Considering a bdsm session with a Pro Dom

[AlanGJ]

Hi - I'm considering a session with a Pro Dom. I'm not a true sub but I do think I'd enjoy the experience. Has anyone got any experiences of sessions with a Pro Dom? Would I be mad to let somebody I've never met before strap / tie me into a position where they could basically do anything they want to me?
Cheers

[Strokemeplease]

Go for it! I have been handcuffed, whipped, pissed on and had my cock tortured: all great fun. Do expect to be bruised after a good session, so if you have a GF/OH then you will have some explaining to do.

[NIK]

Hi - I'm considering a session with a Pro Dom. I'm not a true sub but I do think I'd enjoy the experience. Has anyone got any experiences of sessions with a Pro Dom? Would I be mad to let somebody I've never met before strap / tie me into a position where they could basically do anything they want to me?
Cheers

Yes you would. The reason there aren't many true subs around is because they are tortured to death during each session with a 'pro dom'.

The dungeons of pro doms are littered with the bones of true subs.

I wouldn't bother if you value your bollocks. Stick to cracking one off.   

[winkywanky]

If he plays his cards right the Pro Domme will crack it off for him, after dunking it in a vessel of liquid nitrogen 

[madmania]

Be careful and do your research OP - a lot of "pro dommes" I've come across are mostly girls who use the title as an excuse not to provide sexual contact and charge you twice as much for the privilege

Personally I prefer well reviewed escorts who offer domination as one of their main services. You'll know they'll be good but your wallet won't be hurting as badly and you'll be able to get an orgasm out of it as well!

[Jonestown]

OP is on the wrong forum to be looking for properly equiped pro dommes, the ones where you just walk into their dungeons/work space and you know you are in deep trouble and may not ever get out intact.

[Students Notebook]

Hi - I'm considering a session with a Pro Dom. I'm not a true sub but I do think I'd enjoy the experience. Has anyone got any experiences of sessions with a Pro Dom? Would I be mad to let somebody I've never met before strap / tie me into a position where they could basically do anything they want to me?
Cheers

Depends 
I went to one. We exchanged several emails about what I wanted. She was as good as her word and I lived to tell the tale. 
So did her other clients who left her feedback.
Those who didn't leave feedback, who knows 
S.N.

[JamesKW]

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Here is one I have used in the past,there is no sex, but she is good with newcomers and will respect your boundaries.Otherwise you can try a fetish club like Club Black Whip (though these parties are only about three times a year now)where you will get some action from professional domes on the scene, at a nominal price.

[yorkshirepunter3333]

Go for it, I would stay away from AW though as the WG who list BDSM don't really understand what it means.

I have had a few different doms, tbh I have not had a bad experience YET, I prefer the DOM to take full control of the session. You can list your limits. I hate my balls being pulled and my nipples being played with, so they stay away from that. But I enjoy CBT, sounds are fun and so its nettle play ermmm and needles I could go on forever.

Some doms will let you have more than one pop, over just one pop. 5 times in 90 mins is my record but one is the norm.

Be respectful with the way you ask questions, as some doms are in the role all the time and you can offend them if you word your question wrong.

MOST don't offer sex ( I think I have been with one who did, but we didn't have sex ) its a mind-blowing experience.

Its very different from a normal PUNT in much the same way as a message with a HE is also very different.

-- what area are you looking at? I maybe able to point you at some services. 

[AlanGJ]

Thanks for the advice and stories everyone. I've not contacted anyone yet, but looing in the East Midlands area.

Still not made my mind up! One thing I don't want is any marks on me when I leave!

Cheers

[Jimmyredcab]

Thanks for the advice and stories everyone. I've not contacted anyone yet, but looing in the East Midlands area.

Still not made my mind up! One thing I don't want is any marks on me when I leave!

Cheers

I can't help in your area but a good dominatrix will discuss your requirements before the session starts ------- including not leaving any marks.   

[IrishBob]

I can't help in your area but a good dominatrix will discuss your requirements before the session starts ------- including not leaving any marks.   

If you state at the start you don't want any marks then they will be happy. I'm not into spanking/pain so it's not something I want and it's always been fine.

[Jimmyredcab]

If you state at the start you don't want any marks then they will be happy. I'm not into spanking/pain so it's not something I want and it's always been fine.

You are the client, you decide what you want from a session, however you should try to see a real dominatrix not a hooker with a whip, there is a big difference.

[ulstersubbie]

Thanks for the advice and stories everyone. I've not contacted anyone yet, but looing in the East Midlands area.

Still not made my mind up! One thing I don't want is any marks on me when I leave!

Cheers

If it is the East Midlands, look no further than Domina Liza in Derby, a highly experienced Domme who will respect your limits. Vivienne L'Amour offers BDSM along with other services, if that is what you want.

[ulstersubbie]

You are the client, you decide what you want from a session, however you should try to see a real dominatrix not a hooker with a whip, there is a big difference.

Very true. Quality Dommes are hard too find, hookers with whips are commonplace.

[Jimmyredcab]

Very true. Quality Dommes are hard too find.

Not so hard to find in London but they tend to be bloody expensive, £200 an hour seems to be the norm ------ sometimes more. 

[JamesKW]

Not so hard to find in London but they tend to be bloody expensive, £200 an hour seems to be the norm ------ sometimes more. 

The one I posted above is only £100 per hour,she has a very well equipped dungeon on site, in a nice part of town.I think she is genuine as she knew many of the charactors on the scene that I know.

[Puntingonandoff]

Vivienne l'Amour is in Derby, she was the first Domme I saw and is very experienced and respectful of boundaries. I'm very vanilla by her standards but she caters all the way down to beginners.  I haven't seen her for over a year though, I think she now has a proper studio/dungeon arrangement