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Offline SpainSpy

So I just lurk here from time to time... real fun reading about the experiences... (yes, I need a new hobby)

I kinda wanna pull the trigger and visit someone, but I just don't get it how people can afford it.

Anything decent seems to cost £150+ an hour (although you can find cheaper Romanians, etc), the prices seem to be always going up, and many here seem to go see girls regularly.
I earn over £60k (top 8% of the population according to 15/16 data on gov site), but between my mortgage, car payments, going out, bills, etc, I would be spending my last money on them, and it just doesn't feel right. Doubly so considering the money they are charging and knowing how hard I worked and studied to get it. Maybe I feel slightly bitter knowing they earn way more an hour than me, despite all the hard work I had to put in to get to my current level.

I understand if I was getting something closer to 100k, maybe I wouldn't feel so bad about spending the money...


edit: Now that I read what I wrote, it sounds a bit like a rant... but I'm genuinely curious as to how people can afford this very expensive hobby.
« Last Edit: January 06, 2019, 02:10:54 pm by SpainSpy »

Offline Anadin

Wow I'd kill to earn that kinda money. Everyone's circumstances are wildly different, how much you earn doesn't quite tell the story of how much disposable income you have.

Offline Hobbit

The fact is that nobody can afford it in one sense because if you look at the big picture what are we really getting in return? It isn't something substantial that we can use over and over again. It just ends up being either a feeling of satisfaction or failure depending on your punt. But we choose to do it because of the excitement and the hope of great pleasure.

Online PLeisure

You have to decide what you want to do with your disposable income.
You've mentioned that a portion of funds contribute to you're going out. I earn less than half your salary so generally choose carefully and punt for the occasional treat. But then I don't go out anywhere near as much as I used to. And I don't have a partner to support, take expensive holidays, etc.

As always... YMMV  :hi:

Offline wannabe

Try shopping in Lidl instead of Waitrose, and cooking meals with real ingredients rather than eating out or buying overpriced ready meals. You'll soon have a bit of extra cash which you can save for the occasional punt.

Offline Moby Dick

Roughly how old are you OP?

As you get older you have more disposable income.
You earn more, plus less outgoings, mortgage paid, kids grown up, not out with your mates every night.
You could spend just as much on other hobbies, cars, golf, football season tickets, holidays etc.

Punting shouldn't be the priority. Budget for everything else, and as/if cash becomes available have some fun.

Offline fantasticmrfox

Wow I'd kill to earn that kinda money. Everyone's circumstances are wildly different, how much you earn doesn't quite tell the story of how much disposable income you have.

Totally agree, its the disposable income factor as much as anything else. I'm not getting political or societal. But there is a widening income gap and for some £150 which was quoted by the OP would require careful planning and time saving, for others it's the cost of a meal and drinks on a thursday night after work which they wouldn't think twice about and that punt is effectively as casual (in money terms) as a work mate saying, do you fancy a few after work tonight and something to eat, there's a new place in XXX. I guess the key to this or spending on anything whether its punting, clothes, holidays cars etc etc...is balance, as you never know what's around the corner and income and jobs may not be safe.


Offline fantasticmrfox

Totally agree, its the disposable income factor as much as anything else. I'm not getting political or societal. But there is a widening income gap and for some £150 which was quoted by the OP would require careful planning and time saving, for others it's the cost of a meal and drinks on a thursday night after work which they wouldn't think twice about and that punt is effectively as casual (in money terms) as a work mate saying, do you fancy a few after work tonight and something to eat, there's a new place in XXX. I guess the key to this or spending on anything whether its punting, clothes, holidays cars etc etc...is balance, as you never know what's around the corner and income and jobs may not be safe and may not be good to get ingrained or used to this life.

Offline SpainSpy

Wow I'd kill to earn that kinda money. Everyone's circumstances are wildly different, how much you earn doesn't quite tell the story of how much disposable income you have.

That is what I used to think some time ago... The thing is, after you take away the taxes, student load repayment, pension (6%), it comes out to just over £3K each month. I'm not saying this is not good money, just nowhere near enough to be living it up.


Offline SpainSpy

Roughly how old are you OP?

As you get older you have more disposable income.
You earn more, plus less outgoings, mortgage paid, kids grown up, not out with your mates every night.
You could spend just as much on other hobbies, cars, golf, football season tickets, holidays etc.

Punting shouldn't be the priority. Budget for everything else, and as/if cash becomes available have some fun.

Just shy of 30. Yeah, a big chunk of my salary is paying off the mortgage, should be much easier when that is done (not anytime soon tbh).

mountainjew

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Yep, it's all about disposable income.I earn around the same as you and i've set myself a limit of £300 per month. I don't smoke, drink or have kids to support so after I pay all my bills I can still save around 2k per month. I grew up in poverty and have only recently started earning a decent wage so i'm very aware of the value of money. Bills and savings comes first anything left over is fun money.

Offline j4ckw1ll5

I just see it as another outgoing now - like the gas bill. If you budget for it then you can afford it without thinking or it stinging like an unexpected car breakdown bill.

Offline dizietsmae

Give up drinking and smoking, eveyone in civvy life will be incredibly impressed and you can spend the saved money on fucking lithe young nymphs, also you will be healthier so you can fuck them harder  :yahoo:

Offline king tarzan

According to your funds

You can keep it cheap ( but in reality £60 minimum per hour is certainly not cheap)

Or


You can very stupidly keep it expensive...


Your own self choice to enjoy yourself physically or destroy yourself financially..
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Offline king tarzan

Try shopping in Lidl instead of Waitrose, and cooking meals with real ingredients rather than eating out or buying overpriced ready meals. You'll soon have a bit of extra cash which you can save for the occasional punt.

I don't agree with Lidl so I will stick to Tesco, Sainsbury's, marks and Spencers..

Rest I 100% agree with you on.
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Offline Bigwilts

That is what I used to think some time ago... The thing is, after you take away the taxes, student load repayment, pension (6%), it comes out to just over £3K each month. I'm not saying this is not good money, just nowhere near enough to be living it up.

It depends on how much ‘living it up’ you’re going to do
No ones likely to be on here partying every night with ‘high class hookers’

But last night cost me nearly £100 to fail to have sex with a tinder date begging me to come round to her place (shopping for drinks and snacks followed by leaving to a hotel)
And over £100 this afternoon for a massage and extras
(Not counting about another £100 in the shops whilst waiting for her to be free, but i was going to need to spend that anyway)

No matter how big your salary is you can very easily take it up to commitments and hobbies
Just choose how much goes on what
« Last Edit: January 06, 2019, 08:02:20 pm by Bigwilts »

Offline Wolf_66

Try shopping in Lidl instead of Waitrose, and cooking meals with real ingredients rather than eating out or buying overpriced ready meals. You'll soon have a bit of extra cash which you can save for the occasional punt.

Well said.
Loved the reply back to the lurker

 :D

Offline BootsnBunches

I don't agree with Lidl so I will stick to Tesco, Sainsbury's, marks and Spencers..

Rest I 100% agree with you on.

Don't agree with Lidl??? It's not an ideology it's a supermarket.

Offline bobby1973

i earn £1500 per month
pay the bills and mortgage
leaves me £60 a week to punt with
better to see 4 at £60 that 1 at £200

Offline Belgarion

I don't agree with Lidl so I will stick to Tesco, Sainsbury's, marks and Spencers..

Rest I 100% agree with you on.

Tescos products are below the quality of Lidl mango boy.

Lidl is able to offer competitive prices based on its business model and not the quality of its products.

Lidl recently won the Good Quality Christmas product Gold award.

Tesco is dog poo

Offline king tarzan

Don't agree with Lidl??? It's not an ideology it's a supermarket.

Substandard quality in my opinion is Lidl..

I believe in eat well without overspending like an idiot, dress half decent at least...
Have a decent car...decent watch..decent abode ..
The above because you have sorted yourself out firstly..
Then enjoy the pleasures of this expensive hobby..

Not over luxurious neither breadline existence..


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Offline sunnyj

Have a plan and stick to it. Below is my plan from 2019
From 2018, I stopped my daily intake of crisps and fizzy drinks and started using that money on punting. It is a win-win situation as it helps reduce my weight and increase my punting budget and also nobody knows that I stopped eating them.  :cool:
My target for 2019 is 52 punts (one per week) or £3120 (52*60) which ever comes first.
I have travel card that I use for daily commute and my punting travels are always free. Apart from these, I spend yearly around £40 on punting SIM and £60 on AW private gallery.

Offline king tarzan

I firmly believe in if your going forfeit something you enjoy to punt THEN DON'T PUNT

simpletto..
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Offline BootsnBunches

I can see it needing to be more post Brexit

Offline magnetico

SpainSpy - at 60k/year you can afford at least one punt for £150 per month  :thumbsup:

And you can even review them...

Online chris_jp2

I earn a decent whack but sadly a v large portion goes to me ex wife.  If you really have to get married, avoid the divorce. It hits the wallet big time.

Offline Malvolio

For a start, you don't have to pay £150+ to get 'anything decent' in London.  I wouldn't pay more than £150 for a one hour punt because I don't have to in order to get a very good GFE.

As for your question, my job is reasonably well-paid, but my basic is still only £40k (so basic rate taxpayer).  However, I get to work overtime if I choose each month, and that's where my punting budget comes from.

Offline loner

So.....how much do people earn  :P

But I agree the disposable income that matters greatly.

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It definitely gets easier as you get older.  Or at least it should.

Once mortgages are dealt with etc. They are probably the biggest drain on any income coming in.

I’m in my sixties now but I was fortunate enough to be able to stop working just before my fiftieth birthday.
As long as you don’t get into financial difficulties because of punting. Then your on the right track

Offline king tarzan

My overheads are low, I've got everything material I require..

So eating good qaulity curries is 👅👅👅👅 MAIN 1A
Mango delights 👅👅👅👅
Cigarettes
Boxing old vidoes of my heroes
UFC/MMA Fight vidoes
Clint Eastwood spaghetti westerns


Are my enjoyments..
« Last Edit: January 07, 2019, 12:42:44 pm by king tarzan »
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Offline Belgarion

My overheads are low, I've got everything material I require..

So eating good qaulity curries is 👅👅👅👅 MAIN 1A
Mango delights 👅👅👅👅
Cigarettes
Boxing old vidoes of my heroes
UFC/MMA Fight vidoes
Clint Eastwood spaghetti westerns


Are my enjoyments..

What about the Hedge Trimmer?

Offline king tarzan

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Offline redmagnus

I'd imagine it's between 30-40k at the bottom.....and a million plus at the top end....huge variation  :rolleyes:

Personally i'm somewhere in the middle.

Offline earlgreyman

Interesting question op!

I guess it depends where you live and your regular spend such as food, cars, holidays. Being a Londoner, a large portion of my income goes towards my rent/bills, so it's rare i get even £150 to spare - and these days I wouldn't pay £150 to see a WG anyway. I tend to go for FBSM or lower end 30 min bookings nowadays. I'm self employed so my income fluctuates a lot. I have a strict budget, but when i do have a decent month of profit, I like to spoil myself and spend a small portion on a portion ;)

Saying that, 10 or 15 years ago I'd visit higher class escorts quite regularly (200-250), but like any vice it can become an expensive habit. So, luckily the scene changed thanks to sites like AW. As much as it's a mine field to find the right girl, when you do, you can get more bang for your buck, quite literally.  :cool:



Offline king tarzan

Interesting question op!

I guess it depends where you live and your regular spend such as food, cars, holidays. Being a Londoner, a large portion of my income goes towards my rent/bills, so it's rare i get even £150 to spare - and these days I wouldn't pay £150 to see a WG anyway. I tend to go for FBSM or lower end 30 min bookings nowadays. I'm self employed so my income fluctuates a lot. I have a strict budget, but when i do have a decent month of profit, I like to spoil myself and spend a small portion on a portion ;)

Saying that, 10 or 15 years ago I'd visit higher class escorts quite regularly (200-250), but like any vice it can become an expensive habit. So, luckily the scene changed thanks to sites like AW. As much as it's a mine field to find the right girl, when you do, you can get more bang for your buck, quite literally.  :cool:

The starting position to use escorts regularly

Is in my opinion

Comfortable position
Above that is obviously well off and so forth

Below comfortable don't bother regular usage just very sparingly usage to avoid debts..
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Offline londonpunter1

You have to decide what you want to do with your disposable income.

You've hit the nail on the head, it's how you choose what to spend your disposable income that counts.

I earn slightly less than you OP, but my outgoings are very low and I really don't know what else to spend my money on. I'm not materialistic in any way. I hate shopping and would get no enjoyment out of spending money that way. As an example: My car is 12yrs old, I could buy a brand new one tomorrow without blinking, but mine works fine, so why would I bother?
The house is paid for, live on my own, I've never been married and have no kids (I suspect these things drain most people's finances)
So I punt as and when I feel and am happy to spend £250/hr doing it.

Offline king tarzan

You've hit the nail on the head, it's how you choose what to spend your disposable income that counts.

I earn slightly less than you OP, but my outgoings are very low and I really don't know what else to spend my money on. I'm not materialistic in any way. I hate shopping and would get no enjoyment out of spending money that way. As an example: My car is 12yrs old, I could buy a brand new one tomorrow without blinking, but mine works fine, so why would I bother?
The house is paid for, live on my own, I've never been married and have no kids (I suspect these things drain most people's finances)
So I punt as and when I feel and am happy to spend £250/hr doing it.

75% like for like with my circumstances.
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Offline Moby Dick

So your telling us you earn around £500k per year?
I'd imagine it's between 30-40k at the bottom.....and a million plus at the top end....huge variation  :rolleyes:

Personally i'm somewhere in the middle.

Offline a203203

earn low six figures but honestly after taxes...

Stevensmiles

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TAX........ what’s that ?

 :D


Oh bugger. I hope HMRC aren’t reading this  :lol:

Offline Reallytired86

I presume a lot of them work as PM/BA/software dev contractors in the UK like me, so our take home before tax is in excess of 110k (80k on the low end, some lucky ones are on maybe half a mill) and due to us setting it up as a ltd company, we even pay less tax than PAYE.
« Last Edit: January 09, 2019, 10:38:45 am by Reallytired86 »

Offline AriT

I assume if you can bill at more than their hourly rate you can afford them ;)

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Offline king tarzan

I assume if you can bill at more than their hourly rate you can afford them ;)

Why?
To prove to a whore that you have money?
What a joke!!
I pay them what there rate is only!
Why should I pay them more?
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Online Grandslam

Why?
To prove to a whore that you have money?
What a joke!!
I pay them what there rate is only!
Why should I pay them more?

That's not what he said, read his post again

Online GreyDave

 :hi:  I started punting when I was a Teenager and did a paper round , washed cars and did other small jobs .....(you know ones done by Romanian Guys Car washing Grass cutting crap building helper)  :D :D

I punted in Soho and often shagged the odd civie, after laying out 3 times what a shag would be on meal drinks ect :scare: :scare: Walk ups were 15 and now some are still 20 I have shagged a few starpunts at 150hr and onestupidly at 200hr duo all treats but most shaggs are 20-50-80 quid 1/2hr deals its a spunk up hobby not a realtionship ...

Many of us on here either consider punting a Fucking Luxury or a Fucking nessesity  ( spellings crap sorry )  :D :D
« Last Edit: January 09, 2019, 03:56:05 pm by GreyDave »

Offline advent2016

As I've said elsewhere. I set my self a punting budget, (last few years £200 per week, £9K per year), and if I don't punt for say 3 weeks I have £600 to spend on a single punt. Often at year end I have £5K spare so spend it on a multi day punt.


Offline wombat42

Soon to be XRP millionaire ;-)

I may buy some more Bitcoin Cash at the bottom of the market. The bear market may go on for another six months. I am paying a massive amount of capital gains to HMRC in the next week or two. I am probably one of the very few in the country paying tax on their bitcoin gains. I stuck out like a sore thumb with well over a million quid suddenly appearing in my bank current account, HMRC would probably have got wind of that anyway so I proactively submitted it for tax.

Offline king tarzan

I may buy some more Bitcoin Cash at the bottom of the market. The bear market may go on for another six months. I am paying a massive amount of capital gains to HMRC in the next week or two. I am probably one of the very few in the country paying tax on their bitcoin gains. I stuck out like a sore thumb with well over a million quid suddenly appearing in my bank current account, HMRC would probably have got wind of that anyway so I proactively submitted it for tax.

If priced within reason just enjoy..
Any beautiful woman can end up escorting..
Many backgrounds..
Escorting has no colours apart from the colour of MONEY
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