It is the stigma attached to punting isn't it? If I outed myself no doubt one of my mates wives/gf's would eventually gob off and say that I see prossies because I can't get a woman any other way. Possibly true, but so what, I've come to realise that the single life has more positives than negatives IMO.
Some of my mates might shun me, but only under pressure from their OH's I suspect. They know I've punted, but on stag do's abroad where what happens on tour stays on tour (so that's ok then?
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At work I'd have not only people laughing behind my back but some would actively make life difficult for me (responsibility to employer and that sort of bollocks).
So, like many, when my mates are ogling some fat English slapper I'll just keep my mouth shut and look forward to the next gorgeous girl that I can bone all for less than they spend keeping their OH's sweet with shopping money, holidays etc.