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Offline olover

Hello all

Have been punting on and off for many years but had not seen anyone for about 2 years until last September, just after I registered on here. Since then I have seen the same girl half a dozen times and another once, but must admit I have been put off posting reviews by some of the comments made by a few experienced posters about some of the newer posters.

That said, this is a great site and I have already benefited greatly from reviews I have read so perhaps its time I started contributing!

Offline Plan R

On the theme of mental health, I do find writing a review is kind of cathartic.
It's the cherry on top of a good punt..and a good way to get it out of your system (while alerting others) for a bad punt.
Either way it's a good mental download..stops it bouncing round in your head.

I quite like reviewing, but have seen the same WG a couple of times a month for the last few months so the rate has slowed a bit (for now).

Offline thor555

Agree with Plan R and this has helped before but when it comes down to the BS you gotta deal with the missus that's another story for another site..

Who knows may be this might help get the BS out of my head

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Hello all

Have been punting on and off for many years but had not seen anyone for about 2 years until last September, just after I registered on here. Since then I have seen the same girl half a dozen times and another once, but must admit I have been put off posting reviews by some of the comments made by a few experienced posters about some of the newer posters.

That said, this is a great site and I have already benefited greatly from reviews I have read so perhaps its time I started contributing!

Welcome  :hi:

Your first step, we all had to start somewhere

Offline Fabaceous

Since being a member here, I think that I have reviewed every girl I have seen - I have then seen a few of them regularly so no new reviews put up unless more to add. Then 2 years ago, I relocated from Manchester to Shropshire and my punting dropped a lot.
I had some success on Seekingarrangement - and have been seeing a girl from there for over 18 months. I'd love to write the stories of our fun together though:-)

Fab

Offline Marmalade

I do it to help other punters not out of enjoyment of writing reviews.

Spot on. There’s nothing particularly enjoyable about it. The natural instinct is to shut up rather than going on record. But if you think the board is worthwhile and you’ve maybe gained something from it then the decent thing to do is to give something back to people who made the time and effort.

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I frequently question my mental health  :cool:

I think the consensus is that porn and wanking are the worst things for your mojo. Try abstaining from both for a couple of weeks and read a few reviews, what's the worst that can happen?

Personally I think there can be many reasons for loss of mojo, mental health issues could be one, even mild depression, years ago when I was punting very regularly, my "excuse" to my self if you like, was that it was a great way to release stress, now I actually think stress is playing a part in my not punting (can sometimes spend so long browsing AW etc and then just can't be arsed) Sometimes it's just phases you go through, punting and porn can both be a bit like "a kid in a sweet shop" but there are times when the kid gets fed up of sweets

Offline MrMatrix

Hello all

Have been punting on and off for many years but had not seen anyone for about 2 years until last September, just after I registered on here. Since then I have seen the same girl half a dozen times and another once, but must admit I have been put off posting reviews by some of the comments made by a few experienced posters about some of the newer posters.

That said, this is a great site and I have already benefited greatly from reviews I have read so perhaps its time I started contributing!
Welcome to the forum Olover. I share your concern as some new posters can get a rough ride. I only ever had one rough ride on one of my reviews but even an experience punter may be challenged. As you have been here some time you can see what is required or appreciated within a review. Just do it, as this forum is about reviews, get 3-5 under your belt. Like Plan R I too find writing it up cathartic. I do a write up of all my punts but not all get posted for various reasons. However all negatives get posted. Many of my reviews relate to regulars so cant post again within12 months if its a positive , yet again. Just dont be too fluffy. Look forward to hearing some of your escapades :hi:

Offline shyboy1

I joined ukp fairly recently and did a couple of reviews going back a few months but I thought going back any further would be pointless. For the last couple of months I have been meeting with someone who was a regular up till her retirement but she recently contacted me to see if I’d be interested in meeting up again which I most definitely was.!
So my punting since then has been exclusively with her and as she does not advertise or have an AW account it would not be appropriate to review our meetings.
If she does ever return to full time escorting I will definitely do a review as she is excellent.
Likewise if I decide to have a break and visit someone different I will do a review.
SB

Offline Hornybaker1

I havent punted since my last review

Offline abc--123

For me it's a combination of no free time and no money.

Offline nene

I also haven't punted for a over 6 months, but prior to that no excuses for not doing more. Have been thinking about putting up some reviews of people I saw last year, but is it still worthwhile putting up reviews that are 6 months old?

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Until recently I couldn't afford to punt much, and as a consequence kept banging the same 2-3 women I knew were a sure thing. That, and I am often posting a warning review after a shit punt with a new girl, and I don't want to be the guy who only posts to moan about the declining quality of prossies in their area. So I limit myself to the best and worst cases of gash for cash that stumble into  :wackogirl:

Offline shyboy1

I also haven't punted for a over 6 months, but prior to that no excuses for not doing more. Have been thinking about putting up some reviews of people I saw last year, but is it still worthwhile putting up reviews that are 6 months old?
I also had to think hard about how far to go back with reviews. I think that as long as the sp is still active and available then 6 month old reviews could still be useful to other punters especially if the sp is not already reviewed much on here. I went back 6 months with one of mine I think for these reasons.
However if it’s much more than 6 months since the meeting its probably not such a good idea as so much about the sp could have changed in that much time, like her level of service, her attitude and even her figure, maybe this is a good excuse to have another visit just to check nothing has changed!
SB

Offline AlwaysLooking

I punted mid last year, and haven't punted again till last week. I did review both punts mind.

Basically I've just been super busy in my normal life, so not had time/not seen any profiles I've thought I really really must see her (within my normal limits of cost/location etc)

Online hendrix

I havent punted since my last review

+1

And no plans to do so for the foreseeable, so there's not a lot to contribute.

Offline Bigjohn

Same as above really.
Only 1 punt since October.
Just can't be arsed.
My next punt will be with someone I have previously reviewed.
So, unless that punt is a bad one, no point in doing a review.

Offline mrwhite

Of my last 10 punts, 4 where with the same person, who I have reviewed once, and has about 15 other positive reviews.
The others have all also been reviewed by me once, and by many others as well.

I didn't have any complaints about any of the punts, and didn't want to bore everyone with a pretty vanilla positive review.

However if the consensus is review every punt, I'll make more of an effort

Offline houseboot

Of my last 10 punts, 4 where with the same person, who I have reviewed once, and has about 15 other positive reviews.
The others have all also been reviewed by me once, and by many others as well.

I didn't have any complaints about any of the punts, and didn't want to bore everyone with a pretty vanilla positive review.

However if the consensus is review every punt, I'll make more of an effort

A Review of every NEW (to you) SP is welcomed.

However, you are only allowed to post one positive review of each individual SP in a 12 month period.

Offline David Semen

Hi Billy, may I ask who you became friends with? I think this may be happening to me with a little brunette who has emailed me this past week.

Offline theoldmaggot

Hi Billy, may I ask who you became friends with? I think this may be happening to me with a little brunette who has emailed me this past week.

This was posted a year ago..I doubt it will have any connection with you

Offline Landscape

After getting a scare and a wake up call towards the end of last year I've laid low for a few months with my mojo on hiatus in that period. Since then it's been difficult to find escorts with a likes list that appeals to me and when I do it's been they've either been unavailable or their likes list turn out not be accurate.

The last one I saw was a regular from years back who returned north on a flying visit and has now gone back down south.

Offline Jacques Barstarred

I don't want give the Murder Squad any clues.  :diablo:








Joking...I don't have the motivation due to a punishing work schedule anymore and temporary debt. Ends soon though and I will again have the time and the money. But it will be quality over quantity from now on
« Last Edit: May 22, 2019, 03:02:29 am by Jacques Barstarred »

Online FLYING BLUE

Because I've pretty much retired from punting and, on the occasions that I do indulge, it's rarely with someone new (I can't review a regular more than once a year unless it's a negative).

Also, in the NE section, it became frowned upon to review or even engage with certain ladies, and I just can't be bothered with the ensuing drama......

IF it is someone new to me, I will certainly review - it's the lifeblood of the forum. :hi:

FB

Offline RadioKid

Haven't punted in a while due to being injured in Football and hectic work schedule. My last review was a massage which although positive, I feel is poor value for money.

Can honestly say I've saved a bundle and don't have much interest returning anytime soon as of yet.

Offline threechilliman

Because I've pretty much retired from punting and, on the occasions that I do indulge, it's rarely with someone new (I can't review a regular more than once a year unless it's a negative).

Also, in the NE section, it became frowned upon to review or even engage with certain ladies, and I just can't be bothered with the ensuing drama......

IF it is someone new to me, I will certainly review - it's the lifeblood of the forum. :hi:

FB

How does that work then?

Offline cueball

I still write reviews.

I don't see anywhere the numbers as a couple of years ago but if she's a new face too me, I'll write a review, no matter what her track record in here is.

To be honest, I don't find writing a review a chore, I enjoy the write up

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How does that work then?

There was a bunch of prossies nicknamed 'the cauldron' who set up a whatsapp group and slagged punters off amongst themselves. That in it's self wouldn't be a problem, what you don't know can't hurt you, but they allowed it to become common knowledge they did it. Biting the hand that feeds you sprang to mind.

As not many who are spending £2+ per minute would want to know for sure that they will be talked about in a disparaging manner by the people they are paying, frequent reminders would be posted.




Offline smiths

There was a bunch of prossies nicknamed 'the cauldron' who set up a whatsapp group and slagged punters off amongst themselves. That in it's self wouldn't be a problem, what you don't know can't hurt you, but they allowed it to become common knowledge they did it. Biting the hand that feeds you sprang to mind.

As not many who are spending £2+ per minute would want to know for sure that they will be talked about in a disparaging manner by the people they are paying, frequent reminders would be posted.

Similar to da sisterhood, a forum set up by some of the dusty phone brigade WGs who couldn't stand UKP being a punters forum, :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: they tried to undermine it and failed completely while UKP went from strength to strength, thick twats. And at least 2 of these WGs are now members on UKE, the irony of it.

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I dont review girls who already have loads of reviews on here unless its a red.  Purely because i cant be arsed and it adds little value however  I will always try to share a toftt.

If a fellow punter has suggested a girl with only a few reviews i will make a point of adding a write up as a sign of graritude but above all, i punt for my own enjoyment, the review comes second.


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In my case, it’s usually because I don’t want the WG to read it and recognise who it would be from the punt description, hence why I wait several weeks
Banned reason: OTT abuse to fellow punters.
Banned by: daviemac

Offline Horizontal pleasures

I just read in this thread that one should not review a lady positively more than once a year. I never knew that, I am sure I have done that and nobody complained. Oops. Is this true?

Offline Goldfinch

I just read in this thread that one should not review a lady positively more than once a year. I never knew that, I am sure I have done that and nobody complained. Oops. Is this true?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=1.0

"Reviews

* A new review thread can only be created once a service provider has agreed to a booking (e.g. verbally or by textual messaging). A meet does not need to take place, money does not need change hands, the only requirement is that the service provider had accepted the initial booking.
* Only one positive review thread can be posted for a service provider by one member per 12 month period, the exception is if the new positive review is for a threesome (or more) booking. This 12-month restriction only applies to positive reviews, not neutral or negative (they can be posted anytime after a positive review). During the 12-month period a member can add their new positive reviews to their existing review thread in the form of a reply.
* Positive reviews can only be placed in the 12 months after the punt. No time limit on negative or neutral reviews.
* Positive reviews cannot be placed for cancelled bookings.
* Only sex workers can be the subject of a review, not a whole agency / establishment / brothel. The exception is massage establishments where providers do not have names.
* Reviews must contain either a link, contact details or address (if publicised by the service provider).
* Only one review thread per punt. Do not combine multiple punts in the same review thread, neither should a same punt be split into multiple review threads. Do not post the same review in multiple regions.
* Past or current sex workers or anyone related to a sex worker (e.g. boyfriend) may not review any other sex worker."
« Last Edit: May 22, 2019, 01:45:14 pm by Goldfinch »

Offline smiths

I just read in this thread that one should not review a lady positively more than once a year. I never knew that, I am sure I have done that and nobody complained. Oops. Is this true?

Yes but the rule changed a while back, before that you could do so.

Online Colston36

Review numbers are up what the fuck you on about?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=176811.msg1869881#msg1869881

Maybe stick to facts rather then being whiney.   :cry: :cry: :cry:

Needlessly aggressive posts like this from people who must have personal problems must put quite a few off.

On the subject, I don't review that often for the reasons others have given. I have a regular core of 7 or 8 I see, and more reviews of them look fluffy and repeat much the same things.

Offline tynetunnel

Needlessly aggressive posts like this from people who must have personal problems must put quite a few off.

On the subject, I don't review that often for the reasons others have given. I have a regular core of 7 or 8 I see, and more reviews of them look fluffy and repeat much the same things.
What did happen to VW? Last active Jan 2019. I have to say that UKP is a calmer, less aggressive place recently  :hi:

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There was a bunch of prossies nicknamed 'the cauldron' who set up a whatsapp group and slagged punters off amongst themselves. That in it's self wouldn't be a problem, what you don't know can't hurt you, but they allowed it to become common knowledge they did it. Biting the hand that feeds you sprang to mind.

As not many who are spending £2+ per minute would want to know for sure that they will be talked about in a disparaging manner by the people they are paying, frequent reminders would be posted.

That's putting it mildly DM  :D

Offline hullad

My reports have diminished due to a general lack of interest in new punts. I do see a regular every few weeks and that will certainly continin fact it will get more regular as we now go out a lot more drinking etc.

If I see something that stirs the juices I will leap in there and I have a few ' celebrity' punts to follow up yet .
« Last Edit: May 22, 2019, 08:25:37 pm by hullad »

Offline Johnbre

There was a time when I used to see loads of girls and the reviews flowed every week. These days I pretty much only see the same girl so it would be pointless.

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There was a time when I used to see loads of girls and the reviews flowed every week. These days I pretty much only see the same girl so it would be pointless.

You've only got 2, from April and March 2018.   :unknown:

Offline MrMatrix

What did happen to VW? Last active Jan 2019. I have to say that UKP is a calmer, less aggressive place recently  :hi:

I cant believe he's not on the site somewhere. Possibly got another profile, I don't know.
Yes it is less agressive but Off Topic caused a lot of controversy in its own right and losing that will have removed the most conflict. Nothing to do with VW.

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I cant believe he's not on the site somewhere. Possibly got another profile, I don't know.
Yes it is less agressive but Off Topic caused a lot of controversy in its own right and losing that will have removed the most conflict. Nothing to do with VW.

He's missing from UKE as well, must be taking a sabbatical.

Offline MrMatrix

He's missing from UKE as well, must be taking a sabbatical.
Or he may not be well. Not that I watch what he does, but I've never  seen him absent for so long- Hope he's Ok.
Another reason for site being less agressive is JRC hasn't been around for 8 months either.

Offline Johnbre

You've only got 2, from April and March 2018.   :unknown:

Yes but I have been punting for 30 years - before the internet. First review sites were %%% and puntinghive we all used to meet up on Sunday nights on IIRC

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Or he may not be well. Not that I watch what he does, but I've never  seen him absent for so long- Hope he's Ok.
Another reason for site being less agressive is JRC hasn't been around for 8 months either.

That's very true, he may not be well, I don't remember him saying anything about having a rest from punting / forums the last time he posted on UKE.

Offline Logamimo

I've not punted so far this year, as I get older I find that I can't be arsed. When I get the urge again I'll give it another go.

Offline Titi

I can’t be arsed anymore tbh. I’ve made my contribution to the forum and now use it for checking out prospective punts.

Offline Home Alone

On the theme of mental health, I do find writing a review is kind of cathartic.
It's the cherry on top of a good punt..and a good way to get it out of your system (while alerting others) for a bad punt.
Either way it's a good mental download..stops it bouncing round in your head.

I quite like reviewing, but have seen the same WG a couple of times a month for the last few months so the rate has slowed a bit (for now).
I always do this, too. My problem lately has been setting aside the time to write the draft. I have 2 or 3 to contribute and will try to be more disciplined with my spare - review-drafting - time in the next couple of weeks.

Offline Marmalade

On the theme of mental health, I do find writing a review is kind of cathartic.
I find the draft cathartic when I look at it two days later and think, Marm, are you really gonna post such rose-tinted fluffy crap? So you shot your load and enjoyed it? Good. Other people might be more interested in the fact that she was fat or Roma so ask yourself whether it felt outstanding or just an average fuck.  :D

Over time, I think it helped to keep my drafts factual (epistemic).  :hi:

Offline Jamboney

Haven't had a punt since Jan 2018. I have a hot list full of WG's but no desire to make a booking with anyone  :thumbsdown: