Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men

[peter purves]

New territory for me...Now starting a thread

With regard to the aforesaid subject header:

Off late I rarely attempt to have a plan B, C , D etc if my initial punt falls through. I now just see it 'as it was meant not to be'

I wonder how many who have back-up plans are 'fulfilled' with their back up plans or has the weight of expectation with their initial escort has affected the perception of the punt of plan B, etc?

Perhaps there are others who do as I do but how do you feel when you take this course of actions? It has taken me a very long time to reach this position of having no back-up

[vw]

I don't plan ahead specific punts, I mainly do same day punting.

Have 20 ish future punts planned in my head so never caught up on the plan, seems an alien concept to me focusing all my thoughts on one prossie!

Serves me well, when I want a punt I more often than not get one.

Maybe not in the order i intended when calling but had intentions of fucking them anyway !

Maybe the its easier for the outcall punter to have more options ? 

Quick question

Why have someone you don't really want to meet as your plan B before you changed to your new method ?

[peter purves]

Don't plan, do same day punting

Have 20 ish future punts planned in my head so never caught up on the plan a you stalk about so fondly, seems an alien concept to me focusing all my thoughts on one prossie!

Serves me well, when I want a punt I more often than not get one.

Maybe not in the order i intended when calling but had intentions of fucking them anyway !

Quick question

Why have someone you don't really want to meet as your plan B before you changed to your new method ?

What I have found is that generally the second alternatives do not live up to the expectations in my mind with my first choice. Perhaps it is part of the cognitive process and perhaps that is why they are second or third choices, if you follow?

I can understand by how you think, your thought processes, why this may not apply to you.

Nonetheless, it must apply to you in some way, even if a little bit that say plan b (ie escort b), could prove to be much better than plan a (escort a) or may even produce a a greater and more positive effect in you.

I was just interested in hearing what others have found

[vw]

What I have found is that generally the second alternatives do not live up to the expectations in my mind with my first choice. Perhaps it is part of the cognitive process and perhaps that is why they are second or third choices, if you follow?

I can understand by how you think, your thought processes, why this may not apply to you.

Nonetheless, it must apply to you in some way, even if a little bit that say plan b (ie escort b), could prove to be much better than plan a (escort a) or may even produce a a greater and more positive effect in you.

I was just interested in hearing what others have found

Makes sense, we are all different, i never know if going to be bothered punting until i get up, let alone consulted the pre-researched.

Planning ahead and focusing possibly, leads to distraction and lots of what ifs in your mind when you do end up punting the plan b.

Very difficult to compare to to scenarios ! We all have out own way, mine suits my lifestyle.  If i lived as others do, would probably have similar feelings!

[peter purves]

Planning ahead and focusing possibly, leads to distraction and lots of what ifs in your mind when you do end up punting the plan b.

I have never thought of it in this way but I think you are right.

I am very anarchistic when it comes to punting which may not have come out in my original post, for instance I have never incorporated a 'to do list',
 I punt according to how I feel on the day etc etc

[vw]

I have never thought of it in this way but I think you are right.

I am very anarchistic when it comes to punting which may not have come out in my original post, for instance I have never incorporated a 'to do list',
 I punt according to how I feel on the day etc etc.

I just have options, many of them and anyone who is an option has been researched to check for trap doors, psycho behaviour, tardiness.  You sound like you start with a blank canvas every time so you don't really have a plan A in the same way other people do.

Also do the new if i fancy on of them and no iffy profile flags and they answer me quickly enough.

[peter purves]

I just have options, many of them and anyone who is an option has been researched to check for trap doors, psycho behaviour, tardiness.  You sound like you start with a blank canvas every time so you don't really have a plan A in the same way other people do.

Also do the new if i fancy on of them and no iffy profile flags and they answer me quickly enough.

Having re-read your post (sometimes good to do that) I deleted my initial response.

As for plan A, I just defined it as what 'you' wanted first, anything else is either a second or third choice (ie So  more a matter of fact).

Maybe you are correct on your assessment of me 

[Steve2]

Normally my Plan A would be a new girl who ticks all the boxes on paper. If that fell through, Plan B, C etc would be someone I'd already seen and knew to be good

[smiths]

New territory for me...Now starting a thread

With regard to the aforesaid subject header:

Off late I rarely attempt to have a plan B, C , D etc if my initial punt falls through. I now just see it 'as it was meant not to be'

I wonder how many who have back-up plans are 'fulfilled' with their back up plans or has the weight of expectation with their initial escort has affected the perception of the punt of plan B, etc?

Perhaps there are others who do as I do but how do you feel when you take this course of actions? It has taken me a very long time to reach this position of having no back-up

I always have a plan B option, usually a regular and the punt is virtually always a good punt, I wouldn't punt without a plan B and never think it wasn't meant to be.

All about being well organised for me, I ensure I am when wanting to punt.

[stevedave]

I don't tend to have a plan B lined up. Like VW, I'm usually a same say when the feeling takes me punter.

That said, I do tend to check the AW "available today" search just incase anything goes wrong, so I can see who might be available at short notice if needed.