Escorts vs prostitutes

[pelvic thrust overdrive]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

[Ali Katt]

What a pointless thread. It sounds like a bad Chris Rock routine without the jokes. TBH if saw an Escort and didn't have a fuck I would be disappointed.

[king tarzan]

What a nonsense thread..... absolutely ridiculous...

[scutty brown]

try not to think so hard, you're obviously not used to it.

There are three types of women:
those who don't fuck for money
those who are forced to fuck for money
those who want to fuck for money

the labels you are trying to pigeonhole with them are false, artificial constructs and are a waste of time
if you pay her, she's a prostitute. Maybe willing, maybe not, but pretending she's an "escort" and so somehow better is a load of shit

[pewpewpew]

Was hoping for the definition of a courtesan as well. I am thoroughly disappointed

[whiskyfan]

What a nonsense thread..... absolutely ridiculous...

Can't believe I'm actually agreeing with KT. What a load of garbage, OP.

[Rochelle]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

How ridiculous. I prefer the term escort but it's the same thing...obviously.
You having a shit time and being ripped off has nothing to do with the name.
 

Oh by the way, where are the reviews of these rip-off merchants?

[Wooderz]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

I can relate to this analysis but ultimately...

[Wooderz]

try not to think so hard, you're obviously not used to it.

There are three types of women:
those who don't fuck for money
those who are forced to fuck for money
those who want to fuck for money

the labels you are trying to pigeonhole with them are false, artificial constructs and are a waste of time
if you pay her, she's a prostitute. Maybe willing, maybe not, but pretending she's an "escort" and so somehow better is a load of shit

[Wooderz]

Was hoping for the definition of a courtesan as well. I am thoroughly disappointed

A jumped up hooker with delusions of status aided and abetted by pussy begging punters fawning at her heels wallets open.. 

[PLeisure]

Could the OP please discuss Brexit, instead... 

[JonasG]

They're literally the same. 😂

Unless you're one of those sad acts that has dinner with them before the act lol.

[Paris69]

They're literally the same. 😂

Unless you're one of those sad acts that has dinner with them before the act lol.

 +1    

[Adoniron]

There is no difference.

[Rochelle]

They're literally the same. 😂

Unless you're one of those sad acts that has dinner with them before the act lol.

Nothing wrong with dinner first if they enjoy spending their time that way. Many guys enjoy a bit of company first before getting down to business. Some guys are lonely and just fancy a bit of friendly company without the hassle and headache of trying to date, some are probably very busy and don't have the time to date, some are visiting different cities and want the company for dinner rather than eating alone, of course followed by a guaranteed shag. There are many reasons.
I'm sure most people outside of punting would think you're sad because you pay for sex.

Always find it funny how judgemental so many punters are. What difference does it make as long as that person is happy with how their money and time is spent?

[Steely Dan]

Oh by the way, where are the reviews of these rip-off merchants?

+1
Please name them at least.

[Hunktool]

What a pointless topic. Started with nothing and ended with nothing

[Jerjer]

They're literally the same. 😂

Unless you're one of those sad acts that has dinner with them before the act lol.

I'm one of those sad acts who paid for a dinner date and didn't even get on to any form of dessert 

What's in a name? Take your pick from: Harlot, call-girl, strumpet, hooker, courtesan, escort or prostitute? Very little actual 'escorting' seems to be done 

[Malvolio]

I will offer my services to the OP for a nice chat.  The meeting point will be my local pub and my fee is all the beer I can drink (plus £100 an hour).

[Wooderz]

Nothing wrong with dinner first if they enjoy spending their time that way. Many guys enjoy a bit of company first before getting down to business. Some guys are lonely and just fancy a bit of friendly company without the hassle and headache of trying to date, some are probably very busy and don't have the time to date, some are visiting different cities and want the company for dinner rather than eating alone, of course followed by a guaranteed shag. There are many reasons.
I'm sure most people outside of punting would think you're sad because you pay for sex.

Always find it funny how judgemental so many punters are. What difference does it make as long as that person is happy with how their money and time is spent?

Reminds me of one of my favourite ex's.. I used to love the fancy food she cooked me while dressed up in her boots and hooker gear.. Unfortunately I preferred sex afterwards with real prostitutes, but felt obliged to give her some instead in exchange for the meal..

[Moresomes]

What a pointless topic. Started with nothing and ended with nothing

It must have impressed you, to provoke your first post in three and a half years. 

[tynetunnel]

It must have impressed you, to provoke your first post in three and a half years. 

[conway_hound]

I used to use an escort in my younger days; always gave a reliable service and a lot of fun to take out, until the bloody engine seized...

[Waterhouse]

I used to use an escort in my younger days; always gave a reliable service and a lot of fun to take out, until the bloody engine seized...

Ah... the old adage - 'If you can't afford, then buy a Ford.'   

[OakTree]

They're literally the same. 😂

Unless you're one of those sad acts that has dinner with them before the act lol.

What’s so sad about that? I can’t say I’ve done it myself but if I was a lot better off I’d make an evening of it. I think it’d be great to be around town with a really hot woman, go for a meal then off to the casino then back to the hotel. It’s sounds a lot better and more realistic than the stopwatch running as soon as I walk through the door. Unfortunately finances dictate the latter but certainly not out of choice.

[wristjob]

What is the difference between petits pois and peas?

I would imagine that "escort" is a great way for people who find it hard to admit they are or use prostitutes to HANDLE THINGS.

[iphonex]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

Escort is a posh way of saying Prostitute

Someone who you spend time with but still fuck and looks the part and who spends time on herself is a courtesan

Most escorts think of themselves as courtesan

Courtesan is one who spends time outwith a hotel room as well as within

Thanks my view of it

[PeachyAssFan]

Was hoping for the definition of a courtesan as well. I am thoroughly disappointed

Large ego; and fat 

[itk]

try not to think so hard, you're obviously not used to it.

There are three types of women:
those who don't fuck for money
those who are forced to fuck for money
those who want to fuck for money

the labels you are trying to pigeonhole with them are false, artificial constructs and are a waste of time
if you pay her, she's a prostitute. Maybe willing, maybe not, but pretending she's an "escort" and so somehow better is a load of shit

[LauraHoD]

I might be wrong but i imagine the term "escort" started in the US where prostitution is illegal but it's fine to pay someone to escort you to an event or keep you company for the evening. Then anything that happens after is coincedental......wink wink etc.  Or it could just be a pretentious word for people who can't face reality.
   I have no issue being refered to as a prostitute but I found some clients (and other "escorts") got upset when i used the word so i usually use "escort", "working girl" or "sex worker" with people I don't know well. Its the same as some punters preferring the word "client". Although if you have joined this forum i guess you have made peace with that term.

[Mr_Shins]

OP is correct in that you pay an escort for an amount of time, not an amount of "shots".

And if you pay for 30 mins then you should not be tossed out after 10 mins regardless.

Aside from that, most of it is a load of waffle.

This site allows you to review escorts / prostitutes or whatever you want to call them, and if you had a bad service you should follow that by giving that provider a negative review.

If you got 30 minutes but all she did is chat and refused sex, she should also get a bad review, regardless of what you call her.

[TailSeeker]

Escort and prostitute is interchangeable. So is hooker, or any other term you pick for a sex worker. We just might give you a clip around the ears if you continue to call us a name we don't like in person.

Attitude will depend from person to person. Nothing to do with the name they use or price they charge.

Cross reference instead with what UKP says about behaviour and performance. That is going to tell you more about services than just what's in the profile.

[Colston36]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

As this started as a stroll through the dictionary for the benefit of the semi-literate poster, why has nobody mentioned that wonderful word trollop? When young I lived with a retired call-girl. She hated the word prostitute. Liked to be described as a party girl. Then again there is the word wife. My last cost me 100 times more than even the costliest ladies on AW, though at least she was a marvellous fuck.

[Plan R]

She is a brass.
You are doing some brass rubbing.

[Doc Holliday]

I might be wrong but i imagine the term "escort" started in the US where prostitution is illegal but it's fine to pay someone to escort you to an event or keep you company for the evening. Then anything that happens after is coincedental......wink wink etc. 

Correct. Escort simply means to accompany and has become a legal definition in the US.

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[waynekerr600]

There are three types of women:
those who don't fuck for money
those who are forced to fuck for money
those who want to fuck for money

I think there's a fourth category- those who appear not to fuck for money but fuck you over later (with the aid of a lawyer)

[Pennine Rover]

Many years ago well before the net, there was a clear difference. You booked the escort via an agency purely for her company. I would think the rate was perhaps twice what the girl would get in an admin/nursing job although the agency had their cut. At the end of the allotted time the girls were no longer working for the agency and could negotiate intimacy with the client. Of course not all girls wanted sex, some were quite happy doing the company/date type meet only and at the end of the allotted time went home.

[Moby Dick]

Petit pois are not a variety of pea but merely green peas that have been picked before full maturity..

You pay more for younger peas, around 40p (no pun) per kg.
Some pay more  for younger "whores" (another name for pro$$ies and escorts) but fortunately weight (actually mass) is not the unit of measure.

What is the difference between petits pois and peas?

I would imagine that "escort" is a great way for people who find it hard to admit they are or use prostitutes to HANDLE THINGS.

[Moby Dick]

Continuing with this analogy.

Tesco Frozen Peas £1.20/kg
Tesco Frozen Petit Pois £1.60/kg.
(edit: other brands are available)

Let's assume you can eat a kg of either in 30minutes.
And average UK female weighs 70kg, can you see where I am going with this?
Pro$$ie 30minutes £40 / 70kg = £0.57/kg
Escort 30minutes £80 / 70kg =£1.14/kg

So I conclude that both pro$$ies and escorts are better value per kg than boring peas (young and old).
Hopefully they won't be as cold and frozen.

Petit pois are not a variety of pea but merely green peas that have been picked before full maturity..

You pay more for younger peas, around 40p (no pun) per kg.
Some pay more  for younger "whores" (another name for pro$$ies and escorts) but fortunately weight (actually mass) is not the unit of measure.

[Mr_Shins]

I actually think the OP made some valid points in what you expect to get out of a session. In fact that is one of the primary reasons we have this site, and why so many of us find it useful.

What you call the service provider though is not really the main issue.

He has made 2 reviews, both positive, and one of them for a sex party.

I'm awaiting the negative reviews for those he mentioned above not providing adequate service.

For me, I quite like the more "subtle" way of things: where she displays more "normal" non-explicit photos and less of sexual activity mentioned in the profile. Of course you expect to "get laid". Unfortunately though that probably doesn't work - if it doesn't say openly that she'll give you sex then punters may assume she won't and won't book her. (If that really did happen though she'd gain a bad reputation and would stop getting clients).

Seeking Arrangements is a bit more that way if you go for a "pay per meet". And they are often longer sessions, e.g. 2-3 hours. That's why I originally joined that site, but it's too full of rip-off women who fail to deliver and there isn't a sane-enough review procedure.

[scutty brown]

I actually think the OP made some valid points in what you expect to get out of a session. In fact that is one of the primary reasons we have this site, and why so many of us find it useful....................

and we all thought the only thing you expected from a session was broken legs............dunno what you'd call a girl who'd render that service though. A cloggie???

[Mr_Shins]

You don't pay women for sex, you pay them to fulfill your desires.

That could be just sex, could be a kinky activity on its own, or could be a kinky activity that leads to sex.

Some people pay for dinner dates followed by sex. Taking a beautiful woman out first is a good prelude for some.
A lot of men have a regular and as well as regular sex, they chat about things.

There isn't only one correct way of what you do, but there is a matter of finding the right person who will do things the way you like, and that you also find attractive (and doesn't find you repulsive that you get the idea they don't really want to be there, and are only doing so because they need the money. Not that they don't want the money, but then you can work in a job you really enjoy but still expect to get paid for it, or you can work in a job you hate, but continue working because you need the money).

[bhudda]

The only distinction you need to make is those who are good at the job and those that arent

[Mr_Shins]

The only distinction you need to make is those who are good at the job and those that arent

Yes but some enjoy doing certain activities and some are not, and then it's also a matter of whether they are any good at it.

The mix of kinky-fetish kicking with sex is a strange one.

And it's not only whether they are willing to support it but whether I am able to "perform" with that one. Melysa gets me turned on every time - easily. That's why she became my regular.

[tailspin]

I'm not claiming to be a great cruciverbalist, but I do know that:

"courtesan" is an anagram of "a sore cunt"

Just thought I'd mention it.

[Hobbit]

Hey guys, I just wanted to drop my thoughts on the differences between an escort and a prostitute; and what one should come to expect from somebody providing services.

So after being disappointed on numerous occasions from those who claim to be escorts, I've begun to think, "what is an escort? And what should I come to expect, when I pay to see one?"

To me an escort is some one you spend time with; someone that is invested in you and wanting to provide you with the best time you can possibly have. It could something as simple as a nice chat, or it can be something as erotic as a full on pornstar experience; but what ever the outcome, the focus should be about giving you (the client) the best time you can possibly have.

So then, the next question becomes, what is a prostitute?

In my opinion, a prostitute is solely focused on providing services (sexual) for money. They have no interest in whether you have a good time or not, there soul focus is just to get you off and get you out.

So then, what is my gripe?

My gripe is that, when I go to see an escort, I don't expect to see a prostitute. I have no interest in seeing somebody who is looking to get me off and get me out. If that was the case, I'd look for a prostitute.

As a client, if I pay for 30mins, I expect 30mins, regardless if I shot my load within the first 10mins or not. It nothing but yanks my chain that for some service providers, they think it's ok to cheat us clients out of our money by using scrupulous tactics to waste our time; or worse still, cut our time short.

In conclusion, I just think it is a sad state of affairs of what the market has to offer. Yes, they are offering us services and yes, they are trying to earn from it, but ultimately as clients, all we're asking from escorts is for them to provide us with a good time and a satisfactory service, or at the very least, for them to try to.

You sound like a Fluffy or a prostitute, especially the way it's been written I wouldn't be surprised if the hooker is lying in bed with you telling you what to write. As others have mentioned, this is a pointless thread and now I'm going back finish off my gardening. 

[wristjob]

So I conclude that both pro$$ies and escorts are better value per kg than boring peas (young and old).
Hopefully they won't be as cold and frozen.

haha, made me laugh - and some are as cold and frozen

[PUNTY43]

I can't find anyone on AW listed as a prostitute. Not one single one. They're all escorts. Is there a separate search engine for prostitutes? 

[Littlefoot]

Few years ago I saw an English girl off aw. Her services were massage and HR. I can't remember the exact conversation during the massage, think I asked her how long she'd been escorting. She didn't like being called an escort, and told me quite sternly "I'm not an escort, I'm a masseuse!" Then I gave her a good fingering and she wanked me off. 

[Waterhouse]

You sound like a Fluffy or a prostitute, especially the way it's been written I wouldn't be surprised if the hooker is lying in bed with you telling you what to write. As others have mentioned, this is a pointless thread and now I'm going back finish off my gardening. 

I don't think it's a pointless thread and I see what the OP is aiming to convey.

I think though that some of the labels/tags (and they are just that) we afford these girls are either incorrect or interchangeable though and it very much depends on both the girl in question and what the guy is looking for IMO.  For example I would never refer to a drug addict street walker as an escort or SP, same for a pimped girl or a pump and dump establishment - not that I would ever visit either, personal choice and all that.  But I'm happy to differentiate between that type of WG and a relaible, clean, independent well established and well reviewed girl and use the term 'escort'. In my view it is earned and warranted. Again, my personal choice.

The bottom line is it all falls under the umbrella of 'prostitution' but there is a big difference bewtween girls, services, client requirements, delivery and above all quality. And for me personally the quality girls have earned the right to be separated from the 'pack' and if that is done via a noun, name, label or tag, then it's fine and makes sense to me.