How difficult it can be to make contact

[Wristspinner]

Having failed to make contact with three ladies on adultwork last week with a couple of days notice, the messages are still unread 10 days later I switched tack and contacted one for 4 weeks time, now that message is read but no reply. I have positive feedback so I don't know what else I could have done.

I have also tried a reverse booking, although there have been a couple of viable offers why do so many just ignore a specific parameter i.e. age.

[smiths]

Having failed to make contact with three ladies on adultwork last week with a couple of days notice, the messages are still unread 10 days later I switched tack and contacted one for 4 weeks time, now that message is read but no reply. I have positive feedback so I don't know what else I could have done.

I have also tried a reverse booking, although there have been a couple of viable offers why do so many just ignore a specific parameter i.e. age.

For various reasons, you cant assume they are efficient, so some will be booked up and not bothered about the medium to long term, some couldn't care less about replying to emails. Personally I only ring WGs so I either speak to someone or not.

[PleadInsanity]

A wise man once said......

Prostitutes are generally a ridiculous breed. That's why they're prostitutes.

 

[glasscentre2]

Having failed to make contact with three ladies on adultwork last week with a couple of days notice, the messages are still unread 10 days later I switched tack and contacted one for 4 weeks time, now that message is read but no reply. I have positive feedback so I don't know what else I could have done.

I have also tried a reverse booking, although there have been a couple of viable offers why do so many just ignore a specific parameter i.e. age.

It's interesting, I am experiencing pretty much the same thing. And so are many others judging by the number of threads on this topic here at the moment. A year ago I don't remember it being so bad, and I believe it's one of the reasons punters will end up making multiple bookings for the same time slot - because it's highly likely that a girl will just go silent. From the girl's point of view, if they are the one dropped by the punter because they happened to be "second choice", then all they see is an idiot customer who looks like a time waster.
At the moment I am trying to arrange a booking for early February. I have had a few emails back and forth with my chosen lady, which she has always answered politely and promptly, and my last message to her was basically to confirm she was happy for me to make a booking. she's read it, and logged on several times since, but is not replying. *sigh*

[mediumjoe]

Sounds like she is a bit better than most , at least she has replied a couple of times, "shall I make a booking?
No reply . Make the booking and see if she responds.     It's always better if you can speak to her, there's a connection then, ask her for her number. talk to her about the meeting, it's almost in the bag then (boom boom ). Joe

[glasscentre2]

Sounds like she is a bit better than most , at least she has replied a couple of times, "shall I make a booking?
No reply . Make the booking and see if she responds.     It's always better if you can speak to her, there's a connection then, ask her for her number. talk to her about the meeting, it's almost in the bag then (boom boom ). Joe

I've been here before though. What happens is that the booking request gets ignored. But you give her a chance to respond, because hey, if you hassle and hound her she definitely won't want to see yo, right? And then with 2 days to go before the date, it's too late to find anyone else available. And because the booking was never confirmed, you can't leave any feedback saying that you were ignored.

[Sparta Prada]

I have had similar where I have sent messages on AW in the new year and they have been read but no reply. It was quite annoying as these appeared to be a mixture of both established and new girls, I have totally positive feedback including recent positives, and have certainly not written anything offensive in any of the messages!

Last week I saw a regular and she stopped working over Xmas and only returned to AW last week. She said she had over 100 AW emails since she last logged in and had only replied to around 15!

[Home Alone]

Last week I saw a regular and she stopped working over Xmas and only returned to AW last week. She said she had over 100 AW emails since she last logged in and had only replied to around 15!

I'm not surprised to read that; some weeks ago, my Regular let me look at her Inbox [oo-er, Missus! ] and the sheer banality of many of the texts she received on a daily basis was almost unbelievable.

[pking_paul]

Some girls have dusty phones and emails, some of the top end MILFs seem to get crazy amounts of email from what I learned recently. Isn't there a thread on it here?

Lots of wankers contact them that's for sure! 

[southampton.guy]

as someone who has helped a girl set up her profile on AW and subsequently helped her look at her "inbox" I know that we guys can at times  be rude, arrogant, ask stupid questions and generally be time wasters - and it can take ladies a lot of time just to manage their communications. It seems that they don.t regard it as part of "running their business" but more of "just wasting my time"

There used to be a young escort in my local area (Bournemouth), a uni student type, aged about 19/20, slim, good looking that disappeared off AW for a few days then would reappear, then disppear again etc. she told me that she got about 100 messages via AW per day, every day and she took her profile down to stop or rather minimise that as she just couldn.t cope with the numbers.

As a punter, it is, however,  annoying when your genuine and respectful enquiry gets lost amongst the crap they get. It seems that its always better to call - but that it not always easy for me. For me, AW meassge or text is best - but text is often a no-no for many girls.

[Wristspinner]

My initial post was prompted by a desire to see if a certain lady could come to see me with an putcall at the weekend, it was 4 weeks notice, she only does outcalls and there is no phone number posted.
As commented if you multiple message it may seem a bit too much.

[Wristspinner]

A little update, still no reply to my initial e mail, I have sent a second asking for a specific fix date. I have a few possible bids on a RB but not are really enticing, one other lady I would like does not kiss which is a service I would want.

[od13218]

This is one of the reasons I always prefer to phone.

[Silver Birch]

A little update, still no reply to my initial e mail, I have sent a second asking for a specific fix date. I have a few possible bids on a RB but not are really enticing, one other lady I would like does not kiss which is a service I would want.

To get a good response rate, your email MUST contain - The date you want, the time you want & and the duration you want.

Tentative enquiries might get replies if she is not that busy, but if a wg is getting a lot of emails, vague emails containing only 'potential dates' are likely to be ignored in favour of the specific enquiries, or simply put in the timewasters bin.

[regular_guy]

i do find i get responses more often than not.  I assume its because i do send a polite email and ask for a specific date,  time and duration. and i tend not to choose the ones in their 20's too often.

there have been a few times they are read with no response,  and once i did manage to see the wg in question much later and mentioned this to her,  the response was that she got loads of mails and didn't always respond to every single one,  fortunately when i did see her i managed to call her on the off chance and get in that day.

I do think the age of wg dictates the response,  i may be wrong,  but i think typically the younger ones who have  always had mobiles and social media are less inclined to respond to all correspondence yet the older ones do tend to be more caring for the punter.

[Garden69]

i do find i get responses more often than not.  I assume its because i do send a polite email and ask for a specific date,  time and duration. and i tend not to choose the ones in their 20's too often.

there have been a few times they are read with no response,  and once i did manage to see the wg in question much later and mentioned this to her,  the response was that she got loads of mails and didn't always respond to every single one,  fortunately when i did see her i managed to call her on the off chance and get in that day.

I do think the age of wg dictates the response,  i may be wrong,  but i think typically the younger ones who have  always had mobiles and social media are less inclined to respond to all correspondence yet the older ones do tend to be more caring for the punter.

I'd agree. Not hard for them to set up an auto response though to inform you they don't respond to emails. To read but not respond is the height of rudeness in my book and would make me think seriously if I want to visit them at all.

[Punchdrunk]

Emailed 4 girls about a meet recently all read one replied!

[glasscentre2]

Here's some statistics which might be of interest.
I was arranging a meet for next week, and I had a list of 19 girls who I was interested to see.
Out of those 19, 5 never read the messages at all. 3 more read the message but did not reply (one of these has now removed her profile). Of the remaining 11, most couldn't make it due to time of day the booking was at, one refused to visit Premier Inns, one mucked me about asking for a photo and then going silent, and in the end only three were able to make the booking. One of those I crossed off due to her rather surly communications.

[Home Alone]

What follows is an adapted version of something from the "COMMS" part of a Review of a lass I'm hoping to see next Friday.

"Even by the standards of trying to book a session with a WG, this was hard work!  Looking at her AW Profile you’re told to ring her number and if she doesn’t answer, she’ll text you back telling you when to ring again.  So, anticipating possible problems, I rang her one Friday, exactly a week before the day I wanted to see her.

"The phone rang out until it disconnected.  Just under a couple of hours later, I received a text from her number.  Only it didn’t give me a time to ring her - it asked where I was calling from and for details of my ethnicity and age.  So I answered her questions; and waited for further communication from her.  Now I know I don’t live in an upmarket part of the northwest; call me paranoid if you like, but I couldn’t help wondering if that was being held against me.

"So I waited.  And waited!"

If I don't hear from her by Tuesday, I'll be preparing a Negative Review of her and will be moving onto my Plan B girl.

[Steely Dan]

If I don't hear from her by Tuesday, I'll be preparing a Negative Review of her and will be moving onto my Plan B girl.

Sounds awful.  Name and shame in a thread.  Just not a review.

THE RULES
- Reviews
A new review thread can only be created once a service provider has agreed to a booking (e.g. verbally or by textual messaging).

[milo]

Sorry.
Comment deleted as it was repeating a previous post.

[Home Alone]

Sounds awful.  Name and shame in a thread.  Just not a review.

Patience, Dan!

I'm as sure as I can be that she won't contact me now; but let's give her the opportunity, eh?  Being charitable - I know some might say "fluffy" - she probably switches her phone off for the weekend.

If I've not heard from her by Tuesday morning - it'll then be 72 hours since the first contact, then I will post the draft FR, naming and shaming - along with a post on this thread referring to that FR so nobody misses it - while I move to my plan "B" arrangements for next Friday.  Promise!

H A

[daviemac]

Patience, Dan!

I'm as sure as I can be that she won't contact me now; but let's give her the opportunity, eh?  Being charitable - I know some might say "fluffy" - she probably switches her phone off for the weekend.

If I've not heard from her by Tuesday morning - it'll then be 72 hours since the first contact, then I will post the draft FR, naming and shaming - along with a post on this thread referring to that FR so nobody misses it - while I move to my plan "B" arrangements for next Friday.  Promise!

H A

If by FR you mean a review on here, you can't, there has to be a confirmed booking as per the rules already pointed out. Admin made that rule so the site isn't inundated with negative reviews just because a prossie hasn't replied. Just start a topic in your local area discussions naming and shaming the no response.     

[Home Alone]

If by FR you mean a review on here, you can't, there has to be a confirmed booking as per the rules already pointed out. Admin made that rule so the site isn't inundated with negative reviews just because a prossie hasn't replied. Just start a topic in your local area discussions naming and shaming the no response.     

Thanks for reminding me of that, davie.  If she's not made contact by Tuesday, I will.

H A

[Home Alone]

You'd never believe I passed my Maths "O" Level, would you?!  

This morning, not tomorrow, it'll be 72 hours since my first contact with the WG in question with only the one text from her that I've already mentioned.  I see she logged on to AW yesterday, so I'm just about to name her on the North West Board before setting up my Plan B for this Friday.

[horsa]

Very difficult, when you want to book on a Monday or Tuesday they are probably still getting over their weekend hangover