Straight first timer looking at ts booking - ADVICE WANTED

[Danger!WillRobinson]

You could just read the rules.

TS reviews allowed but not “normal” SPs.

Or, because they weren't obviously visible on the platform I'm using, I thought I'd ask :-)

[welby]

Any man that fancies a strap on or a real cock up his arse whether its a ts or a man has GAY tendency...am not here to judge, but whatever rocks your boat and you derive fun from it..i say ride on... 

[Randy Mcknob]

Any man that fancies a strap on or a real cock up his arse whether its a ts or a man has GAY tendency...am not here to judge, but whatever rocks your boat and you derive fun from it..i say ride on... 

Thanks for straightening that out.  Sometimes I think things and worry that I've had a gay thought, please can I discuss with you welby and you'd be able to let me know if I've got GAY tendencies.  It's all so confusing.

[myothernameis]

Any man that fancies a strap on or a real cock up his arse whether its a ts or a man has GAY tendency...am not here to judge, but whatever rocks your boat and you derive fun from it..i say ride on... 

So you tried it, and bet you loved it, now go out and buy a bigger anal probe 

[Ali Katt]

Any man that fancies a strap on or a real cock up his arse whether its a ts or a man has GAY tendency...am not here to judge, but whatever rocks your boat and you derive fun from it..i say ride on... 

Are you Justin Welby?

[James999]

Just act like one, pretending to be straight and wanting to be fucked by a bloke 

It seems this comment has upset male24glasgow perhaps he needs to come out of the closet 

[Happyjose]

It seems this comment has upset male24glasgow perhaps he needs to come out of the closet 

He seems a sensitive soul

Another gonk taking offence on behalf of someone else

Regarding a post made last June.........

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[James999]

He seems a sensitive soul

Another gonk taking offence on behalf of someone else

Regarding a post made last June.........

.

Perhaps he's Gay and not told his Mum yet 

[Randy Mcknob]

Perhaps he's Gay and not told his Mum yet 

Good one James999 that's like not an old joke at all, still totally fresh, got any more zingers like that, would love to hear them.  Anyhow putting funny jokes aside, can you maybe help me with something?  I've always been curious why it's so often guys like you that are firmly heterosexual (I presume) that are the arbiters of gayness?  Do you have a chart or a list of gay things that one has to avoid doing to remain on the straight and narrow?  Please could post it here?  I'm also curious do you recognise bi-sexual men exist or are there only 2 options straight & gay?  Is it possible to do a gay thing or try a gay thing then still be straight, or do enough straight things to no longer be gay?  I know women do that a lot and no one really has a problem with it why not men?  I've probably done a gay thing by asking these questions?  Please could you let me know then I can update my Mother.

[Health and Fitness]

While I haven't had sex with any TS Girls I can relate in a way as I have had a few Dom sessions with escorts in the past which included getting pegged by a strap on.

It was actually quite a pleasant experience as it was a fetish I indulged in from time to time. I'd definitely recommend using a butt plug or dildo prior to your first experience though as it does help a lot.

Also I think some of the comments made towards the OP sound pretty harsh, no need to dismiss the guy as a "faggot" and the rest just because he is open minded and looking to try a new experience.

OP don't feel put off by judgemental remarks, book who you want and most of all, have fun! 

Getting pegged with strap on is fun and just a fetish that I prefer to keep hidden from my OH, doesn't make me gay though.

Final thought OP maybe try pegging with a strap on first so you get a feel for what its like. 

[bristolcity14]

The replies in this are embarrassing, the op might be bi, gay or in denial but to hurl abuse and call him gay or a faggot is disgraceful.
Reading through all this it just sounded like imature bullying, the guy james sounds like hes 14! Like seriously people come on this site to find usful information to help with their punts.
Surprised this isnt locked as it doesnt paint a great picture on the community of this site...

[scutty brown]

The replies in this are embarrassing, the op might be bi, gay or in denial but to hurl abuse and call him gay or a faggot is disgraceful.
Reading through all this it just sounded like imature bullying, the guy james sounds like hes 14! Like seriously people come on this site to find usful information to help with their punts.
Surprised this isnt locked as it doesnt paint a great picture on the community of this site...

You're very new here aren't you............do you like it here?

[cueball]

The replies in this are embarrassing, the op might be bi, gay or in denial but to hurl abuse and call him gay or a faggot is disgraceful.
Reading through all this it just sounded like imature bullying, the guy james sounds like hes 14! Like seriously people come on this site to find usful information to help with their punts.
Surprised this isnt locked as it doesnt paint a great picture on the community of this site...

I'd have thought in the three years you've been here you'd gave learnt that ukp is predominantly grown men saying exactly their opinions without worrying about upsetting do gooders or liberal idiots.

[Ali Katt]

#ladzbantz

[bristolcity14]

I come on here from time to time, theres some great banter and funny reviews which is what i like about this site but this thread was cringy!
At the end of the day sex is sex and people have different tastes and preferences, why some people think their better than others because they like diferent things is beyond me.
If the guy wants another guy to shove his cock in his ass then yeh hes bisexual and was stupid to insist he wasnt and contradicting himself every post...
But the constant gay shaming by that james guy was embarrassing lol.
In my experience the homophobes are the most likely to have hardcore gay porn on their search history.
As you can tell i havnt contributed much on here yet but as peter griffin would say that stuff really grinds my gears ...
Rant over

Did he ever come back on here to give a review btw??

[Marmalade]

The replies in this are embarrassing, the op might be bi, gay or in denial but to hurl abuse and call him gay or a faggot is disgraceful.
Reading through all this it just sounded like imature bullying, the guy james sounds like hes 14! Like seriously people come on this site to find usful information to help with their punts.
Surprised this isnt locked as it doesnt paint a great picture on the community of this site...

So you bump an old thread to have a silly wimp protest. You’re a fucking disgrace. Go away ( = euphemistic phrase for many words you’d find offensive). 

[scutty brown]

I come on here from time to time, theres some great banter and funny reviews which is what i like about this site but this thread was cringy!
At the end of the day sex is sex and people have different tastes and preferences, why some people think their better than others because they like diferent things is beyond me.
If the guy wants another guy to shove his cock in his ass then yeh hes bisexual and was stupid to insist he wasnt and contradicting himself every post...
But the constant gay shaming by that james guy was embarrassing lol.
In my experience the homophobes are the most likely to have hardcore gay porn on their search history.
As you can tell i havnt contributed much on here yet but as peter griffin would say that stuff really grinds my gears ...
Rant over

Did he ever come back on here to give a review btw??

So does a dominant woman reaming your ass with a dildo, as described in your only review, make you a closet gay?

[bristolcity14]

If thats what you think 
Getting done by a hot russian chick in the ass super gay 

[bristolcity14]

So you bump an old thread to have a silly wimp protest. You’re a fucking disgrace. Go away ( = euphemistic phrase for many words you’d find offensive). 

Yep silly me ..

[Firebird]

Can you explain to me why a gay man would find a person with; tits, makeup, feminine features (granted some TS's don't qualify for this), long hair and feminity in general (voice, living as a woman, identifying as a woman, not masculine in anyway. Again this depends on the TS, but the TS's I've seen were all extremely feminine) attractive?

Surely the last thing a gay man wants to see is someone 'behaving' like a woman, taking a dress off and revealing a pair of tits? If you're under the impression that sexuality is as black and white as 'You're either completely straight or completely gay', then you're living in the past.

But hey ho, what do a know, am just a silly f**got at the end of the day! Am a right lads!   

[Marmalade]

Does anyone give a fuck? Fuck who you like. UKP isn't anti-gay (though we don't review gay punts) nor anti-TS or anti-TV. fuck who the fuck you fucking like.

But this thread has been populated by trolls, zero-contributors, leeches and people with a nominal review probably written to get access, who gives a fuck. If a punter we know (ie from his reviews) asks about a TS he'd probably get a good reply. Cunts we don't know and needing to do a "I'm so not gay" fanfare just look like trolls (if said posters are not trolls, well bloody well come back when you have a little street cred and ask those out-there questions).

Some idiots seem to think UKP is a public service or yellow bloody pages, or that we're actually THANKFUL that people come on and ask (stupid) questions. We're not. The guy who owns this site runs it with his own money, single-handedly, FOR PUNTERS. So if you wanna join the club, tell us about your punting (preferably with some examples). If you can't even do that -- no offence -- but you'd be better fucking off somewhere to a dark corner.

[scutty brown]

Can you explain to me why a gay man would find a person with; tits, makeup, feminine features (granted some TS's don't qualify for this), long hair and feminity in general (voice, living as a woman, identifying as a woman, not masculine in anyway. Again this depends on the TS, but the TS's I've seen were all extremely feminine) attractive?

Surely the last thing a gay man wants to see is someone 'behaving' like a woman, taking a dress off and revealing a pair of tits? If you're under the impression that sexuality is as black and white as 'You're either completely straight or completely gay', then you're living in the past.

But hey ho, what do a know, am just a silly f**got at the end of the day! Am a right lads!   

If you want to claim to be a silly faggot, that's up to you. Just beware of fag lighters and matches.
 As far as I'm concerned, any bloke who gets a kick off having a  dildo up his ass, is just practicing stretching his sphincter in preparation for the real act of buggery

[bristolcity14]

If you want to claim to be a silly faggot, that's up to you. Just beware of fag lighters and matches.
 As far as I'm concerned, any bloke who gets a kick off having a  dildo up his ass, is just practicing stretching his sphincter in preparation for the real act of buggery

My ex gf gave me a prostate massage and its the best orgasm i have ever had! Its the male g spot and can give you multiple orgasms, its not for everyone obviously but in 2018 people really need to loosen up and get a women to smash their prostate 

[Firebird]

If you want to claim to be a silly faggot, that's up to you. Just beware of fag lighters and matches.
 As far as I'm concerned, any bloke who gets a kick off having a  dildo up his ass, is just practicing stretching his sphincter in preparation for the real act of buggery

Oh right so you're not answering my question then? Okay then.

Fag lighters and matches? Ehhhh...yeah, I'll keep that in mind, whatever it means 

[James999]

I saw that, he's trying a double bluff, he'd be better of concentrating on lubing up his arse, the deluded faggot 

Calling himself straight, and calling blokes her 

Some poster by the name of "1" has reported this post, do we take it from the complaint that "1" has sexuality issues and worried about coming out?

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[AL1204]

Wow, what a complete waste of a discussion.

If the OP wants to experiment with different types of person, and sex, then that's totally his business.

I have seen a TS Escort and have recently posted looking for recommendations for another in my area.

I couldn't care less if that makes me gay, bi, bi curious, or whatever.

I'm attracted to the female form and the taboo nature of a TS hugely turns me on. And for those that like things clear, that also means that I really enjoyed sucking a dick attached to the female form.

My life, my desires, my rules. Doesn't bother me in the slightest if people's homophobia gets in the way of a decent conversation about what we are all here for in the first place. Sex.

Thanks for posting this OP, was a good read despite the insults and people who are clearly quite limited and insulting.

[myothernameis]

Wow, what a complete waste of a discussion.

Why then bring this up here, all that's going to happen, your going to get abuse from other members, and are you hard as fuck   

[scutty brown]

Wow, what a complete waste of a discussion.

If the OP wants to experiment with different types of person, and sex, then that's totally his business.

I have seen a TS Escort and have recently posted looking for recommendations for another in my area.

I couldn't care less if that makes me gay, bi, bi curious, or whatever.

I'm attracted to the female form and the taboo nature of a TS hugely turns me on. And for those that like things clear, that also means that I really enjoyed sucking a dick attached to the female form.

My life, my desires, my rules. Doesn't bother me in the slightest if people's homophobia gets in the way of a decent conversation about what we are all here for in the first place. Sex.

Thanks for posting this OP, was a good read despite the insults and people who are clearly quite limited and insulting.

Fuck me, another gaylibtard.
Did someone get the keys to the rainbow closet?

[myothernameis]

Fuck me, another gaylibtard.
Did someone get the keys to the rainbow closet?

You better watch what you say, he might report you for being racist 

Think we all know he going to get him self banned, as his reply here is very hostile 

[Matrix]

What a load of shite. Nobody gives a fuck as long as it's between two consenting adults. I find the insistence by some on here, who have reviews where they actively suck cocks and receive them up the isle, that they're not bi/gay fucking laughable.

Take Fb for example. Has to constantly justify why he's not gay, because he like guys that look like girls. Asks a bunch of silly fucking questions, Like;

Why would a gay man want to see someone with a pair of tits?

Being heterosexual, I'd like to ask why do men who spend time trying to convince strangers online that they're straight have detailed reviews of them sucking cocks and taking them up the arse?

Not something a heterosexual man, i.e  no bi or gay tendencies, would ever consider.

It goes back to the point that's been made. Quite a few on here have guilty pleasures. I think the guilt makes them enjoy what they're doing more than usual, partly because of years of repressed homosexual and bisexual urges.

As i said; as long as it's between consenting adults, no one gives a fuck.

[Marmalade]

It’s an annoying tactic by gay or gay-bi-friendly men to ‘get a virgin ass with a ‘straight’ guy’. They often progress (judging by previous posts here and on other boards) to invites for a MMF and then oh dear, ‘the F hasn’t turned up let’s have some fun anyway’. 

I’m not claiming that it is the case with the OP but almost all of his posts have been TS related and he had the cheek to report James999 for trolling (as if that’s going to go anywhere doh!).

The chances of the OP contributing usefully to UKP seem minimal.

[Matrix]

It’s an annoying tactic by gay or gay-bi-friendly men to ‘get a virgin ass with a ‘straight’ guy’. They often progress (judging by previous posts here and on other boards) to invites for a MMF and then oh dear, ‘the F hasn’t turned up let’s have some fun anyway’. 

 

Fucking hell, that's a nasty thought. I've never been interested in much more than 1 on 1 anyway. If there was to be another, it'd have to be female. I can only concentrate on one thing at a time anyway. 

[myothernameis]

The chances of the OP contributing usefully to UKP seem minimal.

Last time he posted June 2017

Last time he logged in 5 July 2018

Surely he must be watching this thread

[Firebird]

What a load of shite. Nobody gives a fuck as long as it's between two consenting adults. I find the insistence by some on here, who have reviews where they actively suck cocks and receive them up the isle, that they're not bi/gay fucking laughable.

Take Fb for example. Has to constantly justify why he's not gay, because he like guys that look like girls. Asks a bunch of silly fucking questions, Like;

Why would a gay man want to see someone with a pair of tits?

Being heterosexual, I'd like to ask why do men who spend time trying to convince strangers online that they're straight have detailed reviews of them sucking cocks and taking them up the arse?

Not something a heterosexual man, i.e  no bi or gay tendencies, would ever consider.

It goes back to the point that's been made. Quite a few on here have guilty pleasures. I think the guilt makes them enjoy what they're doing more than usual, partly because of years of repressed homosexual and bisexual urges.

As i said; as long as it's between consenting adults, no one gives a fuck.

Wouldn't necessarily say I'm spending time trying to convince anyone, I personally don't really care, what I was doing was pointing out a few simple points as to why someone who likes TS's isn't an out and out gay. And as I pointed out, sexual preference isn't as black and white as simply being Straight/Gay/Bisexual, there's more to it than that.

Now in regards to the 'No one gives a fuck' bit at the end of your spiel, that might be the case for you and despite what you may think, it's the same for me. However it's clear from the endless tirade of 'passionate' responses from certain members that, in actual fact, they do give a fuck and do seem quite...how should I put it, aggravated at the mere idea of a man wanting to fuck a TS and by doing so he is immediately labelled as a closeted gay who desperately needs to come out the closet. There also seems to be quite a big emphasis on informing their mother that they are gay and am not entirely sure why 

[puntlover1]

Not that I have to explain myself to you but I do not find men the slightest bit attractive, nor would I ever consider doing anything with a man. You seem to be missing the difference between men and ts girls. The tits are a bit of a clue!

A man with tits is still a man. You seem to be missing the similarity between men and ts girls. The cock is a bit of a clue!

[dubs]

Not that I have to explain myself to you but I do not find men the slightest bit attractive, nor would I ever consider doing anything with a man. You seem to be missing the difference between men and ts girls. The tits are a bit of a clue!

What you fail to understand is that you have to limit your sexual experiences only to those aspects of sexuality that are acceptable to James999.  A member with zero reviews.

[Matrix]

Wouldn't necessarily say I'm spending time trying to convince anyone, I personally don't really care, what I was doing was pointing out a few simple points as to why someone who likes TS's isn't an out and out gay. And as I pointed out, sexual preference isn't as black and white as simply being Straight/Gay/Bisexual, there's more to it than that.

Now in regards to the 'No one gives a fuck' bit at the end of your spiel, that might be the case for you and despite what you may think, it's the same for me. However it's clear from the endless tirade of 'passionate' responses from certain members that, in actual fact, they do give a fuck and do seem quite...how should I put it, aggravated at the mere idea of a man wanting to fuck a TS and by doing so he is immediately labelled as a closeted gay who desperately needs to come out the closet. There also seems to be quite a big emphasis on informing their mother that they are gay and am not entirely sure why 

Most likely bi-sexual, wouldn't you agree?

Although even that is rather telling. You're terrified of being classified as gay.

Is there something wrong with 2 consenting men fucking each other?

For a lot of people sexual preference is very black and white.

If you're a man and you like sucking dicks and being penetrated by them, then you're not heterosexual. I couldn't give a flying fuck what you identify as. The responses come from people who are sick and tired of others constantly redefining words to suit their own view of reality. For example, you've stated that you're heterosexual, when you're clearly not. i see no evidence of anyone being aggravated by "the mere idea of wanting to fuck a TS". More likely, some folk just like wynding others up. The responses they get from reality deniers, in conflict with who they are and what they like to do, is what they are looking for to entertain themselves.

You're not going to convince anyone, otherwise. Apart from perhaps yourself.

Having said that, at least you haven't thrown a tantrum like before.

[spiceboy]

I wouldn't say the OP is gay just experimenting. Also don't ts consider themselves women trapped in a man's body and eventually try and have the op to become a woman?
I saw the Ladyboys of Bangkok last year and the number of people saying they had become confused about their sexuality afterwards finding some of them attractive was interesting.

[Marmalade]

Chill. TS is a preference. Thai ladyboys go to Germany for the specific market there, not because of a vast gay population that wants them. Most gay men are not into TS. I don’t even think it’s a big thing with bisexuals. People fuck who they want, irrespective of labels. Other people’s sexual preferences are often repugnant to at least some other people and nothing wrong with that either. Pushing labels too hard can be confusing — we don’t all use them the same way.

It’s a debate that comes up often on UKP (usually needlessly in my opinion); but members can be wary of the guises that some deviously gay men use to try and add a straight man to the notches on their bedpost. MMF and TS, especially as first post enquiries on a predominantly straight M to F board can be viewed with suspicion. That’s just how it is.

 

[Firebird]

Most likely bi-sexual, wouldn't you agree?

Although even that is rather telling. You're terrified of being classified as gay.

Is there something wrong with 2 consenting men fucking each other?

For a lot of people sexual preference is very black and white.

If you're a man and you like sucking dicks and being penetrated by them, then you're not heterosexual. I couldn't give a flying fuck what you identify as. The responses come from people who are sick and tired of others constantly redefining words to suit their own view of reality. For example, you've stated that you're heterosexual, when you're clearly not. i see no evidence of anyone being aggravated by "the mere idea of wanting to fuck a TS". More likely, some folk just like wynding others up. The responses they get from reality deniers, in conflict with who they are and what they like to do, is what they are looking for to entertain themselves.

You're not going to convince anyone, otherwise. Apart from perhaps yourself.

Having said that, at least you haven't thrown a tantrum like before.

Haha mate honestly I'm not terrified of being classified as gay, I'm 24 years old and have quite a strong live and let live outlook on life so if I was gay it would not be an issue or a big deal for me whatsoever. Well wether they seem aggravated to you or not is entirely subjective to you, they certainly seemed a tad riled up to me and yes I suppose they do enjoy winding folk up but is that really all they have to do with their time 

Yep and for a lot of people it isn't black and white e.g Kinsey scale etc. Funny old world we live in eh?

Tantrum? Feel free to elaborate if you want.

Does liking women and TS's make someone bisexual? I suppose you could certainly make an argument for it. I don't really put a great deal of importance on labelling myself, I've came to the conclusion that I like women and TS's, I have no intetest in men (as in men who look and act like men) as far as sex is concerned, so what does that make me? I don't really care to be honest lol.

Over and out 

[Matrix]

Haha mate honestly I'm not terrified of being classified as gay, I'm 24 years old and have quite a strong live and let live outlook on life so if I was gay it would not be an issue or a big deal for me whatsoever. Well wether they seem aggravated to you or not is entirely subjective to you, they certainly seemed a tad riled up to me and yes I suppose they do enjoy winding folk up but is that really all they have to do with their time 

Yep and for a lot of people it isn't black and white e.g Kinsey scale etc. Funny old world we live in eh?

Tantrum? Feel free to elaborate if you want.

Does liking women and TS's make someone bisexual? I suppose you could certainly make an argument for it. I don't really put a great deal of importance on labelling myself, I've came to the conclusion that I like women and TS's, I have no intetest in men (as in men who look and act like men) as far as sex is concerned, so what does that make me? I don't really care to be honest lol.

Over and out 

This is why we have words with specific definitions. So we all know what we're talking about. Heterosexual activity does not involve members of the same sex.

Have you forgotten calling me a reprobate? 

Shut up you absolute reprobate! 

[Firebird]

This is why we have words with specific definitions. So we all know what we're talking about. Heterosexual activity does not involve members of the same sex.

Have you forgotten calling me a reprobate? 

It seems to be a grey area from what I can see. The TS's I have seen have all been incredibly feminine so if liking women and TS's makes me bisexual then so be it, but like I said, it's not really something that I think about.

I use the term reprobate quite a lot to be honest so no I don't recall