Help and advice needed for a first timer

[stekay]

Hi all, just signed up as I'm thinking of taking the plunge for the first time.

I've recently just come out of a 15 year relationship and currently have no desire to jump straight back into one. As I'm now in my mid 30's I'm not into all this tinder and the like, and like I say I'm definitely not interested in another relationship, in a ideal world I'd love a 25 year old fuck buddy but what's the chances of that 

I work away 2-3 weeks at a time and then I'm home for 2 weeks so I've temporally moved in with a friend so would have to be outcall only. It would be nice to have a treat when I get home and have a bit of fun and try a few things. (mainly its always been my biggest fantasy to have a 3 some but its never happened)

So really I'm after some advice on the best way to go about it. What are the pro's and con's of going through a agency or using adultwork. My job is well paid so money isn't a issue within reason.

Sorry for the essay and any advice is welcomed 

[Mixedracegeordie]

Hi mate welcome - new one like me!

Think you mean incall (that's where you go to the girl's address) - outcall is where they come to your hotel or apartment/home.

Adultwork is hit and miss and prices tend to be higher - some of the same girls work via an agency and rates may be £10/20 cheaper for a half hr incall say.

I've generally had bad experiences on AW and that led me finding this site - plenty helpful reviews. Couple of agencies are good and no doubt you've found links etc. I prefer the afency route as generally the places will be of a decent standard and discreet and obv of you have complaints etc you can voice those with the agency. With AW you moght not get that alrhough you can leave negative feedback.

What kind of lady are you looking for? Looks wise/stats etc and i'll give you a few names to consider.

[tynetunnel]

Welcome fella. I’m only on 3 after many months, but I did my homework. I’ve been all indie so far thru AW. Read the reviews, find a girl you like the sound of, and brace yourself. It does get easier, the first is the toughest, it takes courage. It’s taken me 3 hits to find a keeper. This website and the reviews left by our friends are our best asset, by miles.

The sharp eyed among you will notice I’ve only 2 reviews. Review 3 is imminent ....

[daviemac]

Hi all, just signed up as I'm thinking of taking the plunge for the first time.

So really I'm after some advice on the best way to go about it. What are the pro's and con's of going through a agency or using adultwork. My job is well paid so money isn't a issue within reason.

Sorry for the essay and any advice is welcomed 

Have a read here, there's loads of useful info. BTW don't think higher prices mean better service, it's seldom the case.   

External Link/Members Only

I would recommend reading the rules as well, you'd be surprised how many don't bother then moan when pulled up on something.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=1.0

[Mansell]

Best advice is don't rush, read the reviews on here, do your homework make sure you get stick to well reviewed girls to start with for your first punts. Once you've got the hang of things an written some reviews then maybe think about some of the newer less well known girls. Hope that helps,  oh and welcome.

[waynekerr600]

For a newbie I'd suggest an incall. Also make sure your security is up to date i.e. punting phone and punting email, park round the corner.

[Stevebang9965]

And keep your new hobby to yourself don’t be tempted to tell a mate

[Sar-Major]

And keep your new hobby to yourself don’t be tempted to tell a mate

+1  Tell NO feker about your new found hobby........... 

 

[Kev3773]

+1  Tell NO feker about your new found hobby........... 

 

I disagree, he should tell everyone on here 

[tynetunnel]

I find it really odd that in real life only I (and a few WG’s) know about my new hobby! I go into work grinning, people ask me why. I’d love to tell them, I like to imagine their faces!

Not even my own brother knows, just me, some WG’s, and my UKP brothers 

[stekay]

Hi mate welcome - new one like me!

Think you mean incall (that's where you go to the girl's address) - outcall is where they come to your hotel or apartment/home.

Adultwork is hit and miss and prices tend to be higher - some of the same girls work via an agency and rates may be £10/20 cheaper for a half hr incall say.

I've generally had bad experiences on AW and that led me finding this site - plenty helpful reviews. Couple of agencies are good and no doubt you've found links etc. I prefer the afency route as generally the places will be of a decent standard and discreet and obv of you have complaints etc you can voice those with the agency. With AW you moght not get that alrhough you can leave negative feedback.

What kind of lady are you looking for? Looks wise/stats etc and i'll give you a few names to consider.

Thanks for the info. Sorry, yes I did mean incall. Still getting used to the phrases and terms used. I even had to google a few of the abbreviations used on aw. Maybe I'm a bit naive haha. 

I'm surprised that the agencies can work out a little less. I thought it would be the other way round as I would assume that agencies add a cut to the price.

As for a "type" I'm looking for, I'm pretty easy going. Would definitely prefer someone born in the UK. No offence to the foreign lady's but something about it just doesn't sit right with me. Someone I find attractive between the age of 18-40. I know looks are a very objective thing. One mans junk is another mans treasure and all that. I've always had a thing for black women (sorry if that's politically incorrect here) so that would definitely be on the hit list at some point. Also someone who welcomes duo's as id love to try the 2 girl scenario, but not for my first go. Think that would be a little too much in at the deep end for me.

[stekay]

Best advice is don't rush, read the reviews on here, do your homework make sure you get stick to well reviewed girls to start with for your first punts. Once you've got the hang of things an written some reviews then maybe think about some of the newer less well known girls. Hope that helps,  oh and welcome.

I guess its time to start looking though the reviews then, Wish me luck!

[stekay]

Welcome fella. I’m only on 3 after many months, but I did my homework. I’ve been all indie so far thru AW. Read the reviews, find a girl you like the sound of, and brace yourself. It does get easier, the first is the toughest, it takes courage. It’s taken me 3 hits to find a keeper. This website and the reviews left by our friends are our best asset, by miles.

The sharp eyed among you will notice I’ve only 2 reviews. Review 3 is imminent ....

Is it a fairly normal thing that people have a favourite or regular girl they visit or do most people have the "variety is the spice of life" when it comes to punting?

[daviemac]

Is it a fairly normal thing that people have a favourite or regular girl they visit or do most people have the "variety is the spice of life" when it comes to punting?

That's entirely up to you, there's plenty to choose from. Some have one or more reg, some don't see the same one twice. There's no format you just do what suits you.   

[The Outsider]

Is it a fairly normal thing that people have a favourite or regular girl they visit or do most people have the "variety is the spice of life" when it comes to punting?

I'd say "both" is perfect! I usually punt twice a week - ideally once with a regular and once with somebody new.   

[Mixedracegeordie]

Thanks for the info. Sorry, yes I did mean incall. Still getting used to the phrases and terms used. I even had to google a few of the abbreviations used on aw. Maybe I'm a bit naive haha. 

I'm surprised that the agencies can work out a little less. I thought it would be the other way round as I would assume that agencies add a cut to the price.

As for a "type" I'm looking for, I'm pretty easy going. Would definitely prefer someone born in the UK. No offence to the foreign lady's but something about it just doesn't sit right with me. Someone I find attractive between the age of 18-40. I know looks are a very objective thing. One mans junk is another mans treasure and all that. I've always had a thing for black women (sorry if that's politically incorrect here) so that would definitely be on the hit list at some point. Also someone who welcomes duo's as id love to try the 2 girl scenario, but not for my first go. Think that would be a little too much in at the deep end for me.

From personal experience Allure and Premium have been good in my eyes and as far as agencies i rate them as best in area - plus their girls seem to have plenty reviews on here. Try half hr incall to start with that way you havent spent much if you find it's not for you - both charge £60/half hr. Not many black wimen around unless you go through Adultwork's site.

[Fragilehand]

Hi all, just signed up as I'm thinking of taking the plunge for the first time.

I've recently just come out of a 15 year relationship and currently have no desire to jump straight back into one. As I'm now in my mid 30's I'm not into all this tinder and the like, and like I say I'm definitely not interested in another relationship, in a ideal world I'd love a 25 year old fuck buddy but what's the chances of that 

I work away 2-3 weeks at a time and then I'm home for 2 weeks so I've temporally moved in with a friend so would have to be outcall only. It would be nice to have a treat when I get home and have a bit of fun and try a few things. (mainly its always been my biggest fantasy to have a 3 some but its never happened)

So really I'm after some advice on the best way to go about it. What are the pro's and con's of going through a agency or using adultwork. My job is well paid so money isn't a issue within reason.

Sorry for the essay and any advice is welcomed 

Howway man divnt tar me with your brush in a young mid 30s!