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Offline OutForJustice80

Some advice would be majorly appreciated here. Writing this in a bit of a blind panic. Just had a condom split at the moment of ejaculation with a wg. She claims she is clean and checked as recently as two weeks. Anyone who's found themselves in a similarly shitty position, what did you do and what was the outcome?

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Offline closeshave

Link to the girl might help as done may know her here very well

carefree

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Ok, so she was allegedly checked two weeks ago....how many punters has she seen since then?

Gum clinic.

Offline OutForJustice80

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This is the girl. As far as I know I'm only the second person on here to see her. Tbh, as far as girls to have this happen with this is about as good as it gets. I'm pretty sure she's new, she even acted new, and the other girl in that flat is someone I trust to be a professional about things so hopefully she isn't bullshitting about the recent checks.

Go to a GUM clinic  :hi:

Obviously, but isn't there a period you should wait for to make sure you're cleared for everything?

Stealthshagger

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I wouldn't fool around until you have waited, plus tested plus gt results.

What is done is done, panic and stress don't help. Chances of anything are very low for you actually, by virtue of brevity, not dry friction, beng male (small area susceptible as opposed to interior of a vagina).

Relax, hard as it is. Chances are low of anything, and panic doesn't help.

Offline OutForJustice80

I wouldn't fool around until you have waited, plus tested plus gt results.

What is done is done, panic and stress don't help. Chances of anything are very low for you actually, by virtue of brevity, not dry friction, beng male (small area susceptible as opposed to interior of a vagina).

Relax, hard as it is. Chances are low of anything, and panic doesn't help.
This is the kind of talk I was hoping to hear. Thanks a lot Stealth. How long do I need to wait before testing? Week? Two weeks?

Steptoe

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I wouldn't fool around until you have waited, plus tested plus gt results.

What is done is done, panic and stress don't help. Chances of anything are very low for you actually, by virtue of brevity, not dry friction, beng male (small area susceptible as opposed to interior of a vagina).

Relax, hard as it is. Chances are low of anything, and panic doesn't help.

+1 for this.  Panic is not necessary. Just get the tests and RELAX. Nowt else you can do.
Some years ago I twice had condoms split when I was with a local "hotel girl" in Nigeria. Now THAT could be a cause for panic, especially as they do not have GUM clinics and it was to be 3 weeks before I was back in UK.  In the end - no problems

Step

Stealthshagger

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No worries. If I were you I would call, explain details and ask directly from the horse's mouth:

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But relax also.

Offline Brazilian Martian

I remember this happened to me 7 years ago in Clapham at a Latin parlour I was scared shit less she was also scared as well got checked out  a few weeks later. Relieved that i was ok but even up to this day sometimes I pull out mid thrust just to check  :thumbsup: the condom is intact

Offline MancSean

Is she on the pill? Tbh I would be more worried about her being pregnant than any std's

taplow

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Calm down everyone.  Everyone starts panicking, going onto automatic pilot - "go to a clinic right now, straight away, quick, quick get a taxi, urgent, urgent..."  The thing is, it's extremely unlikely that you've caught anything deadly. 
I agree with the poster above.  Pregnancy is a far more likely possibility.  Let's hope it's a girl, that way when she grows up, like her mother she'll go on the game so she can look after you in your retirement.   

Offline Brazilian Martian

Calm down everyone.  Everyone starts panicking, going onto automatic pilot - "go to a clinic right now, straight away, quick, quick get a taxi, urgent, urgent..."  The thing is, it's extremely unlikely that you've caught anything deadly. 
I agree with the poster above.  Pregnancy is a far more likely possibility.  Let's hope it's a girl, that way when she grows up, like her mother she'll go on the game so she can look after you in your retirement.   

That's low about hopefully it's a girl  :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :lol:

Offline OutForJustice80

That was the weird thing about it. I would have expected her to be just as worried as me but she was nonchalant about it. She's on the pill apparently.

Thanks for the advice guys. I'm much calmer now.

Offline fettish008


Offline Taggart

Split condoms happen. Fact of life, although relatively rare.

Bite the bullet, and visit a clinic. You cant take risks with your health or that of others.
Worst case scenario is you knob drops off.  :lol:

Bigboy69

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I had the same happen to me a few years ago was really worried so went to a G.U.M clinic and all was fine :) Thing is working girls all ways have sex protected so the chances of catching something nasty are slim your more likely to catch something from some slag in your local club.

NEGaz

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I've had it happen a few times over years. Never can get anything. But always got checked out though

Offline claretandblue

I had the same happen to me a few years ago was really worried so went to a G.U.M clinic and all was fine :) Thing is working girls all ways have sex protected so the chances of catching something nasty are slim your more likely to catch something from some slag in your local club.
hopefully the op will be fine but to say wg's always have sex protected is extremely dubious,what about their boyfriend,pimp,special regular etc etc?

Offline Punting Valley

Just go and get it checked out, although I doubt there is much to worry about, it s still better to get a peace of mind

Type_O_Negative

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hopefully the op will be fine but to say wg's always have sex protected is extremely dubious,what about their boyfriend,pimp,special regular etc etc?

If you were special regular - would you take this risk and have unprotected sex?

Offline NIK

When it happened to me, ironically on my first anal experience, I did fuck all.

That was in the 90's and I'm still here.   :yahoo:

Stealthshagger

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When it happened to me, ironically on my first anal experience, I did fuck all.

That was in the 90's and I'm still here.   :yahoo:

Anal would naturally worry more, especially as I assume you have had to take his word for it that it just split at the end, Nik.

:)

Offline GreyDave

 :hi:
Had a tight but lubed, Thai girl yesterday who pulled the condom part off as I withdrew and then messed about putting it back on. This is how they break I said to her.
In past have had several split and the ends break over years, the girls mostly have sighed and I have gone to bathroom with them rinsed and washed right away and they have douched themselfs with the shower . Gum clinic is a better be sure and safe end to it but it happends BB is most likely way of getting stuff.. Don t panic :drinks:
« Last Edit: April 17, 2015, 03:39:07 pm by GreyDave »

Offline NIK

Anal would naturally worry more, especially as I assume you have had to take his word for it that it just split at the end, Nik.

:)

Twas with a lady and I was wearing the condom!  :D

Having said that she was the one who noticed.  :blush:

Offline closeshave

People should remember that there is no point crying over spilt milk

Stealthshagger

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Unless that spilt milk fertilises an egg.


Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Yes bin there and a lovely nipper ensured:-)

However I STR reading in a journal once that the man is less likely to get an infection from a woman than vice versa. Can't remember now what the ratio was.

If it should happen again withdraw and as quick as you can wash your tackle throughly with soap and water espically under your foreskin if you have one and pee as much as you can and you might stand a chance of if there is any infectious bacteria oir virri around then they might not have a chance to do that much if at all. Of course if your doing the missus bareback then well, find some reason not to for a while which for most punters shouldn't be that much of a problem.

Then down the GUM clinic or just ring them tell them whats happened and take their advice and stop worrying.

Also it might be humane to keep in touch with the girl in question to see if either of you did have any STI's etc..

jcdmj12

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Check this thread out on an HIV forum:

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tldr; you are very unlikely to contract HIV through this happening.  The prossie has more reason to be freaked out, she bears the higher risk here.

Offline Equilibrium

I have also had an experience like this and did not feel the urge to post it, as nothing bad really took place. The girl said it was her second day doing it and looked new, her lack of experience by not applying any lube or being wet in this case, did cause the condom to split, but neither of us noticed until i shot my load inside her and pulled out. I guess that explains the reason of me exploding in such a short time. Thankfully it was her first/second day into this and due to the location i don't think anyone actually came to her, her profile did not state bareback, so I was not that worried,and even though the session was for an hour for £90 and only lasted for 15 minutes, I did not feel the need to ask for half of my money back as it was a very awkward situation in the room. It has been a month+ and nothing has happened, did visit the GUM clinic, and nothing really happened after that.
So to sum it up, the chances are very very low for any chance of the bad things being passed on to you. So do not be worried, and just be careful next time if you dont want to end in that situation again. :drinks:


Roulette

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I've also had this. Waited 2-4 weeks and got tested. All clear.

Looking back on it I ran so many red lights. First the condom was not a good fit. I knew it as soon as it was on but figured it would be OK. It was a thin condom. Toothy oral and no new condom. The girl was not turned on and was dry as a bone. Took a long time and changed positions. Genuinely didn't notice the condom had gone until I withdrew. Looked down expecting to pull out a condom heavy with cum and instead saw the bare head of my cock and the shredded remains at the base. I freaked. She was a little suspicious at first but then amazingly calm.


Offline claretandblue

If you were special regular - would you take this risk and have unprotected sex?

Nope not in a month of sundays, unfortunately not everyone is as sensible as me...

Bigboy69

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hopefully the op will be fine but to say wg's always have sex protected is extremely dubious,what about their boyfriend,pimp,special regular etc etc?

Get what your saying but I tend to stay away from that sort of escort.

Offline blue

Get what your saying but I tend to stay away from that sort of escort.

How do you do that exactly? You'll never know what a pro$$ie gets up to behind closed doors.

Bigboy69

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How do you do that exactly? You'll never know what a pro$$ie gets up to behind closed doors.

Maybe I'm just naive but doubt that higher class escorts have special clients that they do bare back with ! Why would they risk there sexual health when there always busy with normal clients and again with the pimp ! The girls I tend to see are at the higher end of the price bracket not some junkie needing her next fix or a street walker. Again maybe I'm naive  :angelgirl:  but yes your right re the boyfriend but again a girl that takes such precautions in her working life I find it doubtful she'd risk having sex with someone who has std's.

Offline peter_bungee

extremely unlikely (almost impossible) you have caught anything like hep b or HIV and if you have caught anything else you will know about it in the coming days.