Escorts on dating sites

[Rick2468]

I recently joined a popular free dating site (not Tinder) and so far I have seen 2 working escorts on there and 1 ex-escort. The profiles seem genuine, just photos of themselves with friends etc and a normal description about how they want to find someone to share experiences with. I have messaged them from a dating angle (not said "you're an escort aren't you?") and thought I would set out how it went.

I joined the site after encouragement from a friend who helped me set up my profile. My friend is a pick-up artist and spent ages going through my Facebook photos to pick a great selection of photos - one of me giving a best man's speech, one with a puppy, one of me being the centre of attention with a group of trendy looking friends and one of me waterskiing. My friend also says he'll send a few messages on my behalf to get me started. After a week I log in and have a few messages in the inbox which was a good start. Whilst browsing profiles I came across the profiles of the escorts.

Escort 1. (no longer escorts as far as I am aware)
Lists her profession as "Full time student/part-time model". Romanian BBW with enhanced breasts. Looks like absolute filth and not really my type but the sluttiness tempted me in. I don't think there is any way she will go for me but I message anyway. I get no reply. She seems to be online a lot so I messaged again after a week but still no reply. Cool story I know.

Escort 2.
Lists her professional as "Fashion" and speaks in her profile how she is setting up her own fashion label. She is British, very pretty and been reviewed once on here positively. I message her and get a reply and we start talking. Her messages come across as a little bit cold but she always asks me questions in each message so I think there might be a chance. After a while I ask her if she wants to go for a drink. She replies that she is not prepared to meet anyone for at least another 6 months whilst she sets up her business. I don't reply to that message. Seems a waste of everyones time if she is on the site but not prepared to meet.

Escort 3.
Lists her profession as "self-employed" which I guess is true. She is a busty British blonde in Essex with mixed reviews on here. I message her and see that whilst I was typing the message she has viewed my page and messaged back (she would have seen that I had viewed her page before I sent the message). The chat is good and non-generic. She tells me she used to have a wild side so playing dumb I jokingly ask if she is wanted by the police. I ask her what her job is exactly and she responds that she is a PA. It gets to the stage where I think about asking her for a drink but decide to play it cool for a bit. She then goes quiet so I leave it a few days and message her again but still no reply. I checked my previous messages to see if I might have typed something that might have been taken the wrong way but can't see anything obvious. Possibly she got chatted to someone else.

Anyone else had similar experiences on these sites? In general it seems that the ladies get a lot of sleazy guys on there so if you come across as decent then you can quickly get some chat going. I was arranging to meet a girl (non-escort) at Cargo during the daytime yesterday but she went quiet on me so not sure how fruitful the whole experience will be.

[purple_t]

Matched with a WG local to me on Tinder... surprise surprise her real age is a good few years older than her age on AW. Messaged her once we matched, but she never replied... with nothing left to lose I followed this up aweek later with "thought you looked familiar, you're also known as [prossie alias] right?"... unsurprisingly, no reply lol

Her bio section said "only swipe right if, like me, you are very open-minded"

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Seems there're a right royal midden those dating sites:-(

[AgedCases]

A WG suggested to me to join a swingers site. It was full of women aged 35+ who had no profile pictures but "refuse to talk to any man without one" and they will only see guys with six-packs and foot-long cocks (and I'm a fat bastard). Needless to say my inbox is eternally empty!

[Brazilian Martian]

Seems there're a right royal midden those dating sites:-(

Mate I'm on Pof the amount of escorts on there is scary I was actually talking to one she was not my type at all so i let her know that I had seen her profile on adultwork she then said she did nit want to talk to me unless i wanted to arrange a professional booking.

What made it funny was she messaged me first asking for my number and the possibility of a date. Maybe I should of kept my mouth shut

[cristot]

..... and they will only see guys with six-packs and foot-long cocks (and I'm a fat bastard). Needless to say my inbox is eternally empty!

What? So you DO have a foot long hampton?   

[ickydicky]

Mate I'm on Pof the amount of escorts on there is scary I was actually talking to one she was not my type at all so i let her know that I had seen her profile on adultwork she then said she did nit want to talk to me unless i wanted to arrange a professional booking.

What made it funny was she messaged me first asking for my number and the possibility of a date. Maybe I should of kept my mouth shut

and got her to open hers so you could stick your cock in it more examples of all hoors being liars and all hoors being devious

[Brazilian Martian]

and got her to open hers so you could stick your cock in it more examples of all hoors being liars and all hoors being devious

Yep and she had the cheek to state her profession was a bank clerk 

[ickydicky]

fuck me. bankers are the only cunts to rival hoors as cheats liars and thieves

[cristot]

Co-incidentally, I have a regular who is very much a part- time escort, and who also uses POF- and the other day she asked me why it was that the majority of the blokes she meets escorting are much nicer and respectful to her than the guys she dates normally.....I think she was being serious.....I simply told her that I'd figure it out and if she booked a 2 hour session with me for £200 I'd tell her why....

[ickydicky]

 

[AnthG]

Mate I'm on Pof the amount of escorts on there is scary I was actually talking to one she was not my type at all so i let her know that I had seen her profile on adultwork she then said she did nit want to talk to me unless i wanted to arrange a professional booking.

What made it funny was she messaged me first asking for my number and the possibility of a date. Maybe I should of kept my mouth shut

I have seen a whole bunch of girls I have booked before on POF. Given girls always hide their faces in Newcastle it would be the only way to have seen their faces and thus recognose them on POF. Two of the girls I had seen on there were girls I really liked booking and had been regulars.

I never messaged them as I considered it would be grade A boundary pushing and something that would cause the girl to get either really angry or upset.

In total and complete honesty, however. Part of me deep down always wishes I did just to see if the girl would be up for me if I wasn't paying (to say again these were the girls I really liked). But never did it.

I honestly get the feeling though WGs when they go on POF are not looking for guys anywhere close to me. They are looking for guys who go to bars all the time. Get totally pissed and probably get in fights on the way home. And look superficial and the like and not touch with a bargepole a guy who was just a regular type guy who is into geeky type stuff.

I better put a further caveat on the above. I am also talking about girls in their mid 20s here above. So I know girls in their mid-30s would be very different and maybe would. But girls in their mid 20s. Very different.

[Brazilian Martian]

I have seen a whole bunch of girls I have booked before on POF. Given girls always hide their faces in Newcastle it would be the only way to have seen their faces and thus recognose them on POF. Two of the girls I had seen on there were girls I really liked booking and had been regulars.

I never messaged them as I considered it would be grade A boundary pushing and something that would cause the girl to get either really angry or upset.

In total and complete honesty, however. Part of me deep down always wishes I did just to see if the girl would be up for me if I wasn't paying (to say again these were the girls I really liked). But never did it.

I honestly get the feeling though WGs when they go on POF are not looking for guys anywhere close to me. They are looking for guys who go to bars all the time. Get totally pissed and probably get in fights on the way home. And look superficial and the like and not touch with a bargepole a guy who was just a regular type guy who is into geeky type stuff.

You would be surprised I've seen a few prossies not English ones who have shown me pics of them with their boyfriends, they all look like regular joes nothing special in the looks department.  I think the prossies on dating sites a high majority are looking for business but the others i would guess really are after companionship as with that job they must find it hard to meet guys with the hours they work.

[ickydicky]

any hoor on a dating site is looking for business.

[AnthG]

any hoor on a dating site is looking for business.

No, not true and liable to get you in hot water thinking that. You can generally tell from the profiles if they are or not.

And the two profiles I seen it was obvious the girl was looking for person to hang out with.

[Brazilian Martian]

any hoor on a dating site is looking for business.

I wonder what Becca or Dani the female members on here would think about that ?

[Rick2468]

I think the profiles I have seen have been genuine profiles looking for companionship. They don't say "I'm a freak between the sheets" etc etc and from the two chats I had the girls did not get sexual at all.

[Brazilian Martian]

I think the profiles I have seen have been genuine profiles looking for companionship. They don't say "I'm a freak between the sheets" etc etc and from the two chats I had the girls did not get sexual at all.

Dnt do what did never let on you know they are prossies that's the best advice I can give amigo

[Rick2468]

I wouldn't do that no way! I tried to pm you the profiles I was talking to but it says only admin can pm you. Don't drop me in it with them though please!

It reminds me of a time I was at a gig and I was chatting to a girl and I asked what she did and she said "I'm an escort" like it was the most normal thing. I actually thought she must have meant something completely different like she was a bodyguard or chaperone or something and the conversation moved on. We spoke for ages and she said we should meet up at a club later and we seperated but I was with a bunch of lads and the club wouldn't let us in. Bastards.

[Brazilian Martian]

I wouldn't do that no way! I tried to pm you the profiles I was talking to but it says only admin can pm you. Don't drop me in it with them though please!

It reminds me of a time I was at a gig and I was chatting to a girl and I asked what she did and she said "I'm an escort" like it was the most normal thing. I actually thought she must have meant something completely different like she was a bodyguard or chaperone or something and the conversation moved on. We spoke for ages and she said we should meet up at a club later and we seperated but I was with a bunch of lads and the club wouldn't let us in. Bastards.

Just play it cool you may have to play the long game as well but free sex is worth it just dnt fall in  with a prossie

[E.L. Wisty]

I would never do dating. However whatever floats one's boat.

[hendrix]

fuck me. bankers are the only cunts to rival hoors as cheats liars and thieves

I love the taste of bitter tears 

[ickydicky]

are you a banker then

[Brazilian Martian]

are you a banker then

Lool he may be

[stevedave]

I wonder what Becca or Dani the female members on here would think about that ?

I'm sure Rebecca has mentioned this before, and her tinder was deleted due to someone reporting her as a WG whereas she was looking for someone to date.

I've come across a couple of WG's I've seen, one on match and one on tinder. The one on tinder had one mutual friend...my fucking ex 

Needless to say, I did not swipe right 

[Brazilian Martian]

I'm sure Rebecca has mentioned this before, and her tinder was deleted due to someone reporting her as a WG whereas she was looking for someone to date.

I've come across a couple of WG's I've seen, one on match and one on tinder. The one on tinder had one mutual friend...my fucking ex 

Needless to say, I did not swipe right 

you should of swiped right that would of been a interesting first convo that you both could of had 

[stevedave]

you should of swiped right that would of been a interesting first convo that you both could of had 

Nah, she weren't that good 

And if I know a lass has had more pricks than a second hand dartboard, it's not the best start to a romance 

[Brazilian Martian]

Nah, she weren't that good 

And if I know a lass has had more pricks than a second hand dartboard, it's not the best start to a romance 

  I like that saying I'm gonna borrow that one 

[EnglishRebecca121]

I'm sure Rebecca has mentioned this before, and her tinder was deleted due to someone reporting her as a WG whereas she was looking for someone to date.

I've come across a couple of WG's I've seen, one on match and one on tinder. The one on tinder had one mutual friend...my fucking ex 

Needless to say, I did not swipe right 

yep thats correct men tend to forget us escorts actually have a  "normal " life . i was on tinder and others as im actually single and would like to date .... is that so wrong?

[Brazilian Martian]

yep thats correct men tend to forget us escorts actually have a  "normal " life . i was on tinder and others as im actually single and would like to date .... is that so wrong?

Nope it's nor wrong at all as long as you are upfront with letting the guy you are potentially about to date know that you are a prossie. If I met a girl online and she was not upfront about that I would be disgusted  as I said early on in a post one lady told me she worked in a bank which was clearly bullshit

[Rick2468]

I can understand her putting bank clerk as her occupation on a public profile. It might actually be her proper job but she escorts on the side. I would expect to be told about the escorting once you have spoken for a while and a relationship could potentially happen.

[AnthG]

I would expect to be told about the escorting once you have spoken for a while and a relationship could potentially happen.

Playing devils advocate, how long would it be before you told a girl you met on POF that you were a punter?

[Jeff_withpetersen]

I've seen one or two WGs I've recognised on POF, never messaged them though (it wouldn't bother me having a relationship with a WG or ex-WG but just didn't think they'd respond to me). I sincerely doubt any WG goes on POF to tout for business, how would that work? A few encouraging messages, an offer of a drink, everything 'normal' as it were and then 'oh by the way it'll cost you £ to actually spend time with me', I'd assume the hit rate for that would be close to zero.

Frankly I'd quite like a relationship with a WG, wouldn't bother me at all.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

Playing devils advocate, how long would it be before you told a girl you met on POF that you were a punter?

I'm not sure I'd ever tell a girl I met on POF that, and wouldn't be entirely surprised if an ex-WG never told a new partner about their previous life. How can you be sure that Miss/Mr Right won't suddenly come over all indignant and making moral judgments about an issue that doesn't 'need' to be raised?

[Rick2468]

That's a great question. In reality I wouldn't. I wouldn't punt whilst I was in a relationship either. If past sexual history came up as a discussion I expect I would just leave out the punts. Hypocritical I know.

[Brazilian Martian]

I can understand her putting bank clerk as her occupation on a public profile. It might actually be her proper job but she escorts on the side. I would expect to be told about the escorting once you have spoken for a while and a relationship could potentially happen.

One prossie on Pof has her profession as adult entertainment I respect that straight up no BS

[Turtle Z]

yep thats correct men tend to forget us escorts actually have a  "normal " life .would like to date .... is that so wrong?

No, so long as you tell your date what you do for a living.

[Turtle Z]

one lady told me she worked in a bank which was clearly bullshit

Maybe she meant a sperm bank of sorts.

[Brazilian Martian]

Maybe she meant a sperm bank of sorts.

Could be also just seen one who has teaching assistant down as her profession prossie logic 

[Rick2468]

PM me the links to these people. I'll send you the ones I found too. I'm on there now. I won't stitch you up I promise.

[Brazilian Martian]

PM me the links to these people. I'll send you the ones I found too. I'm on there now. I won't stitch you up I promise.

I can't send pms I'm on probation  but jokes aside I'm in the south West london area and the amount of prossies on the search filter on Pof is scary i remember the faces as some girls use the same AW profile pics on there