It’s a lottery, we all take a risk every time we punt, as are the girls, I may catch something nasty about twice a month, all the girls take a risk with 1-2-3-4-5-6 ? Guys a day, thay don’t know for sure what thay open the door to, and what thay did last night ? I do this hobby knowing shit could happen on any given punt, we are all at risk all the time, we can only be responsible when we are in the room, none of us has any control over what other guys / girl do on other punts/ with boyfriends, partners etc, it’s Russian roulette, for all concerned, I do this knowing and excepting there could be considerable consequences, if your not ready to deal with said consequences, best visit the hobby magazines in Asda / tesco etc !