I get you. Sometimes I make a booking when I'm horny...then it's 2/3 days away and by the time I get round to it I think 'hmmm, it would be ok if you (the SP) would txt me and cancel, I'll just have a wank'. Then I go and just get into it and it's fine, I think that was good. It's sort of like if you want to do something e.g.go to the pub, eat a kebab you don't order that up 3 days away you just want it there and then. I think desire works in the 'now' and not the future.
I'll vary it every now and again between advance bookings and same day bookings...I do prefer advance, as you never know with same day bookings, if the WG(s) will be availible or fully booked...Some advance bookings I will look fwd to the whole week, especially if it's a repeat visit with a Reg(s)

...Others, like yourself, I may get nearer to the day, and not feel as horny as I did when I first made the booking, then it's a lottery, if I haven't seen them before...
Some advance bookings (first meets) I've went into not feeling 100% up for it, but have turned out fine, others, just ok, but didn't walk away with that "buzz"...
I remember two separate occasions last year I took about 4/5 weeks out, then came back feeling rejuvenated...Might not work for everyone, but worked for me...

Good thread, and has been some good responses...
