I need some thoughts and opinions, Im new to all this…

[bossn]

Hello everyone,

I’m a virgin and am looking to find a TS to have sex with, I found one but she has an OF and seems to do bareback quite a bit. Tbh generally I am pretty scared I’ll contract something somewhere from someone and it’s got me quite scared but I also really really want to go through with doing this. What did you guys feel you first time you did this, and how has it been (have you contracted anything).

thanks

[JontyR]

Honestly mate, ask yourself is the first sexual experience you have to be a paid one?

Do you want to have it with a TS?

Is this really what you want?

[JontyR]

But in answer to some of your questions....

If she's got nothing then you won't catch anything. But you should always assume they have something.

If she's got something then use of condoms will reduce risks.

Receiving is much more dangerous than giving.

Lube, lube and more lube. But stuff that won't wreck the condom.

Listening to folks on a punting forum is also dangerous.  There's plenty of advice on safe sex out there. Read it. Particularly stuff that is targetted at those that are partaking in the activities that you want to try.

[Nagilum]

Hello everyone,

I’m a virgin and am looking to find a TS to have sex with, I found one but she has an OF and seems to do bareback quite a bit. Tbh generally I am pretty scared I’ll contract something somewhere from someone and it’s got me quite scared but I also really really want to go through with doing this. What did you guys feel you first time you did this, and how has it been (have you contracted anything).

thanks

Getting bored during the school holidays are we.

[shed]

Getting bored during the school holidays are we.

My thought exactly. Very naive post. Maybe wrong but just my opinion.

[Thephoenix]

My thought exactly. Very naive post. Maybe wrong but just my opinion.

I'm not sure if the OP means he's just  an anal virgin or a virgin per se??

[Jonestown]

Getting bored during the school holidays are we.

I'd have thought the joining process and membership fee would have deterred school boy curiosity and devilment, but I may be wrong.

I'm assuming the OP is only a virgin as regards paid for sex, in which case if he is determined to go ahead and see a TS then scour the reviews and see if he can find one who sounds reasonably balanced and not highly strung, the last thing you'd want is an SP throwing a major strop on your first punt.

[daviemac]

I'm not sure if the OP means he's just  an anal virgin or a virgin per se??

That's why we should give him a chance and see how the thread develops.

[stampjones]

Honestly mate, ask yourself is the first sexual experience you have to be a paid one?

Dont see why not. Mine was a drunk one. Is that any better? At least if its paid he has more control over getting what he wants. If I was losing mine again Id go paid.

[JontyR]

Dont see why not. Mine was a drunk one. Is that any better?

Fair enough, but he's asked for advice. We have had plenty of threads here about how punting is addictive and how it can give a different perspective of sex and how you conduct yourselves in the real world.

At least if its paid he has more control over getting what he wants. If I was losing mine again Id go paid.

Well I hope if he does proceed he does get that control. Again plenty of stories on here about disastrous first punts and first TS punts.

[TheMagnet]

BB is very prevalent with TSs (probably due to prep).

Don’t try and hunt down an angel who doesn’t do it.  You just have to assume they’re doing it with someone.

If you wanna be safe just wear a condom for sex, oral without is fine.

Typically guys start off by being top and then eventually trying bottom and then decide which they like or both.

Just pick a couple of girls you fancy visiting and drop their links here and hopefully someone can give you feedback on what they’re like to help you decide.

[Thephoenix]

Bossn

Are you a virgin or just wanting advice on your first experience with a TS? 

[alabama1]

Bossn

Are you a virgin or just wanting advice on your first experience with a TS? 

He doesn't seem desperate for any advice.

[bossn]

I'm not sure if the OP means he's just  an anal virgin or a virgin per se??

I worded it badly, I meant I’ve never done anal and never had sex with a TS before.

[bossn]

Bossn

Are you a virgin or just wanting advice on your first experience with a TS? 

Advice on a first paid experience with a TS, I’ve never paid for sex and never had an experience with a TS

[bossn]

He doesn't seem desperate for any advice.

I looked and found a TS I’m attracted too, messaged them but now am getting cold feet and want to hear how other people found their first experience and what they did or what they would’ve done if they regret anything. I’m not going to sit on this website all day waiting for responses if that’s what makes it seem as If i don’t want advice….

[Thephoenix]

Advice on a first paid experience with a TS, I’ve never paid for sex and never had an experience with a TS

Ok chum, now it's clear, so we'll start again.
First of all....welcome to the forum!

[Southernbloke]

Advice on a first paid experience with a TS, I’ve never paid for sex and never had an experience with a TS

My first and only experience was with this SP
External Link/Members Only

It put me right off as all I was allowed to do was look and wank myself off . Oh she also allowed me to pay her!!!!!!

[Thephoenix]

Hello everyone,

I’m a virgin and am looking to find a TS to have sex with, I found one but she has an OF and seems to do bareback quite a bit. Tbh generally I am pretty scared I’ll contract something somewhere from someone and it’s got me quite scared but I also really really want to go through with doing this. What did you guys feel you first time you did this, and how has it been (have you contracted anything).

thanks

Now we know what you want, what you really really want.   

It's (a) your first paid for sex,
+ (b) your first experience with a TS.

Have you mainly joined the site to get advice about TS punts as it's not common for new punters to embark on their first punt with a TS?
If so that's fine you'll have plenty of like minded guys on here.
 
Many of us have succumbed to the lure of experiencing sex with a gorgeous TS.
It's curiosity, kinky, naughty and for many gives an opportunity to enjoy the delights of another penis attached to a feminine body, without necessarily wanting to engage in a full gay experience. But that's a controversial subject on here and people get too bogged down on labels.

You can start off asking about specific TS SP you're interested in and reading reviews in your region.
Reviews will not only help you to choose your SP but will give insights into other peoples experiences, including many first timers like yourself.

For many punters the fantasy of sex with a gorgeous TS can be very seductive.
The reality sometimes doesn't live up to expectations, particularly your first experience, that's why choosing your first lady is important.
Particularly look for TS who indicate they welcome first timers.
When you first enquire, make that clear to them.
Probably best to pick an experienced SP as your first choice.
In my first encounters years ago, the ladies I visited were usually quite chuffed to see a first timer. In fact I often used to make that part of my fantasy even when I became more experienced.

It's common to get very nervous for any first time punt, so doubly so for a TS.
You may get cold feet, or your nerves may adversely effect your experience.
Don't necessarily let that first experience deter you.

There's a lot of long in the tooth seasoned punters on here, and it's hard to remember just how nervous or disastrous some of our early punts were.
Your confidence will improve over time.

In relation to the practicalities, I'd suggest buying a couple of different size dildos if you haven't already to practice on yourself to get used to the feeling if you're interested in being a bottom. There's plenty of advice on google about preparing for anal sex.

In relation to STIs, it's a case of ensuring you don't get tempted into BB sex.
In well over 30/40 yes of punting I've never had a STI, and in any case it's far easier to get tested these days anyway.

Good luck!

[nwluvit]

Why not try a massage with a TS first? Step by step may be best

[tynetunnel]

Getting bored during the school holidays are we.

I would suggest those days are behind us, with the annual fee for new members 

[Chris1990mcr]

My first TS experience was many years ago and was with a black TS in Manchester at the time called Tyra.

A few shit ones then followed with visiting brazilians. I fancy brazilians more but tend to see the thai trans girls now as the service is likely to be better.

I had watched normal porn and just randomly ended up seeing a few tranny videos. Liked what I saw.

I'd visit a few normal girl escorts and enjoyed just turning up, paying for something and then being able to pick options like anal etc.

I enjoyed my first TS encounter. Was absolutely bricking it. I've kept going back.

I can't think of times i've been offered bareback sex with normal girls in punting.

In the TS world it is far more prevalent. Up until this point, and an earlier poster in this thread says due to prep, but I just always have thought well they can't get pregnant can they.

 I asume the last punter they saw was without protection. Just use a rubber and you will be fine.

Which girl are you interested in, at least between the posters here we can probably point you to a good one and ensure first experience is bloody good and memorable. Where are you  going to punt ie bristol, manchester, london I am sure we can make your first one a good one.

[Colston36]

Getting bored during the school holidays are we.

I thought our role was to give each other advice, not take the piss out of members.

[bossn]

My first TS experience was many years ago and was with a black TS in Manchester at the time called Tyra.

A few shit ones then followed with visiting brazilians. I fancy brazilians more but tend to see the thai trans girls now as the service is likely to be better.

I had watched normal porn and just randomly ended up seeing a few tranny videos. Liked what I saw.

I'd visit a few normal girl escorts and enjoyed just turning up, paying for something and then being able to pick options like anal etc.

I enjoyed my first TS encounter. Was absolutely bricking it. I've kept going back.

I can't think of times i've been offered bareback sex with normal girls in punting.

In the TS world it is far more prevalent. Up until this point, and an earlier poster in this thread says due to prep, but I just always have thought well they can't get pregnant can they.

 I asume the last punter they saw was without protection. Just use a rubber and you will be fine.

Which girl are you interested in, at least between the posters here we can probably point you to a good one and ensure first experience is bloody good and memorable. Where are you  going to punt ie bristol, manchester, london I am sure we can make your first one a good one.

I am in london, the type of TS I was looking for generally were well endowed in all areas, I am attracted to slimmer skinnier ones but more the ones with a bit larger boobs, ass, dick. Obviously don’t mind if one isnt as big etc. but I’m really not too picky the choice is what made it difficult ontop of my prior worries. If you could send over any well known/well reviewed ts in london I’d appreciate it.

Also trying to navigate the website is there anywhere that allows me to specifically look at TS escorts and their total positive, neutral or negative reviews? I can only seem to find individual reviews.

thanks

[bossn]

Now we know what you want, what you really really want.   

It's (a) your first paid for sex,
+ (b) your first experience with a TS.

Have you mainly joined the site to get advice about TS punts as it's not common for new punters to embark on their first punt with a TS?
If so that's fine you'll have plenty of like minded guys on here.
 
Many of us have succumbed to the lure of experiencing sex with a gorgeous TS.
It's curiosity, kinky, naughty and for many gives an opportunity to enjoy the delights of another penis attached to a feminine body, without necessarily wanting to engage in a full gay experience. But that's a controversial subject on here and people get too bogged down on labels.

You can start off asking about specific TS SP you're interested in and reading reviews in your region.
Reviews will not only help you to choose your SP but will give insights into other peoples experiences, including many first timers like yourself.

For many punters the fantasy of sex with a gorgeous TS can be very seductive.
The reality sometimes doesn't live up to expectations, particularly your first experience, that's why choosing your first lady is important.
Particularly look for TS who indicate they welcome first timers.
When you first enquire, make that clear to them.
Probably best to pick an experienced SP as your first choice.
In my first encounters years ago, the ladies I visited were usually quite chuffed to see a first timer. In fact I often used to make that part of my fantasy even when I became more experienced.

It's common to get very nervous for any first time punt, so doubly so for a TS.
You may get cold feet, or your nerves may adversely effect your experience.
Don't necessarily let that first experience deter you.

There's a lot of long in the tooth seasoned punters on here, and it's hard to remember just how nervous or disastrous some of our early punts were.
Your confidence will improve over time.

In relation to the practicalities, I'd suggest buying a couple of different size dildos if you haven't already to practice on yourself to get used to the feeling if you're interested in being a bottom. There's plenty of advice on google about preparing for anal sex.

In relation to STIs, it's a case of ensuring you don't get tempted into BB sex.
In well over 30/40 yes of punting I've never had a STI, and in any case it's far easier to get tested these days anyway.

Good luck!

do you receive/give oral without condom quite a lot or na, I understand why and would avoid BB but I’ve seen online oral without a condom has risks but it’s generally low risk.

Also what is an SP? I may sound stupid but I’ve searched online and can’t find what it means

[daviemac]

Also trying to navigate the website is there anywhere that allows me to specifically look at TS escorts and their total positive, neutral or negative reviews? I can only seem to find individual reviews.

thanks

Either click on the transgender link at the top of the main page for all reviews and posts or the transgender review section of the area you're interested in and if the SP is on AW then any other reviews will be linked and show at the top of the review.

[southcoastpunter]

Also what is an SP? I may sound stupid but I’ve searched online and can’t find what it means

SP=Service Provider (eg the Escort). we are SS's (Service Seekers)

have a look at External Link/Members Only

[TheMagnet]

have a look at External Link/Members Only

Hadn’t seen this site yet.

This one had me in hysterics!

Chelsea Cloisters: A large serviced apartment/extended hotel in West London, said to be home base to dozens of escorts. 'Ten floors of Whores'
 

[foobarbaz]

I am in london, the type of TS I was looking for generally were well endowed in all areas, I am attracted to slimmer skinnier ones but more the ones with a bit larger boobs, ass, dick. Obviously don’t mind if one isnt as big etc. but I’m really not too picky the choice is what made it difficult ontop of my prior worries. If you could send over any well known/well reviewed ts in london I’d appreciate it.

Also trying to navigate the website is there anywhere that allows me to specifically look at TS escorts and their total positive, neutral or negative reviews? I can only seem to find individual reviews.

thanks

Unfortunately not, you cannot filter by service provider stats, you really have to go around and click on the various reviews (I obviously recommend to focus on the one marked as positive in this section)

With that said who is the one you got your eyes on? If you share her profile we can probably let you know whether she is good or not in general and maybe what to watch out for. For the big boobs, big ass type External Link/Members Only caught my interest recently unfortunately I couldn't find any intel in the forum but possibly someone knows her.

[TheMagnet]

I am in london, the type of TS I was looking for generally were well endowed in all areas, I am attracted to slimmer skinnier ones but more the ones with a bit larger boobs, ass, dick. Obviously don’t mind if one isnt as big etc. but I’m really not too picky the choice is what made it difficult ontop of my prior worries. If you could send over any well known/well reviewed ts in london I’d appreciate it.

Also trying to navigate the website is there anywhere that allows me to specifically look at TS escorts and their total positive, neutral or negative reviews? I can only seem to find individual reviews.

thanks

Good news you’re in London.  There’s a lot of choice about.  They come here for 6 months to work and then when their VISA runs out they leave and then usually come back in a few months so in other words there’s a constant rotation of talent popping up.

Go onto London TS or Birch Place and tell us who you fancy and we’ll let know what’s good! 

[Snagbadjer]

Go for a Thai. And avoid Latinas. I may be racially stereotyping, but all the Thai chicks I've seen were really gentle and submissive. Latinas are much more feisty which could put off a newbie. Maybe it's different with TSs, though.

[ptt67]

Go for a Thai. And avoid Latinas. I may be racially stereotyping, but all the Thai chicks I've seen were really gentle and submissive. Latinas are much more feisty which could put off a newbie. Maybe it's different with TSs, though.

There are plenty of gentle/naturally more submissive Latinas about too....so personally I think it's a question of going for girls with the physical appearance you most like and seeking out one of those who will fit the bill. Personally I am not remotely attracted to Thai ladyboys (we all have different physical preferences) - my first dabble was with a stunning Brazilian TS and it couldn't have been a better opening experience.

[TheMagnet]

Go for a Thai. And avoid Latinas. I may be racially stereotyping, but all the Thai chicks I've seen were really gentle and submissive. Latinas are much more feisty which could put off a newbie. Maybe it's different with TSs, though.

What you like is super subjective.  In my opinion Brazilian TSs are hotter than their Thai and Filipino counterparts (other opinions are perfectly valid). 

Known for their curvy bodies, tendency to have large cocks and their Latin flair/temperament.

The best sex I’ve ever had has been with Brazilian TSs, hence why I only really punt TSs these days.

Don’t get me wrong there are some Spanish looking Filipino SPs out there that are fucking amazing as well!

[Charliehutton]

Well done to all of our members who have responded to this post in such a reasonable way, and in such good faith.

I just don't buy it, though. There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?

[daviemac]

Well done to all of our members who have responded to this post in such a reasonable way, and in such good faith.

I just don't buy it, though. There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?

With everything that has been posted on this thread, including a mod saying we should give him a chance, do you really think your comment adds anything constructive? 

[Charliehutton]

With everything that has been posted on this thread, including a mod saying we should give him a chance, do you really think your comment adds anything constructive? 

Does every comment have to add something constructive? I was expressing an opinion, that's all, which I thought the site rules allowed.

[TheMagnet]

Well done to all of our members who have responded to this post in such a reasonable way, and in such good faith.

I just don't buy it, though. There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?

OP is clearly new to UKP and still doesn’t know his way around.

Truthfully aside from a TOFTT review, I assume like you say the vast majority of punting topics have been covered so once he’s learnt how to use the search function he can just explore.

The TS section has been light on content lately (assuming everyones away with the wife and kids, it is August after all).

I’m all good with giving the benefit of the doubt, at least he’s got a conversation going…

[daviemac]

Does every comment have to add something constructive? I was expressing an opinion, that's all, which I thought the site rules allowed.

Under the circumstances comments on this thread are expected to add something constructive. We are going to great lengths to get away from the negativity shown to new members/posters.

As the majority of comments show most people posting on this thread appreciate what we are trying to do and have offered the OP help and advice, though there are the exceptions who seem determined to deter new members.


 

[Charliehutton]

Under the circumstances comments on this thread are expected to add something constructive. We are going to great lengths to get away from the negativity shown to new members/posters.

As the majority of comments show most people posting on this thread appreciate what we are trying to do and have offered the OP help and advice, though there are the exceptions who seem determined to deter new members.

Davie, you do a great - and often thankless - job in policing the forum, and yes, I read your post saying we should give the OP a chance. The implication that I seem determined to deter new members, though, merely because my opinion differs from yours, is unfair.

[daviemac]

Davie, you do a great - and often thankless - job in policing the forum, and yes, I read your post saying we should give the OP a chance. The implication that I seem determined to deter new members, though, merely because my opinion differs from yours, is unfair.

Along with two others you posted a negative comment in regard to the OP's post, that is a fact and that is what we are trying to get away from, it has nothing to do with opinion.

There's reports on other forums that members here are frightened to post because of the negative reaction they think they might get and "There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?" is one such negative reaction. A constructive post would be to direct him to where he can find more information about what he's asking.

[Charliehutton]

Along with two others you posted a negative comment in regard to the OP's post, that is a fact and that is what we are trying to get away from, it has nothing to do with opinion.

There's reports on other forums that members here are frightened to post because of the negative reaction they think they might get and "There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?" is one such negative reaction. A constructive post would be to direct him to where he can find more information about what he's asking.

I'm not sure you exactly encourage members to offer opinions that may differ from yours, either.

Anyway, you win. I'm off to bed.

[daviemac]

I'm not sure you exactly encourage members to offer opinions that may differ from yours, either.

Anyway, you win. I'm off to bed.

How do you work out that me stating the fact that you posted a negative comment on this thread is an opinion?? Another member has even commented on your negative post.

What my posting will show is that we no longer tolerate people like you posting negative comments when new members ask questions.

Fact, the OP is a new member and is learning his way around the site and as such the current ethos of the site is to offer help, encouragement and guidance not tell them it's all been discussed before and question how many more thoughts and opinions could he want.

[JontyR]

I am in london, the type of TS I was looking for generally were well endowed in all areas, I am attracted to slimmer skinnier ones but more the ones with a bit larger boobs, ass, dick.

Ok, well here's a few hints based on punting TS - these aren't always the case but can help you avoid some pitfalls.

An SP will likely look as good as their worst photo.

If you want to see that they have got big tits, make sure you see a picture of big tits. If they are always covered, chances are they aren't actually tits.

If you want to see they have got a big cock (or that the cock is actually there's) make sure you can see a pic with the photo and then see is it photo shopped. (ie a picture of a different cock stuck on their body) Videos, often available on twitter feeds, are good sources of accurate info.

The other thing I'd say about a first punt and a first TS punt in particular, be certain you will be able to talk and understand the SP. Poor english when you are feeling your way is a big barrier - not saying it cant be over come but it can be a challenge especially if you are flustered on your first punt. '

Good luck and make sure you review.

[Jonestown]

If the OP is looking for large cocked TSs in London here are a couple of threads from the London Discussion Board that may assist:-

www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=293977.0

www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=218416.0

[ronaldo1980]

Here are a few of my personal guidelines:

Avoid any ad where the provider doesn't show their face. I'm looking to be topped so there also has to be at least one photo of a fully erect cock.

When taking one for the team (using a provider with no reviews on this website) make sure the provider has been on the scene for a while, ideally with a social media presence showing them with friends. If they are in photos, or have "toured" with other established, well-reviewed providers this is a plus.

No harm in being a bit of a search engine stalker! Image search their photos, google their name, find variations of their name and then google those too. A good way to check out an unknown quantity is to do a webcam session first. I did this with Gabby External Link/Members Only and she looked as per the photos and was sane, polite and sexy. About a month later I saw her in person and it made those scary minutes before entering a strange building a lot less scary, also she remembered me so we were both relaxed leading to a great session.

If they won't talk to you over the phone, or there's any shady behaviour, probably avoid though it may just be a language thing. I prefer to be able to hold a conversation so this is a generally a deal breaker for me, but the important point is that not talking over the phone even to grunt "versatile darling, 150 for one hour" is itself potentially shady.

Unless it's specifically what you're looking for, avoid providers who mention "partying" as it means they want to be, let's say, under the influence during a session. Especially avoid H&H, which imo refers to using the heavy stuff. For good measure, I tend to avoid ones who have the word "high" in their name, e.g. "High Katrina" or with names like "Cristal".

Often a provider might have a dozen great reviews, but then you notice they've been listed for five years and yet all the reviews took place inside three weeks in March 2020. In other words, be sceptical about what you read online, look at the dates and go into the details.

[bossn]

Well done to all of our members who have responded to this post in such a reasonable way, and in such good faith.

I just don't buy it, though. There's already an extensive transgender section covering London; just how many more thoughts and opinions could he want?

what don’t you buy, my initial post wasn’t even regarding what TS to go with, it was about me getting cold feet and being nervous and wanting to hear about peoples experiences and anything they think I should or shouldn’t do…I don’t get what you don’t buy lmao

[bossn]

Unfortunately not, you cannot filter by service provider stats, you really have to go around and click on the various reviews (I obviously recommend to focus on the one marked as positive in this section)

With that said who is the one you got your eyes on? If you share her profile we can probably let you know whether she is good or not in general and maybe what to watch out for. For the big boobs, big ass type External Link/Members Only caught my interest recently unfortunately I couldn't find any intel in the forum but possibly someone knows her.

This one, External Link/Members Only

This one Lara is the one who does BB quite a bit and I can’t find too many reviews. Nevertheless I find her pretty attractive, External Link/Members Only

I’m most interested in those two and spoke to them both so far, im just trying to find reviews on them. Looking at the first ones link now looks like the username changed so that might be helpful in finding reviews.

[bossn]

Good news you’re in London.  There’s a lot of choice about.  They come here for 6 months to work and then when their VISA runs out they leave and then usually come back in a few months so in other words there’s a constant rotation of talent popping up.

Go onto London TS or Birch Place and tell us who you fancy and we’ll let know what’s good! 

one of the ones I was looking had a lack of reviews, once I realised their name changed I searched them up and I saw some negative reviews one being from you lmao. So they're out, name was Rach XL or Blondie Candy or whatever it’s been changed from…The other I’m pretty attracted to is Lara Gabriela but again lack of reviews, External Link/Members Only

[Gethin_Thomas]

I wouldn't TOFTT for my first time. Choose one that is well reviewed, doesn't advertise or offer BB and speaks good English. Use plenty of water-based lube and condoms.

[Gethin_Thomas]

I wouldn't put too much stock in the safety of the SP based on OF. They may well have worked with a porn actor/ actress and established they are clean beforehand. You have to assume that every SP has done BB at some stage, or work on the basis they have.