Your correct my sentence structure went a bit skewed. What I meant to elude to was OP saying we can do that next time e.g filming prob made her put the guard up hence the radio silence. I don't recall any of her reviews to date mentioning such bad comms. That said her latest review does not sound that great. She remains on my HL but only just!
I think you're making excuses for her - and what's more your logic doesn't make sense.
You also seem to be saying that just because other reviews (only 5) haven't mentioned bad comms, that she can't be guilty of it with any punter and it was somehow the fault of the OP.
Even if she was on her guard, then she should have had the decency to cancel at a very early stage. But there was nothing.
However, she shouldn't have been on her guard - totally the opposite; she had already agreed to filming but without face, which the OP not only accepted but he then said he was not fussed about filming this meet.
As the OP has said, this was surely a classic case of she had another offer and she wasn't organised enough/couldn't be bothered to go through with the booking or at least let him know.