Punting problems

[Jzle]

Hi all,

I'm a relatively new punter, mostly going for 'massages' for now and one proper escort from aw, but have now had 3 bad experiences when going for a full service, namely that I get a raging when being massaged, but when going for the pen it doesn't want to cooperate, even though the girl is smokin, and I end up not getting the service I wanted, which is a) disappointing and b) embarrassing :/ anyone else had this problem before?

Thanks.

[Bobdayley]

Hi Jzle,
I am the opposite as soon as I enter the room and see the escort naked, I have the urge to come even without teaching her. What I do is try to control myself so I don't waste my time. I will explode the last 5 minute of my time.
You probably watched a lot of porn movies in your life that's why I think but you need to go a sex therapist, they are able to help you.
For now I am afraid you have to be contented with massage.

Good luck.
 

[nova painted floozie]

Hi all,

I'm a relatively new punter, mostly going for 'massages' for now and one proper escort from aw, but have now had 3 bad experiences when going for a full service, namely that I get a raging when being massaged, but when going for the pen it doesn't want to cooperate, even though the girl is smokin, and I end up not getting the service I wanted, which is a) disappointing and b) embarrassing :/ anyone else had this problem before?

Thanks.

Have you thought about going to your GP for a helping hand in the form of medication? Might put the bounce back in your pogo. 

[CatBBW]

Have you thought about going to your GP for a helping hand in the form of medication? Might put the bounce back in your pogo. 

Doesn't sound like he needs meds, he gets a hard-on, just when it comes to the FULL deed his willy doesn't want to co-operate. That to me sounds like anxiety - perhaps about performance, or the fact it's a norty paid-for lady, or that he's 'cheating', and he's then stressed/embarrassed/shy and ends up not being able to tell the lady exactly what he wants, and then it becomes a vicious circle...

I'm wondering OP if 1) you are putting too much pressure on yourself, and 2) not currently choosing the right ladies for the job? Some ladies can't deal with Mr Floppy and don't know what to do if there's no hard cock in the room...

[nova painted floozie]

I thought that too, Cat, but meds can give an extra boost to guys who suffer from Uncooperative Penis Syndrome.
I'd say try Cat's psychology first and if that doesn't work don't be afraid to ask your GP for a helping hand. 

[CatBBW]

I thought that too, Cat, but meds can give an extra boost to guys who suffer from Uncooperative Penis Syndrome.
I'd say try Cat's psychology first and if that doesn't work don't be afraid to ask your GP for a helping hand. 

 

And be kind to yourself. Don't just expect your manhood to do exactly what you want! Take your time. Take HIS time.

[Jzle]

I'm wondering OP if 1) you are putting too much pressure on yourself, and 2) not currently choosing the right ladies for the job? Some ladies can't deal with Mr Floppy and don't know what to do if there's no hard cock in the room...

How do you suggest I pick my ladies to try and help this issue then? I am generally quite a shy dude yea.

[Quesadilla]

How do you suggest I pick my ladies to try and help this issue then? I am generally quite a shy dude yea.

I first punted nearly 20 years ago and was very nervous around women.  On one or two occasions I had trouble performing due to anxiety. It is really frustrating because once you have been through that once, you only need the suggestion that it might happen again to MAKE it happen. 

If your're shy then naturally you feel awkward around strangers so every new WG is going to have this effect to some extent, but it sounds like you are only anxious when it comes to performing so definitely consider two options:

1) Find a slightly more mature / experienced WG who sounds like she would be friendly and patient, and ask her to help you out.  Assuming she can get you going once, go back to her a few times which will build your confidence up then you can go on to someone else.

2) Alternatively - or if the above fails - go down the Erectile Dysfunction medication route as mentioned above - Viagra/Levitra/Cialis are all pretty much guaranteed to work when you have issues getting it up. Take just a small dose - 5-10mg should be sufficient (so if need be half or even quarter of a tablet) - just to give yourself a helping hand.  Again, just use until you build your confidence up and then wean yourself off.

That's what I'd do anyway. 

[iPad3]

It may well be a bit of anxiety, I can get it up no problem but have always found during sex I have a bit of trouble, I can't arsed now and just pop a pill before a punt.

No issues whatsoever, probably don't need it very time but I just don't worry about it anywhere and hey presto wood when required every time!

[Jzle]

1) Find a slightly more mature / experienced WG who sounds like she would be friendly and patient, and ask her to help you out.  Assuming she can get you going once, go back to her a few times which will build your confidence up then you can go on to someone else.

Do you (or anyone else!) have any recommendations along this line?

[Jzle]

Anyone got any suggestions for a more mature/exp wg as per Ques' suggestion? Cheers.