While I was waiting I did observe a police car in the car park. I now know that someone collapsed in the flats and needed urgent care, nothing criminal, and this is why I was not welcomed. It does not explain why it was 3 hours later that I was informed. Excuses, excuses.
I do like the thrill of a blind encounter like the old days, no idea of how the lady looks until we meet. The brief cheerful profile invitation to fun and the portion size was enough for me.