when he doesn't have to!

A lot of women lose interest in sex when they're pregnant.  Some don't, and actually get hornier.  Whatever your reasons for shagging elsewhere, they're YOUR reasons.

[streetstroler]

I'm married and been punting for over 20 years.  Felt guilty at first, but just keep doing it ,it wears off eventually.

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[Fuzzyduck]

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[dowager]

I signed up here to have a look and make sure I know what I'm doing...

Basically I've got my eye on a punt in Newquay (elegant emily xxx). She has good reviews here and on on AW. Spoken to her and all seems good. My dilemma is that I'm in a relationship... sex wise I get anything I want from her. She's currently pregnant and we have children together.

So im sure there's a few other married guys on here? Is it cheating? I know the Japanese do it and use it as a service. But I'm sure if my partner found out it wouldn't go down well!

I think if you have to ask then you probably already know the answer. Advice wise I'd say do what you feel is right,we are all different with different moral codes and emotions. What's right for me may not be right for you and vice versa. We all have reasons for doing this and in my experience,if you're considering it then there's a reason,maybe trying fixing that first. IF you do take the plunge just remember to be sensible,practice safe,fake name, punt phone and just be savvy. Whatever you do,good luck and only you know whats right for you

[Spunky34]

So im sure there's a few other married guys on here? Is it cheating? I know the Japanese do it and use it as a service. But I'm sure if my partner found out it wouldn't go down well!

No-one but you can set you mind at rest on this one, one way or the other.  Your question implies that you think it might be cheating.  But in a way, that question is irrelevant.  Only you know whether cheating really matters to you.  Don’t expect people on a punting forum, who don’t know you from Adam, to answer that question for you.

[nodough]

I signed up here to have a look and make sure I know what I'm doing...

Basically I've got my eye on a punt in Newquay (elegant emily xxx). She has good reviews here and on on AW. Spoken to her and all seems good. My dilemma is that I'm in a relationship... sex wise I get anything I want from her. She's currently pregnant and we have children together.

So im sure there's a few other married guys on here? Is it cheating? I know the Japanese do it and use it as a service. But I'm sure if my partner found out it wouldn't go down well!

Just had my first punt, I'm married and have children but honestly felt no guilt whatsoever but you have to accept that what you're doing will destroy your partner. The damage caused when she (most likely when not if) will permanently affect her outlook on relationships and regardless of whether she forgives you she'll never look at you the same way again. If you can live with that then go ahead. I can but maybe I'm just human scum?

[southcoastpunter]

There are different ways of looking at something. Maybe punting helps keep a relationship which is good is so many ways apart from one (sex) going. It very different from an "affair"  which involves emotions . Punting isn't like that. It is just sex. Hopefully bloody good sex but just sex.

Whether the OH would see it like that if she found out, i don't know! But at least you can argue/justify it like that. Even if its just to yourself!